Moving a Loved One with Living Dementia: Planning for a Safer, Gentler Transition

A move is never just a move, especially when dementia is part of the picture.

In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper talks with Cindy Greer, a Certified Senior Move Manager® and Dementia Care expert, about what families need to know when relocating a loved one living with dementia.

Cindy shares practical guidance for navigating the emotional and logistical challenges of a dementia-related move, from knowing when it may be time to relocate to creating a familiar, comforting environment in a new home.

Because when dementia is involved, how you move matters just as much as where you move.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why a dementia-related move is different from a typical senior move
• How caregivers play an important role in planning and preparing for relocation
• Why early planning can make an eventual transition less traumatic
• Safety considerations, including wandering prevention
• Ways to create familiarity and comfort in a new environment
• When a Senior Move Manager® or Aging Life Care Manager can help
• Resources and support available to families navigating a transition
• Real-life examples of successful dementia relocations
• How proactive decision-making can help families avoid making choices in the middle of a crisis

For families facing dementia, there are rarely perfect answers. But there are ways to plan ahead, reduce stress, preserve dignity, and make a difficult transition a little gentler.

If you're helping a parent or loved one navigate dementia, this conversation is one you'll want to save and share.

Listen now and start the conversation before the move becomes an emergency.

Resources TransitionWithCare.net

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How Stress Sabotages Decisions | Michael Lewis on Caregiving, Family Dynamics & Planning Ahead

In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper sits down with Michael Lewis, Chief Behavioral Officer at Family Legacy Financial Solutions and author of Getting Out of Your Own Way, to explore how stress and emotions can quietly derail some of the most important decisions families face.

Michael explains why waiting until a crisis makes decision-making exponentially harder and shares practical strategies to help families prepare before they find themselves overwhelmed. Together, they discuss the behavioral side of caregiving, financial planning, legal documentation, caregiver agreements, Medicaid considerations, and how to create a plan that brings clarity instead of conflict.

Whether you're beginning to notice changes in your parents, already navigating caregiving responsibilities, or simply want to be prepared, this conversation offers actionable insights to help your family make better decisions with greater confidence.

In this episode you'll learn:
• How stress impacts judgment and decision-making during caregiving
• Why legal and financial planning should happen before a crisis
• The purpose and benefits of Family Caregiver Agreements
• Common emotional biases that influence family decisions
• Strategies for productive family conversations about aging
• Why preparation creates peace of mind for everyone involved

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Behavioral Challenges in Aging

02:07
Recognizing Warning Signs in Family Dynamics

03:54
The Impact of Stress on Judgment and Decision-Making

05:51
Personal Story: A Family’s Caregiving Journey

07:58
Legal and Financial Planning Before a Crisis

09:55
The Role of Caregiver Agreements and Documentation

11:55
How Emotions Influence Financial Decisions

14:11
Strategies for Effective Family Communication

16:03
The Importance of Early Planning and Mapping

18:04
Legal Frameworks and Medicaid Considerations

20:01
Family Responsibility and Shared Decision-Making

22:01
Avoiding Common Pitfalls in Elder Care

23:58
The Consequences of Delaying Critical Decisions

26:13
Reflections on Aging and Family Legacy

28:04
Practical Steps for Families Starting the Conversation

30:02
The Power of Preparation and Documentation

31:49
Building a Support Network for Caregivers

34:12
When to Seek Professional Help

36:07
The Long-Term Impact of Caregiving Decisions

37:54
Final Thoughts: Clarity, Preparation, and Peace of Mind

Resources

Book on Amazon: Getting Out of Your Own Way: When Emotions and Pressure Lead to Costly Financial Consequences

Family Legacy Financial Solutions

Click here to schedule an appointment with Michael

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What if one simple change could reduce agitation, spark meaningful conversations, and help someone living with dementia feel more connected?

In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper sits down with Allyson Schrier, founder and CEO of Zinnia TV, to discuss how thoughtfully designed visual programming is transforming dementia care.

Inspired by her own experience caring for a loved one with dementia, Allyson created Zinnia TV after recognizing that traditional television often overwhelms people living with cognitive changes. Instead, Zinnia offers slow-paced, calming, dialogue-free content designed to engage, comfort, and reconnect individuals with their memories, interests, and identity.

Together, Lisa and Allyson explore why understanding the changing brain is one of the greatest gifts caregivers can give themselves and the people they love.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why Allyson created Zinnia TV from her own caregiving experience
• How visual content can reduce agitation and improve engagement
• The science behind changing visual perception in dementia
• Why traditional television can increase confusion and anxiety
• How personalized playlists create moments of connection
• Ways technology can support caregivers without replacing human interaction
• Practical strategies to simplify routines and daily activities
• Why preserving identity and purpose matters throughout the dementia journey

Whether you're caring for a parent, spouse, friend, or supporting families professionally, this conversation offers practical tools and a hopeful perspective on living well with dementia.

Memorable Quotes

"My driving force is my personal experience as a caregiver."

"Zinnia is not just a replacement for television."

"Visual perception changes increase fall risk in dementia."

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction to Lisa Harper and Allyson Schrier

00:26 – Allyson's personal caregiving journey

01:22 – The inspiration behind Zinnia TV

04:22 – What is Zinnia TV?

06:39 – Why traditional television doesn't work well for dementia

08:01 – Creating connection through visual media

12:14 – What the research shows

16:37 – Unlocking memories and preserving identity

22:00 – Building personalized playlists

24:41 – Visual perception changes and fall risks

30:51 – Simplifying daily routines

36:27 – Supporting emotional well-being

If this episode encourages you or someone you love, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another caregiver or family navigating the aging journey.

Resources: Zinniatv.com

Contact ZinniaTV

Zinnia TV on YouTube

Keywords: Dementia, Alzheimer's, Dementia Care, Caregiving, Family Caregiver, Zinnia TV, Memory Care, Aging Parents, Dementia Support, Senior Care, Caregiver Resources, Aging Journey, Alzheimer's Support, Visual Communication

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© 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.