Episodes

  • Feel Like Everyone Else Is “Ahead” of You? This is How You Rebuild Your Life at Any Stage & Start Trusting Your Timeline
    Dec 12 2025

    In this episode, Jay explores the pressure of the “social clock,” that unspoken timeline that tells us when we should reach certain life milestones. He unpacks research revealing that we’re never truly “late,” we’re simply measuring our progress against someone else’s schedule. Jay explains that the fear of falling behind is really a fear of losing control, and he shares how reclaiming that sense of control is far more important than hitting every milestone on time.

    He also unpacks the career anxiety so many people are experiencing today. With frequent job changes and a longer phase of “emerging adulthood,” he reminds us that feeling lost or stuck isn’t a sign of failure, it’s a sign that you’re still exploring. Jay reflects on what purpose truly means, and why your purpose isn’t a job title or income level but the deeper reason behind everything you do.

    Finally, Jay explores age, growth, and possibility, reminding us that the brain can rewire itself at any stage of life and that happiness often follows a U-shaped curve. If you feel like you’re in a low point, you may actually be standing right before the rise.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Stop Living by the Social Clock

    How to Feel In Control of Your Life Again

    How to Navigate Career Changes with Confidence

    How to Redefine Purpose Beyond Your Job

    How to Build Relationships That Truly Support You

    How to Grow Even When You Feel “Behind”

    You’re not late. You’re not off track. You’re simply arriving on your own timeline and that timeline is right on time.

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Introduction

    01:04 The Societal Pressure Of The "Social Clock

    02:30 Deviating From "The Social Clock"

    06:42 Redefining Success On Your Terms

    08:42 You're Not Lost, You're Experimenting!

    13:05 Don't Measure By Goals From The Past

    15:27 The Illusion Of Late Marriage

    19:47 Close Relationships Lead To Better Health

    24:26 You're Not Late, Start Now!

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    32 mins
  • Jay Must-Listens: 3 Easy Money Habits That Will Change How You Save, Spend & Grow Your Money
    Dec 10 2025

    Today, we will explore one of the most emotionally charged and misunderstood topics of our time: money. Not just how to make it, but how to build a healthy, grounded, and spiritually aligned relationship with it. You’ll hear raw insights from leaders like Scott Galloway, Jaspreet Singh, Codie Sanchez, and Lewis Howes, each offering a window into the habits, mindsets, and blind spots that keep us feeling financially stuck. From the shame many of us carry around saving to the ways our education system failed to prepare us, this episode reveals why so many people feel overwhelmed by finances and why that struggle is more normal and more solvable than we think.

    Scott Galloway explains why saving feels impossible today and why young people need discipline, forced systems, and a focus on building human capital. Jaspreet Singh breaks down the habits that keep people financially stuck, overspending, blind trust in the system, and not understanding how money works, and shares how he learned that real wealth comes from owning assets. Codie Sanchez simplifies the risk, reward equation, urges beginners to start with low-cost index funds, and reminds us that the highest-return investment is always in ourselves. Lewis Howes brings the spiritual side of money to life, showing how healing our relationship with money opens the door to abundance, gratitude, and new opportunities.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Build a Realistic Saving System

    How to Create Forced Savings That Actually Work

    How to Shift From Spending to Investing

    How to Break Free From the Poverty Mindset

    How to Build Wealth Through Equity, Not Salary

    How to Strengthen Your Relationship With Money

    You don’t need to have everything figured out to begin. You don’t need the perfect plan, perfect timing, or perfect background to build a healthier relationship with money. What matters is your willingness to learn, to question old patterns, and to try again even when things feel overwhelming.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty.

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:00 Building a Framework for Realistic, Healthy Saving

    04:23 Why Saving Feels Harder Than Ever

    13:32 The Three Habits That Keep You in a Poverty Mindset

    34:52 Why You Need Both Vision and Execution to Build Wealth

    37:18 Why Investing in Yourself Comes First

    41:09 Stocks and Bonds Explained Simply

    42:10 Stepping Into the World of Private Investing

    43:53 The #1 Shift That Can Transform Your Financial Future

    50:25 Giving Yourself Permission to Explore Possibilities

    55:49 How to Create a Respectful Relationship With Money

    01:05:11 The Power of Living Beneath Your Means

    01:07:52 The Hidden Costs of Chasing Easy Money

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Astrologist Chani Nicholas: Feeling Lost in Life? This Episode Will Help You Find The Clarity, Direction and Answers You’ve Been Seeking
    Dec 8 2025

    What part of your life feels unclear right now?

