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Purposely Crossed

Purposely Crossed

Written by: Jamila "Jae" Nickerson
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This is a place for those who have been hurt, confused, overlooked, broken, and wondered, “Why did this have to happen?”. Here we find meaning in the moments that tried to break us. What felt like a burden was really an assignment, and every season that stretched us, was shaping us. Nothing that happened was random—it had purpose.

Each episode leans into real life: betrayal, heartbreak, loss, disappointment, waiting, and unexpected pain. Yet, through every story, we uncover the same truth—God was present, intentional, and working behind the scenes. The things we thought were setbacks were actually setups. The battles were building us. The cross wasn’t a mistake; it was part of the mission.

This podcast invites listeners to reflect, heal, and grow. We explore how Jesus was crossed on purpose, and how our own lives echo that same pattern: pressure with a purpose, pain with a promise, and purpose hidden in the process. We don’t avoid the hard questions—we walk through them together with faith, honesty, and hope. If life has ever cut deep, if you’ve ever been crossed by people you trusted, or if your journey has felt heavy and confusing, this space reminds you:

You weren’t abandoned. You were assigned. There was purpose in every step.

Welcome to the conversation.

2026 Jamila "Jae" Nickerson Christianity Ministry & Evangelism Spirituality
Episodes
  • EP 04 "Trusting God's Plans"

    EP 04 "Trusting God's Plans"
    Feb 17 2026

    In this weeks conversation, Jae welcomes a very special guest, Bruce. Their conversation covers their first meeting, early interactions, the start of their relationship. They provide insight into the development of their relationship and the key moments that shaped their journey together. It then delves into their realization of conviction in their relationship, leading to an exploration of transparency, and bargaining with God. It explores the perspectives of both individuals on marriage and the role of faith in their journey. This conversation will highlight the impact of faith and patience during difficult times and the role of faith in overcoming challenges.

    Takeaways

    • The start of their relationship
    • The power of prayer and specific requests Trusting God's plan
    • Conviction and obedience
    • Faith and Patience in Challenging Times

    Chapters

    • 00:00 First Meeting and Early Interactions
    • 05:01 The Start of Their Relationship
    • 13:03 The First Date and Initial Impressions
    • 18:04 Prayer and Answered Prayers: Specific Requests and Unique Qualities
    • 27:58 Transparency and Conviction: Fornication and Bargaining with God
    • 33:26 God's Hand in It
    • 41:59 Perspectives on Marriage
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    56 mins
  • EP 03 "Obedience Without Hesitation"

    EP 03 "Obedience Without Hesitation"
    Feb 10 2026

    The conversation delves into the importance of obedience as an act of love and trust in God, highlighting the consequences of delayed obedience and the impact of disobedience on relationships, rejection, and the kingdom of God. It emphasizes the significance of obedience over sacrifice and the transformation it brings, encouraging listeners to walk in obedience with an understanding of its impact on others.

    Takeaways

    • Obedience is a demonstration of love and trust in God
    • Delayed obedience is disobedience with consequences

    Stay Connected with Purposely Crossed

    • Website: www.purposelycrossed.com

    • Linktree: linktr.ee/thejaenickerson

    • YouTube: youtube.com/@thejaenickerson

    • Instagram: @purposelycrossedpod
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    32 mins
  • EP 02 “How Grief Becomes a Stepping Stone”

    EP 02 “How Grief Becomes a Stepping Stone”
    Feb 3 2026

    The conversation delves into the experience of grief as a pruning process, highlighting the trust in God through grief and the transition to the next assignment. It explores the emotional journey of grief, the spiritual significance of pruning, and the transformative impact of trusting God through the process.

    Takeaways

    • Grief as a Pruning Process
    • Trusting God Through Grief

    Stay Connected with Purposely Crossed

    • Website: www.purposelycrossed.com

    • Linktree: linktr.ee/thejaenickerson

    • YouTube: youtube.com/@thejaenickerson

    • Instagram: @purposelycrossedpod
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    40 mins
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