Episodes

  • Freyda Nelson's Lessons Learned from Losses at Women's National Duals
    Jun 22 2025

    Five-hour waits between bouts, broken Wi-Fi, no parents in sight—and a 12yo who must coach herself through the chaos of Women’s National Duals. In this candid, father-daughter debrief we dissect the mental minefields of elite wrestling: anxiety vs. flow, fun vs. pressure, and why Day-Three dominance followed two days of disappointment. Whether you’re an athlete, coach, or parent, this episode shows how the right mindset turns setbacks into breakthrough wins.

    Chapters • Day-One Logjam: Five hours of “hurry-up-and-wait” and its mental toll • The Invisible Coach: What Dad normally does—logistics, calming, energy cues • When Detachment Backfires: Books, earbuds and the anxiety of limbo • Tulsa Déjà Vu: Past tournaments that taught the same hard lesson • Aspen’s Advice: Remove the weight, rediscover the fun • Day-Three Flip: Frey’s new routine and instant results • Anatomy of Flow: Headlocks, drag-to-ducks, and wrestling as art • Love the Fight, Laughter in battle, and the long road to embracing the suck • Energy-Management Protocol: Eat, drink, socialize, isolate—repeat • Applying the Lessons: Upcoming Rumble, Bassett Camp, and life outside wrestling • Final Reflections: “I didn’t lose, I learned” and saying thanks to every opponent
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • How Freyda Nelson "stopped thinking" to win her 2nd Folkstyle Nationals title
    Feb 9 2025

    In this episode, Eric and Freyda delve into the complexities of mindset in competitive wrestling, analyzing the first half of the season from October to January. They discuss how different mental states impacted performance across various tournaments. Freyda shares insights on overcoming psychological hurdles, the importance of relaxation, and the balance between instinctive vs "noisy" action during matches. As they look ahead, they explore how refining mindset can harness the power of relaxed focus and gratitude to ace the second half of the wrestling season.

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    32 mins
  • Arthur Nelson's Journey to a Victory Mindset
    Feb 2 2025

    In this podcast episode, Freyda interviews Arthur Nelson, a young wrestler, about the evolution of his mindset following his participation in various tournaments, including the Rumble on the Red and the Tulsa Nationals. They discuss the importance of having a strong mental focus, dubbed the "victory mindset," for consistency in performance and how this approach can be cultivated in daily routine and competitions, even outside of sports contexts.

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    32 mins
  • How 11yo Freyda Nelson scored a 5 on the AP Calc AB Exam
    Feb 2 2025

    In this podcast, Arthur Nelson interviews Freyda Nelson, who scored a 5 in the AP Calculus AB exam on her second attempt. They discuss Freyda's rigorous daily routine, the challenges she faced while being self-taught, and her valuable study tips for tackling Calculus, emphasizing perseverance and understanding the underlying concepts.

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    28 mins