Continuing their conversation on spiritual bypassing, James and Mike examine how Christian culture can unintentionally reward performance while neglecting inner health. From prayer and Bible study to service and leadership, they ask an uncomfortable question: what if the things we praise most are sometimes the very things that help us avoid the work we actually need to do?

In part one of this conversation, James and Mike discuss the idea of spiritual bypassing—when Christian language is used as a means of avoiding responsibility and action. Phrases like “I’ll pray about it” or “God’s in control” can sound deeply spiritual...but sometimes they function as a way of stepping back from hard decisions, uncomfortable emotions, or the work we’re actually being invited to do.

What happens when evangelism stops being about fixing people and starts being about loving them? In this episode, Mike and James look at how Jesus formed disciples, how He let people grow at their own pace, and why being genuinely present in someone's life is more powerful than perfectly crafted arguments. They explore why healthy evangelism requires time, patience, and integrity — and how living a decent life often speaks louder than anything we say.

Evangelism isn’t supposed to be toxic—but sometimes it is. Mike and James unpack how evangelism can drift into manipulation when it’s more about convincing, counting, or controlling than actually loving people. They also take aim at “friendship evangelism,” the version that pretends to be relational but drops people the moment they don’t convert.

Mike and James take a look at the “avoid anything pagan” impulse in some Christian circles. They examine why this approach quickly becomes inconsistent, burdensome, and divisive, and how it shifts focus away from what genuinely deserves attention. They also consider Paul’s teaching in 1 Corinthians 8, which challenges the idea that a thing’s origins automatically determine its moral value.

Is every choice we make a moral one? In this episode, Mike and James explore the tension between cultural conviction and moral absolutes, asking whether everything — from music styles to diet to dress — really carries moral weight. They unpack why some Christians see the world in black and white, and discuss whether the Bible allows for a category of things that are simply neutral.

Churches love to say “everyone’s welcome” — but what happens when “everyone” includes people who make others feel unsafe? In this episode, Mike and James unpack the paradox of inclusion: how the desire to make church a safe place for all can sometimes invite the very dynamics that destroy that safety.

Is harmony in the church realistic, or just good marketing? In this episode, Mike and James confront the issue of conflict in faith communities, how it so often turns toxic, and explore why we find it hard to see past our differences.