Tired of mealtimes feeling like a circus? Kids jumping up every two minutes, running after them with food, or resorting to screens just to keep them in their seats? You're not alone—and there's a better way.

In this episode, we tackle one of parents' biggest daily battles: getting kids to actually sit and eat their meals. Whether you have toddlers or elementary-aged children, these four practical Family Mealtime Rules will transform your dinner table from chaos to calm.

You'll learn:

• Why chasing kids with forks or allowing screens at dinner creates more problems than it solves
• The four essential boundaries that make mealtimes work (including the ONE rule that changes everything)
• Exactly what to say when your child gets up from the table—and how to handle the meltdowns
• A simple compromise for parents who worry their child will starve
• Why consistency in the first few days is absolutely critical

The key? A loving but firm approach that teaches natural consequences. When kids know the boundaries and trust that you'll stick to them, mealtimes become peaceful for everyone.

If you're exhausted from the daily dinner battle, this episode gives you a clear, actionable plan you can start implementing tonight. Your 20-minute meals are just four rules away.

Perfect for: Parents of toddlers through elementary age children struggling with mealtime behavior

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!

Are you planning to give your child their first smartphone, tablet, gaming console, or smartwatch this holiday season? Before you wrap that gift, there's crucial work you need to do! In this week's episode of Parenting Decoded, I'm sharing essential guidance from Defend Young Minds on how to set up digital devices the RIGHT way—before your child ever touches them.

I walk you through the step-by-step process of configuring parental controls, testing safety settings, and creating a family tech contract that establishes clear boundaries from day one. Whether your child is 8, 10, or 15, this episode will help you choose protection over peril and set your family up for digital success. Plus, I'm sharing a free sample digital contract you can download and customize for your own family. Don't let the excitement of gift-giving leave you scrambling—tune in now and parent with confidence!

References to look up:

LINK TO BLOG TRANSCRIPT

Defend Young Minds website

Sample Digital Contract from Parenting Decoded

Defend Young Minds and their article "7 Essential Rules for New Tech to Safeguard Your Child."

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!

How to Stop Nagging Your Kids (And Get Better Results)

The Problem: You're repeating yourself constantly, and it's exhausting everyone. Nagging doesn't work, damages relationships, and prevents kids from developing independence.

What You'll Learn:

• Why nagging fails and what it teaches your children
• How to use natural consequences effectively
• The power of saying things once (and meaning it)
• Creating routines that eliminate daily battles
• Transferring ownership so kids manage their own responsibilities

The Goal: Raise responsible, independent kids while building a stronger relationship—without being the household taskmaster.

Perfect for: Parents tired of the nagging cycle and ready to try strategies that actually work.

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!

Transform your back-to-school shopping from a budget-busting headache to an opportunity for teaching financial responsibility. I share how I went from spending $100 per child on school supplies to $50 while teaching my kids valuable money lessons in the process.

• Set a firm budget before looking at supply lists and commit to not exceeding it
• Give kids their budget in actual cash so they can physically see their spending limits
• Let them keep whatever they don't spend as an incentive to make smart choices
• Apply the same system to clothes shopping to extend the financial learning
• Even reluctant shoppers benefit from learning how to make purchasing decisions
• Generic supplies work just as well as fancy ones for academic success
• Teaching budgeting and financial trade-offs provides lifelong skills

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!

Summer break intensifies the screen time battle with teens and tweens, but shifting from screen time enforcer to screen time strategist can transform your approach and relationship with your kids.

You should head over to the Screenagers website for the full blog post "Screen Time and Parental Controls: Simple Tips for a Smoother Summer." but I'm including a brief synopsis in this podcast to help entice you to do that.

Key Steps for a Smooth Screen Summer:
• Trust and verify instead of secretly spying on your children's digital activities
• Maintain ongoing conversations about screen time rather than relying solely on parental controls
• Show grace and compassion when technology rules are broken
• Approach parental controls as experiments to be adjusted, not perfect solutions
• Keep all technology out of bedrooms – perhaps the single most effective strategy
• Involve kids in setting up guidelines to increase their investment in the process

Screenagers has lots of amazing additional resources to help your family navigate the digital world. Check it out!

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!

Parenting Decoded welcomes McCall Gordon to tackle one of parenting’s toughest questions: Why won’t my kid sleep? Her book is aimed at parents of "livewires" — kids who are more alert, intense, and emotionally reactive than average, making traditional sleep advice ineffective.

McCall explains that temperament plays a huge role in sleep struggles — some kids just have a harder time winding down. These children are perceptive, persistent, and often lack typical “sleepy cues” like yawning. Instead, they need more support and a customized sleep strategy.

She encourages parents to stop blaming themselves. These kids aren’t “bad” sleepers — they’re wired differently. The solution? A gradual, step-by-step approach to bedtime routines, not the cold-turkey methods like “cry it out,” which often backfire for sensitive kids.

McCall’s key advice:

• Understand your child’s temperament
• Taper off bedtime habits gradually
• Use consistent patterns at bedtime and during night wakings
• Think of it like teaching a child to ride a bike — slowly let go while supporting them

She also emphasizes ruling out medical issues for frequent night wakings, especially in infants or kids who snore.

The bottom line: You’re not crazy, and it’s not your fault — you just need a different roadmap.

Link to the book on Amazon: Why Won't You Sleep?

Link to the Audible book: Why Won't You Sleep?

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!

Tackling the age-old parenting challenge of getting kids to do their chores requires a systematic approach rather than nagging or giving up. We explore a six-step process focused on bedroom cleanup that can transform your family's approach to household responsibilities.

• Breaking down "clean your room" into specific tasks like making the bed, putting clothes in hamper, and picking up toys
• Creating separate lists for daily versus weekly tasks to make expectations more manageable
• Letting children choose when they'll complete their chores (morning, evening, specific days for weekly tasks)
• Setting up clear consequences tied to things kids value rather than making up punishments in the moment
• Working as a team with your children to create the system rather than imposing it on them
• Taking a focused approach by solving one area at a time rather than trying to fix all chore problems simultaneously

Try this approach with bedrooms first, then apply what works to other areas of your home. Remember we're experimenting together with our kids to find what works for our unique family.

LINK to "Energy Drain Ideas" on Mary's website: ENERGY DRAIN IDEAS

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!

In this episode, we tackle the important issue of childhood sexual abuse and how to help prevent it. By educating ourselves as parents, we can provide our children with the tools they need to protect themselves.

• Discuss the prevalence of childhood sexual abuse statistics
• Explore the need for children to know proper terminology for body parts
• Encourage open lines of communication about consent and boundaries

Let's work together to change statistics and protect our children.

Here is the full article from AAP:

https://www.contemporarypediatrics.com/view/aap-tips-for-teaching-children-about-body-boundaries-and-safety

Email me at info@parentingdecoded.com or go to my website at www.parentingdecoded.com.

Have a blessed rest of your day!