Is marriage hard, or do we sometimes make it harder than it has to be? In this episode of Majorly Married, Michael and Eden unpack the popular phrase “marriage is hard” and explore what people really mean when they say it. You will hear about normal hard seasons, the pressure of life transitions, and the mindset shifts that help you navigate conflict and disappointment as a team instead of as enemies. We talk about the difference between real commitment and unhealthy martyrdom, when you may need to “suck it up and remember your vows,” and when that message becomes toxic and you actually need help, support, or even professional counseling. If you are wondering whether marriage is supposed to feel this difficult, or you want honest marriage advice that validates struggle without glorifying misery, this conversation will give you language, categories, and encouragement for the hard times in marriage while reminding you that a good marriage is not meant to feel impossible.

Dirty talk in marriage is often treated like something vulgar or off limits, but it can actually be one of the simplest ways to build sexual intimacy with your spouse. In this episode, Michael and Eden unpack what dirty talk really is, how it can sound in a real marriage, and how to use your words to turn your partner on in a way that feels safe, fun, and aligned with who you are.

You will hear a practical breakdown of different styles of dirty talk, from sweet affirmations and tender compliments to playful flirting and more explicit language. We talk about how tone, intention, and context matter, and why dirty talk is less about saying the “right” words and more about speaking with the clear intent to arouse and connect with your spouse.

We also cover how to start if you feel awkward or shy, how to talk about boundaries and consent before you experiment, and how to adjust if one partner is more verbal than the other. You will get ideas, mindset shifts, and examples you can adapt to your own relationship so that words become another way to pursue each other, not a source of pressure or embarrassment.

If you have ever wondered how to talk dirty to your spouse without feeling fake or vulgar, this conversation will give you a simple framework to begin, or to deepen what you already do together.

Three classic marriage advice, tested.“Never go to bed angry.”, “Work on your marriage every day.”, “Honesty is the best policy.” We unpack each one with real examples, clear takeaways, and practical scripts so you can choose what actually serves your relationship.What we cover:- How to use a pause without turning it into avoidance- When sleep and space improve hard conversations- Verbal processor vs internal processor, and how to meet in the middle- Why “daily work” often backfires, and what to build instead- Honesty with kindness, timing, and trustKey takeaways:- Never go to bed angry: generally helpful when you set expectations and a time to revisit.- Work on your marriage every day: focus on caring daily, invest intentionally in seasons, and let healthy habits carry the load.- Honesty is the best policy: tell the truth in ways that protect your partner and the marriage, not as a weapon.Join the conversation!Do you go to bed angry or table tough talks until morning? Has “daily work” helped or just added pressure? When has honesty helped or hurt? Share your take in the comments and drop the next piece of advice you want us to test.About Majorly Married:We help couples feel more secure and less alone through unfiltered, empathetic conversations that lead to clarity, confidence, and growth. We believe communication, openness, and friendship strengthen marriage, even when it is messy. Get more at https://majorlymarried.com

Can remembering your first date actually save your marriage? In this conversation, we show how intentional reminiscing strengthens connection, puts hard seasons in perspective, and brings back the spark. plus simple ways to do it at home. Get the resource to go with this episode at https://majorlymarried.com/resources/remember-your-firsts/

What you’ll learn:

• The difference between healthy and unhealthy nostalgia
• How shared memories build a strong “we”
• Six easy “time travel” practices you can try tonight

Try these conversation starters:

1. “Remember our first date? What details do you still picture?”
2. “What did you notice about me then that we don’t talk about now?”
3. “What’s a fight we used to have that seems silly today?”
4. “What’s your go‑to favorite memory of us, and why?”
5. “When did you realize we were going to be okay during a hard season?”

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This content is for education and entertainment. It is not therapy or counseling.

Download the free Building a Support System Workbook, a practical guide to help you and your partner map your village and set healthy boundaries at https://majorlymarried.com/resources/support-system-workbook/

They say it takes a village to raise a child, but it also takes one to sustain a marriage. In this episode of Majorly Married, we unpack what it means to build your village and why the people around your relationship can make or break it.

Modern couples often expect one person to meet every need: partner, best friend, therapist, co-parent. The result is burnout. We explore how building and analyzing your network can take the pressure off your marriage.

We cover:

• • The different types of unsafe people in your village
  • How to identify the actual “safe people”

• • How to talk about your marriage without oversharing or gossip

  • Setting boundaries that protect intimacy and connection

  Whether you’re newlywed or seasoned, this episode will help you strengthen your support system and surround your relationship with people who make it thrive.

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We officially launched majorlymarried.com and are going to be filling it with resources related to the episodes and more! For this episode, we have a guide on how to play the "What-if" game and filled it with practice prompts. Get it here: majorlymarried.com/resources/what-if-game/

In this episode, we share the "What-if" game, a simple but powerful conversation exercise that’s helped us strengthen trust, understand each other’s perspectives, and prepare for real-life challenges together.

We cover:

1. How to play the What-If game as a couple

2. Why it helps build emotional intelligence and intimacy

3. The surprising insights we’ve had from asking “What if…” style questions

It’s not therapy; it’s just honest, curious conversation.

Let’s be honest, everyone has insecurities in the bedroom. In this episode, we’re talking about the real stuff that couples often avoid but absolutely need to hear. From body image worries to fears about performance or judgment, we’ve all been there.

We break insecurities into three big areas:

1. Physical Feature Insecurities - how body image and self-comparison mess with confidence.

2. Kink and Desire Insecurities - the fear of being judged for what turns you on (or doesn’t).

3. Experience and Performance Insecurities - the pressure to “do it right” and how that can kill connection.

We also get personal about how these showed up in our own marriage and the tools we use to work through them. Expect a mix of honesty, humor, and practical advice that will help you see your relationship through a more compassionate lens.

If you’ve ever felt nervous, awkward, or unsure during intimacy, this episode will remind you that you’re not broken. You’re human, and growth happens when you face it together.

Michael and Eden discuss how they knew they had found "the one" for them. After identifying things like shared values, physical attraction, sexual compatibility, spirituality, and lifestyles, Eden and Michael finally felt comfortable saying "I do".