Can we love someone deeply without losing ourselves?

Love brings us together, but healthy relationships also need space for individuality, boundaries and personal freedom.

In this episode of The Listening Commons, Canadian journalist Scott Douglas Jacobsen, New York-based mental health practitioner Sapira Cahana, and Indian psychiatrist and psychosexual medicine specialist Dr. Aninda Sidhana explore what it means to love, care and connect without losing our sense of self.

Together, they discuss communication, consent, emotional intimacy, loneliness, grief, disability, caregiver burnout, and the delicate balance between independence and interdependence.

How do we express our needs without making demands? Can we respect differences without feeling rejected? And how can love become a place where both people feel valued, understood and free to grow?

Drawing on journalism, relational and existential therapy, psychiatry and psychosexual medicine, this conversation invites us to rethink love beyond possession, sacrifice and traditional expectations.

Because love is not just a feeling. It is also how we listen, respect boundaries, care for one another and make each other feel that we matter.

And no one should have to choose between being loved and being themselves.

The Listening Commons | Scott Douglas Jacobsen, Sapira Cahana & Dr. Aninda Sidhana

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Beyond the Diagnosis: Two Generations of Psychiatry, Three Perspectives on Humanity

Dr. Roop Sidana × Dr. Aninda Sidhana × Scott Douglas Jacobsen

What can 43 years of psychiatric practice teach us about the future of mental healthcare?

In this special episode of The Listening Commons, Scott Douglas Jacobsen joins Dr. Aninda Sidhana and her father, veteran psychiatrist Dr. Roop Sidana, for an intergenerational exploration of psychiatry, stigma, artificial intelligence and the enduring importance of human connection.

Drawing on decades of clinical experience, Dr. Roop Sidana offers the perspective of a generation that witnessed psychiatry's evolution.

Dr. Aninda Sidhana brings her work in women's mental health, psychosexual medicine, dignity and human-centred approaches to emerging technology.

Scott Douglas Jacobsen brings a broader lens of critical inquiry, connecting clinical experience with questions about scientific progress, social attitudes, ethics and what it means to care for another human being.

Together, their perspectives invite us to consider:

- How has psychiatry evolved across generations?

- Why does stigma persist despite advances in treatment?

- What can AI contribute to mental healthcare, and where must human judgment remain central?

- How do we protect dignity and compassion in an increasingly technological world?

Because the future of psychiatry is not only about what technology can do. It is about what humanity must never forget.

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How do biology, culture, relationships, and gender expectations shape women’s depression—and what helps women recover?

In this episode of The Listening Commons, Scott Douglas Jacobsen and Dr. Aninda Sidhana explore women’s depression across the lifespan, examining hormonal influences, psychological experiences, social pressures, and the demands of work and caregiving.

Their conversation covers the neurobiology of depression, stigma, loneliness, suicide risk, resilience, emotional intelligence, treatment, and recovery. They also discuss how partners and families can offer meaningful support through listening, trust, and respect—and why mental health advocacy must move from awareness toward practical action.

About the speakers

Scott Douglas Jacobsen is a Canadian independent journalist, publisher, editor, and humanist. Founder of In-Sight and leader of In-Sight Publishing and In-Sight: Interviews, his work spans science, ethics, secularism, politics, gender equality, and human rights, including international engagement on Ukraine and press freedom.

Dr. Aninda Sidhana is an Indian psychiatrist, psychosexual medicine specialist, and mental health advocate. She is National President of the WICCI National Women’s Mental Health & Psychosocial Wellness Council, a UN SDG Goodwill Ambassador, and an ISDRC Geneva Next Generation Leader Fellow. Her work focuses on women’s mental health, trauma-informed care, gender-based violence, sexual wellbeing, and survivor-centred advocacy.

As founder of The Dignity Dialogues™ and co-host of The Listening Commons, she connects clinical psychiatry with storytelling, responsible mental health communication, and public dialogue rooted in human dignity.

Listen for a thoughtful discussion on understanding depression in women, supporting loved ones, and building more compassionate pathways to care.

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