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Love Coach In My Pocket Podcast

Love Coach In My Pocket Podcast

Written by: Whitney Kobrin
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 Hosted by dating and relationship expert Whitney Kobrin, "Love Coach in My Pocket" is your go-to resource for transforming your love life. Whitney combines years of experience, hard-earned wisdom, and practical dating skills to help you break through damaging patterns, heal past wounds, and cultivate lasting, healthy relationships.

Each episode dives into actionable insights—from understanding masculine and feminine energies to navigating modern dating challenges with confidence and clarity.

Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this podcast gives you the tools and support you need to date and love better. Get ready for deep conversations, expert advice, and empowering guidance to create the love you deserve!

💖 Get your free gift: "How to Get More IRL Dates from Dating Apps" https://whitneykobrin.com/free-guide

💖 Apply for a "Dating in a Digital World" Strategy Session here: www.WhitneyKobrin.com/Discovery-Call

💖 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhitneyLoveCoach
💖 Instagram: www.instagram.com/WhitneyLoveCoach
💖 Download the App: www.LoveCoachInMyPocket.passion.io

Copyright Whitney Kobrin Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Self-Help Social Sciences Success
Episodes
  • Matchmaker Secrets: 5 Red Flags & 5 Green Flags for Real Love

    Matchmaker Secrets: 5 Red Flags & 5 Green Flags for Real Love
    Sep 26 2025
    🚩 Are you looking so hard for red flags that you're missing the green ones? 💚
    Learn 5 must-know red flags (like love bombing 🚨) and 5 green flags (like curiosity & respecting boundaries ✅).

    If you’ve ever wondered “Am I missing the warning signs?” or “What should I actually look for in a partner?” Whitney Kobrin and Anastacia Walden are both former Matchmakers and current Love Coaches with Three Day Rule Matchmaking. This episode will give you clarity and confidence to date more effectively, and have more fun in the process!

    💖 Interested in Matchmaking?
    👉 Sign up here: https://www.threedayrule.com/?source_code=whitneykobrin
    💖 Subscribe to the channel:
    👉 https://www.youtube.com/@WhitneyLoveCoach
    💖 Get your free gift: How to Get More IRL Dates from Dating Apps (PDF)
    👉 https://whitneykobrin.com/free-guide
    💖 Apply for a 'Dating in a Digital World' Strategy Session here:
    👉 www.WhitneyKobrin.com/Discovery-Call
    💖 Learn more about Three Day Rule Matchmaking:
    👉 https://www.threedayrule.com
    📱 Download the Love Coach in My Pocket app on Apple
    or Android

    💖 Listen to learn 💖
    - Protecting yourself is important, but don't miss out on connection.
    - Red flags are potential problems to watch for in relationships.
    - Curiosity can help combat judgment in dating.
    - It's crucial to communicate effectively in relationships.
    - Vulnerability facilitates deeper connections with partners.
    - Avoid discussing exes on first dates to keep the focus on the present.
    - Healthy relationships require mutual respect for boundaries.
    - Matchmaking can provide valuable support in finding a partner.
    - Humor can help diffuse uncomfortable situations during dates.
    - Having a life outside of the relationship is essential for both partners.

    💖 Sound Bites 💖
    "Protecting yourself is important."
    "Red flags are potential problems."
    "Curiosity is the antidote to judgment."

    Let’s Get Social
    💖 Follow Whitney on Instagram: www.instagram.com/WhitneySomaticLoveCoach
    💖 Follow Anastacia: www.instagram.com/rootsdatingcoach
    💖 Connect on LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/WhitneyKobrin
    💖 Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anastacia-elizabeth-walden-6b9000176

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    37 mins
  • The World's Fastest Compatibility Quiz

