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Join Missy, Jordan and Tania as they chat with an aesthetic nurse to break down beauty trends, snatched jawlines, and what people are really asking for when it comes to feeling confident in their bodies.

From self-image and sexual health to the most interesting and unexpected requests she hears in practice, this episode explores how confidence, comfort, and desire intersect — without filters, shame, or unrealistic standards.

A candid conversation about what “hot” actually means today, and why owning your skin matters more than chasing perfection.

Happy skin!

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Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross
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Edited by: Charles E. Becker

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Is your bedroom dead—or just stuck in a routine?
Join Missy, Jordan and Tania as they chat with Moushumi Ghose, a Los Angeles sex therapist, who breaks down why desire fades in long-term relationships and shares practical, judgment-free ways to reconnect, communicate better, and bring the spark back.

This conversation is honest, relatable, and way more common than people admit.
Watch till the end for advice that actually works in real relationships.

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Timestamps - Episode Highlights

00:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the day – Rainbow Kiss

03:39 – Becoming a sex therapist

06:58 – What do most couples come to you for?? Disparity and dry spells!

08:58 - First question – Who’s complaining? Whose problem is this?

09:31 – Discover solutions you want to work on! Increase intimacy? Open it up?

10:36 – So many different practitioner types – Sex psychotherapist vs Surrogate Partner

11:20 – Los Angeles is the hub for Surrogate Partner Therapy – only legal in 3 states!

13:41 – In Israel – women see Surrogate Partner right out of college to prepare for marriage

14:08 – We live in a culture where women don’t really pay for sex – a lot of men will pay a sex worker – sex workers are doing the front-line therapy work!

14:27 – At brothels in Nevada, most popular service is the girlfriend experience – GFE!

14:56 – Reclaiming the word SLUT! A woman fully in her sexual power!

15:49 – How do you overcome awkwardness of sex with someone new – LEAN IN!

18:25 – How do you keep things fresh in the bedroom in a longer-term relationship?

20:18 – TIP: Talk to each other about people you find attractive

23:43 – TIP: Get on the same page about what you want your future to be like

25:44 – TIP: Develop a vocabulary – ice breaker and lube conversation up

27:00 – Real couple in a dry spell – taking process slow, vocabulary, sentence completion, sex therapy journal, etc.

28:07 – TIP: Dirty talk! In between sessions – permission to be awkward, say dirty things to each other – the more you do it the easier it becomes

30:50 – Push through shame and stigma. Put a towel down and go to town on the pussy!

32:45 - What would you tell your younger self about relationships? You’ll have a lot of them!

Resources and mentions:

Visit the Moushumi Ghose’s website and get connected!

www.pleasurepsych.com

www.moushumighose.com

Instagram @moshumighosemft

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Join Missy, Jordan, and Tania as we chat with Bonnie Gross, award-winning screenwriter/executive producer whose personal journey became a full-on movie: LADY PARTS.

In this episode, she reveals how she took on her inability to have intercourse, her diagnosis with Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction, her journey to sexual health, and took the big risk to share her lived experience with the world. The result of betting on herself is a script that captured audiences and won awards, including Austin Film Festival.

Whether you connect with Bonnie on her health challenges or are into storytelling, or just want inspiration to start your own creative leap…this interview is gold.

Enjoy!

Timestamps - Episode Highlights

00:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the day - Butter Churner

01:10 – Introducing Bonnie – vaginal healthcare and sexuality comedy writer

03:59 – Turning personal experience into the film “LADY PARTS”

05:30 – It all started with a blog post

07:57 – Crafting the film: from opening scene to executive producer role

08:50 – Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and dealing with a tampon

10:31 – What it’s like to be the writer, screenwriter, executive producer & so much more

12:15 – Vestibulectomy – the only one on set with that experience

12:22 – Common link to director with Vaginismus and the use of dilators – 2 perspectives

13:47 – Mantra - if there is no seat at the dinner table – bring a damn folding chair!

14:02 – Dildos versus dilators (the Russian dildos) and taking care of your pelvic floor

15:48 – An orgasm a day keeps the PT away!

16:28 – Bring toys to the bedroom – we love them – if it brings you pleasure then do it

17:54 – Tell us about casting yourself in a movie and reliving your experience on set

23:10 – How filmmaking transformed Bonnie’s dating life and intimacy

27:15 – What did you learn making this movie that you can now take into the bedroom

30:30 – Beauty of their set – leaning in – not making it awkward even in the sex dungeon

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Visit the LADY PARTS website and connect with Bonnie Gross!

https://bonnie-gross.com

https://bonnie-gross.com/lady-parts/

Instagram @shake_ur_bonbon

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