WHEN THE LIGHTS COME UP by Melissa L. Clay - Now available here!

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Some themes this story explores are finally asking the questions to start finding yourself, friendship, dating, and navigating church hurt. There's more and this is just the beginning of the main character Jackie's journey!

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Short story synopsis -

Jackie has always done everything right. She followed the rules, served at church, kept her promises, and waited for the love story she was told would come. But now, in her thirties, living in Chicago with a job she tolerates and a faith that's starting to unravel, she can't help wondering what doing everything "right" has really gotten her. Follow along as Jackie begins a journey inward. With her outspoken best friend Gloria by her side, she starts asking the questions that good girls aren't supposed to ask. Told with humor, honesty, and heart, When The Lights Come Up follows Jackie as she learns to face herself in the mirror, challenge the beliefs that once defined her, and step into a life that feels like her own.

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Joining me today is my guest Pablo from Sarcarragance Media Group! We met at the Afros & Audio podcast festival and I knew I had to have him on my show. Come be encouraged as Pablo talks about how he got started in podcasting, his childhood, and stick around for his final piece advice to "Smile, keep moving forward, and you can do it!"

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I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this guest episode here - https://youtu.be/N_8PhIy7o08

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Welcome to the season three's first guest episode with The Arie Iman! Join us as we talk about becoming more secure, content, and confident, we get into the importance of asking for help, and we have many laughs along the way!

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I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this guest episode here - https://youtu.be/Mmo7a6CF4S0

If you're new here, check out seasons 1 and 2 in this feed. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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I'm back for another BOOK CORNER! I've been reading more than I typically read so I want to share some books I've been enjoying. This will be a bi-monthly series! Check back for future recommendations.

I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this episode here - https://youtu.be/Tzu4hupyB5I

POD CORNER - Podcast Recommendation - Leaving the Theater https://www.ohitsbigronstudios.com/leaving-the-theater

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Dating can be tough out in these streets and the way I've been coping lately is to control what I can control, meaning that I can only control myself and how I show up. My therapist recommended group therapy with other single women who are dating intentionally, and I talk about my experience here! What's something in your life where you're showing up intentionally?

I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this episode here - https://youtu.be/vGDQjtqGJZc

POD CORNER: Podcast Recommendation - Bad Faith -https://www.youtube.com/@BadFaithPodcast

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I've been learning that if I start to be creative in one area of my life, it snowballs into other areas of my life and makes continuing on the creative path easier. Do you have anything in your life where you've seen this?

I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this episode here - https://youtu.be/EjD5371C_W0

POD CORNER: Podcast Recommendation - We Was Watching Podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@WeWasWatching

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Here's a cute little catch up on what's been going on with me lately. Also, can y'all believe it's the holidays already??

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POD CORNER: Podcast Recommendation - New York Times Modern Love https://www.nytimes.com/column/modern-love

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I had the immense pleasure of attending this year's Afros & Audio podcast festival, a conference for Black independent podcasters. I had an amazing time and I recount my experience here!

I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this episode here - https://youtu.be/Nmih-GUtdRE

Check out Afros & Audio https://www.afrosandaudio.com/

POD CORNER: Podcast Recommendation - Consider This For Comfort https://www.instagram.com/considercomfortpod/

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