    The World's Fastest Compatibility Quiz
    Jun 13 2025
    The Circus Question is the fastest compatibility quiz in the world! Dating Coach Andreas shares personal experiences and emphasizes the importance of understanding power dynamics and the flaws of online dating. The conversation also explores the future of meaningful connections in the dating landscape. They explore how algorithms influence user experiences and the importance of understanding compatibility beyond superficial matches. They discuss the importance of shared values, effective communication, and the need for authenticity in relationships. The conversation also highlights the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies, the role of dating coaches, and the innovative 'Circus Question' methodology designed to assess compatibility. Ultimately, the discussion emphasizes the importance of personal growth and recognizing red flags in potential partners.Visit https://the-circus-question.passion.io to try the assessment for yourself. Visit https://whitneykobrin.com for help with dating and relationships. To make your own app with Passion.io, go to https://passion.io?deal=whitney98 💖 Claim your complimentary strategy session: www.WhitneyKobrin.com/Discovery-Call 💖 Subscribe to the channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WhitneyLoveCoach 💖 Get immediate help and free resources at www.LoveCoachInMyPocket.passion.io or download the "Love Coach in My Pocket" app on Apple or Android. Andreas is a Match Creator and Dating Coach transforming the dating landscape with his compatibility tool, The Circus Question™ and Circology™️ Framework. His insights stem from personal and professional challenges that reshaped his understanding of love. With a diverse background in architecture, radio, DJ-ing and project management, he helps individuals discover compatible partners. His approach empowers many, especially women over 30, to navigate dating with confidence. Join Andreas on a unique journey to love, blending creativity and compatibility.Contact Andreas or learn more at my.linkpod.site/Andreas_DatingCoach What's your biggest challenge with self-love, self-talk, or in your love life?What dating & relationship topics would you like us to cover on this podcast/channel?Leave a comment below. 💖 Listen to learn 💖 - The Circus Question helps filter potential partners effectively.- Understanding relationship dynamics is crucial for compatibility.- Power dynamics play a significant role in relationships.- Online dating often lacks depth and meaningful connection.- Attractiveness is not the best indicator of compatibility.- The opener in conversations can significantly impact responses.- Dating apps need to prioritize genuine connections over profit.- Self-education in dating is essential for personal growth.- The importance of vulnerability in dating cannot be overstated.Innovative dating apps are emerging to foster real connections. Hinge's algorithm manipulates user experience to encourage payment.Online dating is merely a tool for meeting potential partners.Compatibility is nuanced and not binary.Shared values are crucial for relationship success.Authenticity is key; don't compromise your true self.Recognizing red flags early can save time and heartache.The Circus Question helps identify relationship dynamics.Conflict resolution is essential for healthy relationships.Masculine and feminine energies play a significant role in attraction.Personal growth is vital for attracting the right partner.💖 Chapters 💖 00:00 - Introduction to Modern Dating Challenges02:13 - The Circus Question: A Unique Compatibility Tool05:37 - Understanding Relationship Dynamics12:14 - Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships16:41 - The Flaws of Online Dating24:37 - Innovations in Dating Apps27:56 - The Future of Dating and Connection29:32 - The Psychology of Online Dating Algorithms30:11 - Understanding Compatibility Beyond the App31:41 - The Importance of Shared Values in Relationships32:49 - Navigating Compatibility, Communication, and Compromise35:16 - Identifying Relationship Dynamics and Compatibility37:34 - The Role of Authenticity in Dating39:28 - Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships41:26 - The Circus Question Methodology43:51 - Conflict Resolution and Relationship Dynamics45:51 - The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energies50:21 - The Future of Dating Apps and Personal Growth💖 Sound Bites 💖 "The dating apps need to do more.""My model is to make connections.""Hinge has this algorithm...""Online dating is not dating.""We need to get off the app...""It's not one size fits all.""It's all about shared values.""You've got to stop doing that.""You need what you're missing.""Look at it as an upgrade."Keywordsdating, compatibility, relationships, modern dating, dating apps, emotional connection, power dynamics, circus question, dating coach, online dating, online dating, compatibility, relationship dynamics, dating algorithms, shared values, communication, compromise, authenticity, red flags, masculine...
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    55 mins
  • How to Have Better Relationships w/ The 5 Personality Patterns by Steven Kessler

    How to Have Better Relationships w/ The 5 Personality Patterns by Steven Kessler
    May 9 2025
    The #1 BEST thing you can do to have happy relationships is to understand each other's PERSONALITY PATTERNS, and do your own inner work to stay present through conflict.
    💖Visit https://whitneykobrin.com to inquire about personal coaching from Whitney Kobrin.

    Steven Kessler has been a psychotherapist for almost 30 years and teaches internationally. He is the bestselling author of The 5 Personality Patterns, a map of personality that gives you the key to understanding people and communicating with them effectively. His second book, How to Have Better Relationships, teaches how to understand other people's patterns and the dynamics we create.
    💖Steven Kessler can be reached at Steven@The5PersonalityPatterns.com for speaking and training inquiries.

    💖 Listen to learn 💖
    • The centering breath is essential for emotional regulation.
    • Personality patterns are survival strategies developed in childhood.
    • Every pattern has its downsides and its strengths.
    • Relationships are influenced by the interplay of different personality patterns.
    • Communication challenges often arise from differing personality strategies.
    • Self-awareness is key to breaking free from automatic reactions.
    • Sexual chemistry can sometimes mask deeper communication issues.
    • Understanding personality patterns can help couples navigate conflicts.
    • Attraction is not the only factor in relationship compatibility.
    • Healing past traumas can facilitate better dating experiences.

    💖 Claim your complimentary strategy session: www.WhitneyKobrin.com/Discovery-Call
    💖 Subscribe my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WhitneyLoveCoach
    💖 Get immediate help and free resources at www.LoveCoachInMyPocket.passion.io or download the "Love Coach in My Pocket" app on Apple or Android.

    What's your biggest relationship/communication challenge?
    What dating & relationship topics would you like us to cover on this podcast/channel?
    Leave a comment below!

    💖 Chapters 💖
    • 00:00 Introduction to Centering and Breath
    • 01:54 Exploring the Five Personality Patterns
    • 04:59 Understanding Safety Strategies in Personality Patterns
    • 08:55 The Role of Energy in Personality Development
    • 11:58 Three Centers of Intelligence in Relationships
    • 16:06 Dynamics of Merging and Rigid Patterns in Relationships
    • 20:01 Communication Challenges Between Personality Patterns
    • 28:12 Understanding Communication Styles in Couples
    • 29:34 Short-term vs Long-term Solutions for Couples
    • 32:48 Dating Dynamics and Initial Disagreements
    • 35:04 The Importance of Compatibility Beyond Attraction
    • 37:11 Recognizing Patterns from Family Dynamics
    • 40:14 Growth Mindset in Relationships
    • 41:53 Masculine and Feminine Energy in Relationships
    • 46:30 Healing and Personal Growth in Dating
    💖 Keywords 💖
    Communication, Self-awareness, Emotional Regulation, Personal Growth, Relationships, Dating, Relationship goals, Growth mindset, Masculine energy, Feminine energy, Compatibility, Trauma bonding, Attraction, Attachment, Avoidance, Anxious, Healing, Emotional intelligence, Safety strategies, Survival strategies, Survival mechanism, Survival mode, Thriving, Surviving to thriving, Energy work, Somatic coaching, save marriage, Grounded, Spiritual, Spirituality, Better relationships, 5 personality patterns, merging pattern, leaving pattern, enduring pattern, aggressive pattern, rigid pattern, Self Love, Fight less, Stop fighting
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    50 mins
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