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She Designs Her Life

She Designs Her Life

Written by: Shay Miller
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Hey I am Shay, This podcast will be talking about the things most women don’t say out loud! I am going to share things about breakups, make ups, friendships, funny stories and experiences. This is for my girlies who relate to being a modern woman in this day and age. The good the bad, how I overcome and grow from the things that are devastating in our lives. This podcast will be like an open conversation like you are having with your best girlfriends, talks about dating (ugh lord that is rough), trends, pop culture and my always updated reading list! There are moments that make you cry, moments you will laugh your ass off, either with me or at me.Nothing will be held back, let’s have some fun!

Xo - your girlie girl with a dark heart!



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Episodes
  • Ep. 73 Floods, Living Simply, Winter Blues, & dealing with the unexpected!
    Feb 18 2026

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    Well the curve ball that I was not expecting was to have my home, my apartment, my bachelorette pad get filled with water. That I would have to be out of it for a month while it's being repaired. We are safe, but we are in a hotel and things you realize you need, you're without, simple things and then also, simplify things in my own life. Maybe this was to teach me to be a bit more prepared. Also, forgot to mention, my bestie told me this is showing me one of my words on my next 6 months, how to Perseverance is being shown to me!

    Watched:

    -Wuthering Heights, I could talk about this movie all day and have a whole episode on it. It’s ruined modern dating, the yearning, the love, the unexpected, the chase, the sadness of what you want but cannot get, the tragedy. I just LOVED it.

    I will add my new TBR list later, I will update with new shopping lists that will be helpful if you're ever in need. I will show you what I am in need of in these times.


    connect with me on instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned

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    29 mins
  • Ep. 72 Hello Love Month - or is that too much for these guys!
    Feb 4 2026

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    Oh boy, running into a Ghost is always fun, or is it? Let’s chat Valentines/Galetine’s Day and define talking stages …again! Why I deleted dating apps, what funny mischief will I experiment with now!

    What am I watching: Traitors, The Rookie, Tell me Lies, Below Deck, Southern Charm, The Valley, Persians, Real Housewives: Beverly Hills (maybe that's it), Bridgerton!

    Reading: The Housemaid, How my Neighbor Stole Christmas, Onyx Storm (yes still)

    Listening to: New Heights, Let's Be Honest, Skinny Confidential Him & Her, Khloe in Wonder land, Unwaxed, The Breakdown with Josie Balka, Hot Mess, took a break on Call Her Daddy.

    Let’s get social- instagram @she.designs.her.life / @shaydesigned

    Shop Valentine/Galentine gift ideas!

    https://shopmy.us/collections/3785999

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    24 mins
  • Ep. 71 Create the Life You See For Yourself, but Now!
    Jan 28 2026

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    I am in a new spot! Home, in my office, welcome to Northeast Snowy ted talk on how to create the Life You See for YOURSELF, but NOW!

    Make the changes, make the moves, plan it out, do the damn thing. I made changes without even knowing in 2020, then I actually put the plan in action in 2023. Things do not just happen, you must plan ahead! I am now 2 years later and I am evolving more, making small changes to have the life I always wanted. I think my little bits of advice can help you make the changes, if you are looking to do that! (Episodes I refer to: Ep. 1 & Ep. 15 (there is other to detail more crazy)

    What am I watching:

    Heated Rivalry, Traitors, The Rookie, Tell me Lies, The Rip, Keeping up with the Kardashians, Below Deck Med, Southern Charm, The Valley, Persians, Real Housewives: Salt Lake City & Beverly Hills (maybe that's it), rewatch Stranger Things

    Reading: The Housemaid, How my Neighbor Stole Christmas, Onyx Storm (yes still)

    Listening to: New Heights, Let's Be Honest, Skinny Confidential Him & Her, Khloe in Wonder land, Unwaxed, The Breakdown with Josie Balka, Hot Mess, took a break on Call Her Daddy.

    Follow me on Social Media Instagram: she.designs.her.life / shaydesigned

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    29 mins
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