We’ve all been there, trying to outgrow the version of ourselves we were raised to be. The “good girl,” the rule follower, the one who doesn’t question anything… until suddenly you do.

Mattie Jo Cowsert is a pastor’s kid turned shameless oversharer, actor, author of God, Sex & Rich People, and truly the definition of “I’ll do as I please.”

From rebuilding her entire identity, to choosing a life that feels good, and staying out of situations that shrink you.

We get into:

• How the queer community and the diversity of New York City cracked open everything she believed about “purity culture”

• Why “Fuckboy Monsters” was not only a chapter in her book, but a full era

• What it really feels like to rebuild your identity in your 20s (and 30s)

• Writing God, Sex & Rich People and developing her viral pilot

• Why she refuses a safe 9–5 in favor of alignment, joy, and simply believing in herself.

Get ready to rethink the “rules” you grew up with, laugh at her overshares, and maybe feel a little braver about pursuing your passion projects.

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Vandie is bold and not to mention, savvy. She went from tech to essentially the “fun-planer” at a dream company, has lived in 26 cities, co-founded a space for connection after college, and chose to be child-free in a very permanent way.

We talk about “delusional positivity,” radical self-trust, quitting the checklist life, and showing up authentically (even when you’re still figuring it out).

This Dutch Bros’ “donut girl” redefines what “having it all” actually means.

🎙 Topics:

• The audacity of starting before you’re ready

• Building inclusive community spaces

• Life after being laid off

• Choosing the child-free life

• Authenticity > perfection

  
  

  
  

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What happens when the ghosts get to know you?

This Halloween, we’re with Spirit Chasers UK, the nonprofit ghost-hunting team making the paranormal accessible, affordable, and full of heart. David and Marie share their wildest encounters: a singing child, flying tables, a haunted cottage that sent them running, and explain why laughter might be the strongest tool in any investigation.

A story about trust, energy, and finding community in the unknown.

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Eric Jackson knows the game on and off the field. He’s an award-winning journalist and sports communications strategist, ate a hundred “no’s,” and still landed on his feet covering athletes from the NFL to the Olympics and artists from Ice Cube to Darius Rucker.

He highlights the business of sports, showing the intersection where athletics, money, and culture collide.

We talk resilience without a Plan B, student journalism that matters, athletes as entrepreneurs (yes, Ice Cube’s Big3 and Macklemore’s golf era), and why the scoreboard is only part of the story.

Eric opens up about the journey to get here, giving back by teaching at Long Island University, dreaming about LA28, and designing a life that doesn’t look like anyone else’s.

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“We came to this world to live.”

Meet Santiago Iglesias — an Argentine entrepreneur turned Mallorca adventure guide who left a 10-year accounting career to build a life of business ownership, cliff jumps, solar travel and navigating visas.

He opened a hostel in Mar del Plata, Argentina, took the journey to Italian citizenship, and upped and moved across the world; learning patience, what happens when you slow down, what happens when you meet new people from different cultures, and all of the lovely bits in between.

We touch on his favorite places from Uluwatu, to Australia, to where he now calls home. If you’ve ever craved a nudge to choose the unexpected—this is it.

So, as always, this is your fun reminder to (maybe) ‘do the scary thing’ you never know what could happen.

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Jacey Jones didn’t plan on becoming a founder — but today she runs two companies in the travel space: TripSuite, a tech startup streamlining the travel advisor industry, and Kamira Travel, a boutique agency specializing in luxury adventure. Jacey shares how she pivoted from Wall Street and Silicon Valley into travel entrepreneurship, why advisors are more in demand than ever, and what it’s like to juggle two companies while chasing her goal of visiting every country in the world.

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Marcus Lorenzo Brandon has worn a lot of hats — college football player, cybersecurity entrepreneur, actor on Mayor of Kingstown — but through it all, the art has always come first. Marcus shares what it’s really like to chase acting while balancing a full-time career, why theater still has his heart, and why directing is calling his name. We talk football, philanthropy, and what it means to follow the feeling of your craft.

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Volunteer in NYC: New York Cares

Redundancy → reinvention → 10,000 miles on the road. I bumped into a friend from Australia in Andorra of all places; as I’ve said before, that place is magic.

Akhil is gearing up for the Mongol Rally 2025—~10,000 miles (≈16,000 km) of solo driving from Europe toward the far east of Kazakhstan, through deserts, mountains, and a whole lot of “not-a-road.”

His journey is filled with up and down career pivots, from venture capital, to full-time adventure and the moments in between. So let’s get into about choosing the hard thing, solo travel, visas, camping fails, and why “regret minimization” might be the only decision framework you need.

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