If you’ve ever felt like you’re asking for “too much” while your partner feels overwhelmed by emotional closeness, you may be caught in the anxious–avoidant attachment cycle. In this episode, we break down how anxious and avoidant attachment styles trigger each other’s deepest wounds—creating a loop of pursuit, withdrawal, resentment, and longing. We’ll explore what’s really happening beneath the surface, why logic doesn’t fix attachment pain, and what healing looks like for both sides of the dynamic. This episode blends attachment theory with compassion, clarity, and practical insight for anyone wanting healthier, more secure relationships.

Further reading: Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller and Secure Love by Julie Menanno.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.

If deep breathing doesn’t help when you’re spiraling—or journaling feels impossible when you’re overwhelmed—you’re not broken. You just need more tools. In this episode, we talk about building a flexible mental health toolkit and why different seasons, triggers, and emotions require different strategies. We unpack emotional, cognitive, behavioral, and somatic tools and help you learn how to choose the right one when life gets loud.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.

Shame is often mistaken for motivation or accountability, but in reality, it erodes self-trust and keeps us disconnected from ourselves and others. In this episode, we explore how shame develops, how it lives in the body and nervous system, and why understanding it is key to real change. We talk about separating behavior from identity, practicing accountability without cruelty, and learning to respond to ourselves the way we would someone we love. This episode is an invitation to soften the inner dialogue and create space for healing.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.

Accountability and acceptance are two of the most uncomfortable words in mental health...but also two of the most transformative. In this episode, Stefanny and Sierra unpack why these “tough pills to swallow” often trigger shame, defensiveness, and fear, and how changing our relationship with them can radically shift the way we heal, grow, and move forward.

The conversation reframes accountability as ownership without self-attack—an empowering tool that helps us focus on what we can control once shame is removed from the equation. Acceptance is explored not as giving up or endorsing pain, but as acknowledging reality as it is, so we can stop exhausting ourselves fighting what isn’t changing.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.

In this episode, we explore the powerful dynamics of feminine and masculine energy and how both exist within each of us—regardless of gender. We’ll unpack what these energies look like when they’re in balance versus when they’re wounded, and how they shape the way we connect with ourselves and others. Through the lens of healing, self-awareness, and integration, we’ll discuss practical ways to honor both sides—cultivating the intuitive flow of the feminine alongside the structure and drive of the masculine. This conversation is about reclaiming wholeness, deepening self-trust, and stepping into alignment with your most authentic self.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.

Regret is a feeling most of us try to run from—but what if it could actually be a guide toward greater self-trust? In this episode, we unpack the psychology of regret and explore how to shift your relationship with it from shame and self-blame to insight and growth. You’ll learn practical ways to reframe past decisions, recognize the wisdom they carry, and stop letting regret erode your confidence. By changing how you engage with regret, you can cultivate self-compassion, strengthen your trust in your own choices, and move forward with more clarity and resilience.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.

Self-trust is the foundation of confidence, boundaries, and emotional well-being—but for many of us, it’s also the hardest thing to build. In this episode, we explore what self-trust really means, why it’s often broken through past experiences, and how to begin repairing that relationship with yourself. From listening to your inner signals and honoring small commitments, to navigating self-doubt and fear, you’ll learn practical tools to strengthen your trust in your own judgment and choices. Whether you’ve struggled with second-guessing, people-pleasing, or abandoning your own needs, this conversation will guide you back to a steadier, more authentic sense of self.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.

In honor of Pride Month, we’re welcoming special guest Morgan Musick, LPC — a passionate therapist and advocate who specializes in working with the LGBTQIA+ community. In this episode, we dive into what true affirming care looks like in mental health practice, why it matters, and how clinicians, allies, and loved ones can show up in meaningful ways. Morgan shares powerful insights, common challenges LGBTQIA+ clients face in therapy, and how we can all foster safer, more inclusive spaces. Whether you're a clinician, a member of the community, or simply wanting to learn, this conversation offers both practical guidance and heartfelt reflection.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please contact a licensed mental health professional or a local emergency service. Resources To locate crisis intervention services in different states, consider the following resources: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: This nationwide service connects individuals to local crisis centers. By dialing 988, you'll be routed to a crisis center in your area. For a directory of crisis centers by state and U.S. territory, visit their Crisis Centers by State and U.S. Territory page. State and Local Health Departments: Many state health departments provide information on mental health services and crisis intervention. For example, the Texas Health and Human Services website offers details on crisis services available within the state.211 Information and Referral Services: By dialing 211, you can access information about local resources, including mental health and crisis intervention services. This service is available in many areas across the United States. ⁠Wikipedia⁠ National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides resources and support for individuals facing mental health challenges. Their Crisis Intervention page offers information on crisis services and how to find local support. These resources can help you identify and connect with crisis intervention services tailored to specific states or regions.