    What direction do you secretly wish you could choose?

    Today, Jay is joined by astrologer and author Chani Nicholas for a deeper look at astrology beyond the pop-culture stereotypes. Chani traces astrology back to its ancient roots, describing it as a timeless tool for understanding our place in the world and the inner forces that shape us. Together, she and Jay break down the basics: birth charts, rising signs, the sun and the moon, and how each piece reveals something about our drive, our emotional needs, and the natural rhythms that shape our lives.

    The conversation deepens as Jay and Chani explore purpose, growth, and personal agency. Chani explains that astrology isn’t about predicting your future, it’s about noticing your patterns, understanding yourself, and making choices with more awareness. She shares her own stories about finding her calling, meeting her partner, and the ways astrology can reaffirm the truth people already sense within themselves. Together, they unpack common misconceptions about compatibility, Mercury retrograde, and so-called “bad signs,” offering a more compassionate, practical way to work with timing without giving up responsibility for your life.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Use Astrology to Find Your Purpose

    How to Work With Your Saturn Return

    How to Navigate Tough Life Cycles With Awareness

    How to Use Astrology to Choose the Right Moment

    How to Strengthen Self-Agency Through Astrology

    How to Release a Difficult Year and Reset Intentionally

    As you move forward, remember that life isn’t asking you to have everything figured out, it’s simply asking you to stay curious, stay honest, and stay connected to what feels true within you. The cycles you’re experiencing aren’t setbacks; they’re invitations to pause, reflect, and realign with the life you know you’re capable of living.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:01 What Exactly Is Astrology?

    02:39 Understanding the Cycles We Live In

    05:31 How Astrology Evolved Over Time

    07:42 Discovering Your Life’s True Purpose

    11:34 How to Read and Understand a Birth Chart

    14:52 Why “Bad Astrology” Isn’t Real

    19:04 What Does Your Sun, Moon, and Rising Actually Mean?

    20:16 Living in Alignment With Your Chart

    25:30 When Your Chart Shows the Areas You Struggle Most

    27:34 Can Astrology Reveal Future Wealth?

    29:12 Asking Yourself What You Truly Want

    32:42 What’s the Difference Between Fate and Free Will?

    36:06 What Astrology Shows About Your Relationships

    38:41 Choosing the Best Timing for Big Decisions

    47:13 Staying Grounded in What You Feel

    52:46 If You’re Not Ready, Focus on Inner Work First

    54:27 Noticing the People Who Changed Your Life for the Better

    57:45 Inspiring Others Through Your Own Growth

    01:03:52 What is Your Saturn Return?

    01:10:51 Why You Don’t Need to Fear Your Saturn Return

    01:14:19 Is Mercury Retrograde Actually That Bad?

    01:18:58 Don’t Use Your Sign to Excuse Bad Behavior!

    01:20:22 Are Certain Signs More Compatible?

    01:23:14 Making “Incompatible” Charts Work Together

    01:25:32 Who Are You as This Year Comes to a Close?

    01:33:04 Chani on Final Five

    Episode Resources:

    Chani Nicholas | Website

    Chani Nicholas | Instagram

    Chani Nicholas | Threads

    Chani Nicholas | YouTube

    Chani Nicholas | TikTok

    You Were Born for This: Astrology for Radical Self-Acceptance

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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • Addicted to Scrolling? 3 Small Changes to STOP Feeling Drained After Scrolling Social Media
    Dec 5 2025

    What time of day do you scroll the most?

    Have you tried setting limits on your screen time?

    Today, Jay dives into one of the defining questions of our digital age: is the algorithm shaping who we become, or are we the ones quietly teaching it how to shape us? He reveals how every click, pause, and late-night scroll acts as a subtle signal, tiny instructions that train the system, which then turns around and begins to train us. Before we even realize it, our insecurities become fuel, our curiosity becomes comparison, and outrage becomes entertainment.

