Is marriage hard, or do we sometimes make it harder than it has to be? In this episode of Majorly Married, Michael and Eden unpack the popular phrase “marriage is hard” and explore what people really mean when they say it. You will hear about normal hard seasons, the pressure of life transitions, and the mindset shifts that help you navigate conflict and disappointment as a team instead of as enemies. We talk about the difference between real commitment and unhealthy martyrdom, when you may need to “suck it up and remember your vows,” and when that message becomes toxic and you actually need help, support, or even professional counseling. If you are wondering whether marriage is supposed to feel this difficult, or you want honest marriage advice that validates struggle without glorifying misery, this conversation will give you language, categories, and encouragement for the hard times in marriage while reminding you that a good marriage is not meant to feel impossible.

Dirty talk in marriage is often treated like something vulgar or off limits, but it can actually be one of the simplest ways to build sexual intimacy with your spouse. In this episode, Michael and Eden unpack what dirty talk really is, how it can sound in a real marriage, and how to use your words to turn your partner on in a way that feels safe, fun, and aligned with who you are.

You will hear a practical breakdown of different styles of dirty talk, from sweet affirmations and tender compliments to playful flirting and more explicit language. We talk about how tone, intention, and context matter, and why dirty talk is less about saying the “right” words and more about speaking with the clear intent to arouse and connect with your spouse.

We also cover how to start if you feel awkward or shy, how to talk about boundaries and consent before you experiment, and how to adjust if one partner is more verbal than the other. You will get ideas, mindset shifts, and examples you can adapt to your own relationship so that words become another way to pursue each other, not a source of pressure or embarrassment.

If you have ever wondered how to talk dirty to your spouse without feeling fake or vulgar, this conversation will give you a simple framework to begin, or to deepen what you already do together.

Three classic marriage advice, tested.“Never go to bed angry.”, “Work on your marriage every day.”, “Honesty is the best policy.” We unpack each one with real examples, clear takeaways, and practical scripts so you can choose what actually serves your relationship.What we cover:- How to use a pause without turning it into avoidance- When sleep and space improve hard conversations- Verbal processor vs internal processor, and how to meet in the middle- Why “daily work” often backfires, and what to build instead- Honesty with kindness, timing, and trustKey takeaways:- Never go to bed angry: generally helpful when you set expectations and a time to revisit.- Work on your marriage every day: focus on caring daily, invest intentionally in seasons, and let healthy habits carry the load.- Honesty is the best policy: tell the truth in ways that protect your partner and the marriage, not as a weapon.Join the conversation!Do you go to bed angry or table tough talks until morning? Has “daily work” helped or just added pressure? When has honesty helped or hurt? Share your take in the comments and drop the next piece of advice you want us to test.About Majorly Married:We help couples feel more secure and less alone through unfiltered, empathetic conversations that lead to clarity, confidence, and growth. We believe communication, openness, and friendship strengthen marriage, even when it is messy. Get more at https://majorlymarried.com