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THE OTHER SIDE OF DREAMS

THE OTHER SIDE OF DREAMS

Written by: Jocelyn Reyla
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The Other Side of Dreams is a podcast for women in midlife who feel invisible, lost, or unsure of who they are becoming after years of caregiving, sacrifice, and survival.

Hosted by Jocelyn Reyla — an immigrant mother, empty nester, and woman rebuilding her life — this show offers honest conversations about healing, identity, faith, and what comes next.

Each episode creates a gentle but truthful space to unlearn old roles, reconnect with purpose, and explore new possibilities for life, work, and meaningful contribution — including opportunities in the online world.

This is not about fixing yourself or starting over from nothing. It’s about remembering who you are and discovering what’s still possible.

A sacred space for women on a healing journey — and a future they get to choose.

Copyright © 2025 Jocelyn Reyla. All rights reserved.
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Episodes
  • Mother on the Sideline: When Your Children Don’t Need You the Same Way Anymore
    Jan 13 2026

    Motherhood doesn’t end — but sometimes it changes quietly.

    In this deeply honest episode, Jocelyn speaks to the mothers who find themselves standing on the sidelines of their grown children’s lives. The ones who still love fiercely, still care deeply — but are no longer needed in the same way.

    This episode explores:

    • The quiet grief of becoming “unnecessary”
    • Why pride and pain can coexist in motherhood
    • What’s really happening when adult children pull away
    • How advice can start feeling like pressure
    • The emotional cost of chasing respect
    • Learning to love without controlling
    • Reclaiming identity when caregiving ends
    • Why being on the sideline isn’t the end — but a widening

    With warmth, reflection, and gentle humor, this conversation offers validation for mothers navigating empty nest seasons, strained adult-child relationships, and the identity shift that comes when caregiving fades.

    This episode isn’t about fixing your children. It’s about finding yourself again — without guilt.

    If you’ve ever wondered, “Who am I now that no one needs me the same way?” — this one is for you.

    🎧 Take a breath. You didn’t fail. You grew.

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    14 mins
  • WHY WOMEN FEEL INVISIBLE AFTER 50 — AND WHY WE ARE NOT DISAPPEARING
    Dec 29 2025

    Do you feel invisible after 50?

    Many women — especially empty nesters and women who spent years caring for others — quietly feel unseen, unheard, and disconnected in midlife. This episode explores why that happens and what it actually means.

    In this deeply honest conversation, Jocelyn Reyla breaks down the real science, psychology, trauma research, and faith-based perspective behind why women feel invisible after 50 — and why this season is not about fading, but transformation.

    You’ll learn: • Why invisibility happens quietly, not suddenly • How menopause and hormonal changes affect emotional sensitivity • The psychology of role loss after caregiving years • How social aging bias impacts women differently than men • Why feeling unseen is often a nervous system response — not weakness • Gentle tools to reconnect with your worth and identity

    If you’re a woman over 50, an empty nester, or someone wondering “Who am I now?” — this episode is for you.

    ✨ You are not disappearing. ✨ You are becoming.

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    17 mins
  • The OFW mother
    Dec 13 2025

    Episode 2 — The OFW Mother: The Price of Leaving, The Pain of Coming Home

    In this episode, we talk about the emotional struggles OFW mothers face when they leave their families to provide—and the silent pain they carry when they return home.

    Many overseas Filipino worker mothers experience guilt, loneliness, emotional distance from their children, and the heartbreak of feeling unappreciated despite years of sacrifice. This episode explores the hidden cost of working abroad and the emotional weight mothers carry to keep their families intact.

    If you are an OFW mother, an empty nester, or a woman in midlife feeling unseen and emotionally tired, this episode is for you.

    ✨ Reflection Question: What part of my pain have I been hiding just to stay strong for my family?

    🎧 Follow the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode to support women walking the same journey.

    Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only.

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    20 mins
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