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Series 2, Episode 2: The Comparison Trap & The "Perfect Mum" Myth

Series 2, Episode 2: The Comparison Trap & The "Perfect Mum" Myth

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Have you ever looked around at baby groups, milestone charts, or social media and wondered why everyone else seems to have parenting figured out while you’re just making it up as you go? 🫶


The "perfect mum" doesn't exist, so why do we put so much pressure on ourselves to have it all together?


In Episode 2 of Series 2, hosts Jess and Grace are joined by mums Ellie and Talisa for an honest and deeply reassuring chat about the invisible standards of motherhood, and the exhausting pressure to appear completely capable.


If you’ve ever avoided a baby group, stayed up at 3 a.m. feeling like you're failing, or caught yourself comparing your messy reality to someone else’s polished online highlight reel... you are in the right place.


✨ This episode is sponsored by VTech Baby, award-winning children’s toys brand supporting little ones through every stage of development.


🌟 What We Talk About in This Episode:

  • The Comparison Trap: Unpacking onlinehighlight reels, pregnancy plans, and why child development is not a race or a reflection of your worth.
  • The "Perfect Mum" Myth: Dismantling impossible expectations, navigating postnatal mental health, and the pressure to appear constantly in control.
  • The Professional Identity Shift: Navigating the shift from feeling competent in your old life to feeling uncertain in motherhood.
  • Solidarity & Connection: Reclaiming your confidence, learning to ask for help, and trusting yourself as the perfect parent for your child.


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