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Living by Oak Values

Living by Oak Values

Written by: Robert and Gary
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 Living life with values means making choices and taking actions that align with your core beliefs and principles. It involves having a clear understanding of what is important to you and using those values as a guide for your thoughts, words, and behavior.

1. Authenticity: Living with values means being true to yourself and staying aligned with your genuine beliefs and principles. It involves being honest with yourself and others, and not compromising your values for the sake of external pressures or expectations.
2. Integrity: Living with values means acting in accordance with your moral and ethical principles. It involves consistently making choices that are honest, fair, and ethical, even when faced with difficult situations or temptations.
3. Purpose: Living with values means having a sense of purpose and direction in life. It involves identifying what is truly important to you and pursuing goals and activities that align with those values. Living with purpose gives your life meaning and fulfillment.
4. Compassion: Living with values means treating others with kindness, empathy, and respect. It involves considering the needs and feelings of others and acting in a way that promotes fairness, equality, and justice. Living with compassion fosters positive relationships and contributes to a harmonious society.
5. Growth and Learning: Living with values means continually striving to grow, learn, and improve. It involves being open-minded, seeking new experiences, and challenging yourself to expand your knowledge and understanding. Living with a growth mindset allows you to adapt and evolve in alignment with your values.
Remember, living your life with values is a personal journey, and the specific values you hold may be different from others. It is important to reflect on your own values, define what they mean to you, and actively incorporate them into your daily life choices and actions.
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Episodes
  • Strong Men, Strong Relationships: How Brotherhood, Boundaries, and Belief Create Healthy Relationships

    Strong Men, Strong Relationships: How Brotherhood, Boundaries, and Belief Create Healthy Relationships
    Jan 23 2026
    In this episode of "Living By Oak Values," hosts Northman Coaching's Gary and AJ delve into the essential relationships every man should cultivate for a fulfilling life. They discuss the four key relationships: with God, oneself, brotherhood, and family. AJ emphasizes the importance of self-relationship as foundational, while Northman Coaching highlights the significance of a higher power. The conversation transitions into the ten rules for healthy relationships, including communication, accountability, and intimacy, with both hosts sharing personal anecdotes and insights. They stress the necessity of boundaries and the dangers of relying solely on family for emotional support, advocating for a strong brotherhood to share burdens and maintain healthy dynamics in personal relationships.


    #strongmen #healthyrelationships #brotherhood #boundaries #selfrelationship #communication, accountability #intimacy #marriagerules #personalgrowth #faith #divorce

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    51 mins
  • Integrity Is the Alignment of Faith, Conviction, and Action

    Integrity Is the Alignment of Faith, Conviction, and Action
    Jan 16 2026
    Keywords
    #integrity #values #parenting #self-reflection #personalgrowth #faith #conviction #actions #lifestyle #coaching

    Summary
    In this episode, the host delves into the concept of integrity, emphasizing its importance in personal values and actions. Drawing from a church discussion, he highlights the significance of self-reflection through three pivotal questions: 'Who told you?', 'Where are you?', and 'What have you done?'. The conversation transitions into the role of parenting, stressing that a parent's primary responsibility is to raise their children with integrity and values, avoiding knee-jerk reactions that could lead to chaos. The host encourages listeners to reflect on their influences and the lifestyle they are building based on their actions and values.

    Takeaways
    Integrity blends into everything we do.
    Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth.
    Who you listen to shapes your values.
    Your actions reflect your integrity.
    Parenting requires thoughtful decision-making.
    Knee-jerk reactions can have serious consequences.
    Raising children is a primary responsibility.
    Values determine lifestyle choices.
    Live by your core values.
    Integrity is proven through actions, not words.

    Titles
    The Essence of Integrity in Life
    Parenting with Integrity: A Guide

    Sound bites
    "Who are you listening to?"
    "Your job is to raise your kid."
    "Be a good parent."

    Chapters
    00:00 Exploring Integrity: The Foundation of Values
    11:01 The Role of Parenting in Upholding Integrity
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    13 mins
  • Integrity: Who you are when nobody is watching

    Integrity: Who you are when nobody is watching
    Jan 9 2026
    Summary
    In this conversation, the Gary and AJ delve into the concept of integrity, sharing personal experiences and insights on how it shapes their lives. They discuss the importance of authenticity, accountability, and the challenges of maintaining integrity in modern life. The conversation also touches on the role of apologies, parenting, and the distinction between toxic masculinity and true masculinity, emphasizing that integrity should be a foundational value in personal growth.
    Keywords
    #integrity #authenticity #accountability #personalgrowth #masculinity #parenting #values #apologies #selfimprovement #life lessons
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    39 mins
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