    But Jay also reminds us that we’re not powerless, our agency hasn’t disappeared; it’s just buried beneath layers of habit. With calm, practical guidance, he shares how we can take our feed back into our own hands, break the doom-scroll cycle, and actually reprogram the digital environment influencing our minds. Whether it’s choosing who you follow more intentionally, setting healthy boundaries in the morning, sharing more consciously, or reconnecting with real-world anchors, Jay shows that we’re not just participants, we’re contributors to how the system works. And when we change how we show up, everything around us begins to shift as well.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Retrain Your Algorithm in Minutes

    How to Recognize When the Algorithm Is Steering You

    How to Build a Healthier, Calmer Feed

    How to Use Social Media Without Losing Yourself

    How to Strengthen Your Digital Self-Control

    You weren’t meant to be overwhelmed by noise or pulled into constant comparison. You were built to create a life rooted in values, peace, and purpose. So take a breath, make one mindful choice at a time, and let it guide the next.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:31 Even the Algorithm Has a Glitch

    03:04 4 Subtle Ways the Algorithm Shapes You

    07:59 How Your Clicks Create the Pattern

    09:45 What a Social Network Looks Like Without All the Noise

    13:08 Doom-Scrolling Can Give You Anxiety!

    14:47 Solution #1: Bring Back Chronological Feeds

    15:10 Solution #2: Take a Moment Before Hitting Share

    16:06 Solution #3: Demand Algorithmic Transparency

    16:29 Why Emotional Mastery and Critical Thinking Matter

    19:11 5 Simple Ways to Reset Your For You Page

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    26 mins
  • Mark Rober: Feeling Stuck in a Rut? Use THIS Simple 3- Step Method Engineers Use to FINALLY Turn Your Ideas Into Reality!
    Dec 3 2025

    What idea have you been sitting on lately?

    What’s been holding you back from starting?

    Today, Jay sits down with engineer, innovator, and YouTube creator Mark Rober to explore the unexpected life experiences that shaped one of the internet’s most beloved minds. Mark shares the childhood moments that ignited his passion for building, breaking, and understanding how the world works, moments nurtured by a mother whose love, imagination, and encouragement helped lay the foundation for his life’s mission. He reflects on how her influence continues to ripple outward, inspiring millions of young people who learn, explore, and dream through his work today.

    Jay and Mark explore the mindset that carried Mark from NASA engineer to innovative educator, unpacking what it really means to “think like an engineer:” experiment boldly, embrace failure, and treat every setback as an opportunity to learn. They follow Mark’s unusual pivots, from designing Mars rover hardware to crafting Halloween costumes, to ultimately shaping a career that blends curiosity, storytelling, science, and play. Together they reveal the deeper lessons behind Mark’s most viral experiments: why creativity thrives when we stay childlike, how passion reveals itself through repetition, and why the most meaningful work grows from genuine excitement rather than algorithms or expectations.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Think Like an Engineer

    How to Stay Curious as an Adult

    How to Follow Your Passion Practically

    How to Build Ideas That Actually Work

    How to Find Creativity in Everyday Life

    How to Recognize Your Real Calling

    How to Inspire Others Through Your Work

    Keep following the questions that excite you, keep trying the things that scare you, and keep believing that you’re capable of far more than you realize. Your next breakthrough might be just one experiment, or one brave attempt away.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:16 Were You Always Creative?

    04:02 Understanding the Real Impact of Your Life

    06:55 What It Really Takes to Work at NASA

    09:49 Learning to Think Like an Engineer

    11:22 How Rovers Are Tested for Mars

    12:20 Searching for Life Beyond Earth

    13:24 Follow What You Truly Love Doing

    16:11 If You Can Imagine It, You Can Build It

    17:22 Practical Wisdom from a Lifelong Tinkerer

    20:57 The Pivot from NASA to Apple

    23:34 Turning Ideas into Actionable Success

    24:45 What is the Engineering Design Process?

    28:28 Why Embracing Failure Matters

    29:57 Relearning Trust and Finding Love Again

    34:56 The Power of Immersion Weekends

    36:45 Making Learning Engaging Through Creativity

    40:29 Why Mastery Is Worth Pursuing

    41:40 Balancing Business with True Creativity

    44:51 How Communication Shapes Great Storytelling

    47:40 Two Common Mistakes Creators Make

    52:30 Staying True to Your Creative Style

    54:04 The Importance of Focusing on One Passion

    56:44 The Hidden Failures Behind Viral Success

    59:35 Giving Kids Room to Be Creative

    01:04:30 Curiosity as the Root of Creativity

    01:06:07 Inside a Real Creative Process

    01:08:45 Where Do You Get Your Big Ideas?

    01:11:46 The Mind-Bending Question of Life in the Universe

    01:16:02 The Promise and Peril of Rapid AI Growth

    01:19:56 Focusing on What You Can Truly Influence

    01:24:57 Mark on Final Five

    Episode Resources:

    Mark Rober | X

    Mark Rober | Instagram

    Mark Rober | Facebook

    Mark Rober | LinkedIn

    Mark Rober | TikTok

    Mark Rober | YouTube

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    1 hr and 31 mins
  • Roxie Nafousi: Struggle With Low Self-Worth & No Confidence? (Use This Life-Changing 3-Step Method!)
    Dec 1 2025
    What’s been making you doubt yourself lately? What do you think triggered that feeling? Today, Jay welcomes back his friend Roxie Nafousi to unpack what confidence actually looks and feels like, not the glossy, loud, performative version, but the quiet inner knowing that you are enough as you are. They start by breaking down how much of our insecurity comes from the stories we tell ourselves: the overthinking before we walk into a room, the mental replay after we walk out, and the way we let validation, or the lack of it, shape our worth. Roxie then opens up about something she’s never shared publicly: her long struggle with body dysmorphic disorder. She talks honestly about the thoughts that dominated her life, the fear of being seen, and the belief that changing her appearance would quiet the constant self-criticism. Jay meets her with compassion as they unpack how these patterns form, how they shape the way you move through the world, and how healing begins with learning to speak to yourself with empathy instead of judgment. Jay and Roxie offer a roadmap that anyone can follow: mastering your inner voice, letting go of the pressure to be liked by everyone, celebrating the small wins, and choosing to show up as the version of yourself your higher self would be proud of. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Redefine Confidence From the Inside Out How to Stop Seeking External Validation How to Manage Comparison Before It Controls You How to Think Like Your Higher Self How to Break Free From People-Pleasing How to Handle Rejection Without Blaming Yourself How to Replace Self-Criticism With Self-Awareness When you start choosing compassion over judgment, intention over fear, and growth over perfection, you slowly reconnect with the part of yourself that’s always been there. The journey isn’t about becoming someone new, it’s about finally seeing who you’ve been all along. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:21 Is External Validation Ever Healthy? 08:25 A 7-Step Path to Rebuilding Confidence 10:57 How Men and Women Show Confidence Differently 12:29 Mastering the Thoughts That Shape Your Reality 17:19 Self-Awareness vs. Self-Criticism 22:28 Meet the Best Version of You 26:26 Stop Trying to Be Liked by Everyone! 31:49 How Encouragement Boosts Performance 34:07 You Can’t Be Everyone’s Favorite and That’s Okay 38:42 People-Pleasing vs. Making People Happy 42:57 Practicing Radical Acceptance After Rejection 44:54 Your Mind Creates Stories That Aren’t True 47:16 Taking Responsibility Without Blaming Yourself 50:44 Why Feeling Worthy Now Matters Most 53:18 Healing the Roots of Deep Self-Loathing 01:06:27 Why Vulnerability Is a Form of Confidence 01:10:25 Your Mind Is More Powerful Than You Think 01:13:10 Are We Too Exposed to Our Own Reflection? 01:17:18 Managing BDD With Compassion and Awareness 01:22:04 The Importance of Celebrating Ourselves 01:24:09 What’s the Difference Between Confidence and Arrogance 01:27:45 How to Make Self-Celebration a Daily Habit 01:29:51 Catch People Doing Things Right Episode Resources: Roxie Nafousi | Website Roxie Nafousi | Instagram Roxie Nafousi | Facebook Roxie Nafousi | X Roxie Nafousi | LinkedIn Roxie Nafousi | TikTok Manifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best LifeConfidence: Eight Steps to Knowing Your WorthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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    1 hr and 36 mins
  • 8 Simple Mindset Shifts to Feel Gratitude Even When Your Life Isn’t Where You Want it To Be
    Nov 28 2025

    In this episode, Jay talks about a side of gratitude we rarely acknowledge, the kind that isn’t shiny or uplifting, but the kind that helps when life feels heavy, complicated, or far from what you expected. He explains how, for years, he treated gratitude like something meant to fix pain or override his feelings, and how that mindset only added pressure instead of bringing any real peace.

    Jay talks about what real gratitude actually feels like, not the kind that tries to cancel out your struggles, but the kind that can sit beside them. He shares how acknowledging both things at once, what hurts and what’s still good, builds real resilience. Jay breaks down why phrases like “at least…” shut your feelings down, while using “even though…” or “and…” keeps you present with your emotions instead of pushing them away.

    Jay also shares the small, practical habits that help him reconnect with gratitude when it feels far away: paying attention to what stayed instead of what disappeared, taking 10-second pauses to notice something good in the moment, borrowing someone else’s joy when you can’t access your own, and writing a thank-you note to the version of you who got through the harder seasons.

    Jay reminds us that gratitude isn’t supposed to hide what’s hard, it’s meant to help you steady yourself. It’s the quiet admission: “Life is messy, and there’s still something I can hold onto.”

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    How to Stop Using Gratitude to Mask Your Feelings

    How to Hold Pain and Gratitude Together

    How to Notice What Stayed, Not What Left

    How to Use 10-Second Pauses to Reset

    How to Borrow Gratitude When You Can’t Feel It

    How to Thank the You Who Survived

    You’re not doing gratitude wrong, you’re just learning to do it honestly. Keep showing up with awareness, gentleness, and patience. You’re not rebuilding from zero, you’re rebuilding from experience.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty.

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:00 How to Practice Gratitude

    02:39 Gratitude Without Hiding Your Emotions

    06:46 Don’t Use Gratitude As Your Escape

    09:17 Focus On What You Still Have

    11:11 Finding Gratitude in the Gaps

    14:43 Gratitude Reset: Take A 10 Second Pause

    18:26 The Art Of Borrowing Gratitude

    21:15 Stay Thankful To Your Past Self

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    24 mins
  • I Reached a Major Milestone! 8 Life-Changing Lessons I’ve Learned From Incredible Guests Along the Way
    Nov 26 2025

    Reaching 5 million subscribers is more than a milestone, it’s a testament to the shared journey of growth, healing, and curiosity this community has built together. In this special episode, Jay revisits the conversations that shaped On Purpose, moments where global icons, artists, world leaders, and visionaries shared the truths that made them human.

    Jay reflects on the life-changing conversations that continue to echo long after the recording ends. Tom Holland opens up about the quiet struggle behind giving up alcohol, teaching us that letting go of what no longer serves us is an act of bravery not loss. Kobe shares how to look past fear by facing it with stillness and curiosity, revealing that discipline and consistency are the real foundations of excellence. Emma Watson invites us to build relationships from wholeness, not need, and reminds us that asking the hard questions can lead to the most liberating truths.

    Madonna shows how spirituality can be the grounding force beneath ambition, while Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez model how relationships grow when honesty becomes a shared practice. Former President Joe Biden closes with a timeless lesson, that presence is often the greatest form of love, and that resilience is born through community.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Break Free From Addictive Habits

    How to Build Discipline Through Consistency

    How to Face Fear by Unpacking It

    How to Ask the Hard Questions That Can Change Your Life

    How to Ground Yourself With Spiritual Practices

    How to Communicate Maturely in Relationships

    How to Support Someone Through Grief

    How to Replace Old Patterns With Healthier Alternatives

    You are allowed to evolve, to outgrow old versions of yourself, and to step into a life that feels more aligned, more peaceful, and more true. Keep leaning toward the choices that bring you closer to who you want to be. Your next chapter is already waiting, and you are more than ready for it.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty.

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:31 The Challenges of Sobriety

    06:49 Practical Steps to Stay Committed to Sobriety

    11:23 How Alcohol Quietly Impacts Your Well-Being

    16:59 How to Stop Letting Emotions Run Your Life

    19:26 Growth Requires Trial and Error

    21:03 Why Greatness Is Never an Accident

    23:28 Understanding the Difference Between Wanting and Needing

    26:32 The Power of Asking Yourself Hard Questions

    30:08 Why Lifelong Learning Keeps You Grounded

    37:29 How Spirituality and Success Work Together

    41:45 Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

    44:09 Using Past Relationships to Build a Better You

    48:03 How to Show Your Partner You’re Truly Present

    53:37 Practicing Compassion in Every Day

    54:37 Finding Strength Through Loss and Grief

    56:41 How to Be Fully Present in Your Child’s Life

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    1 hr and 1 min