Do you find yourself in the early stages of dating someone right now and getting increasingly frustrated or even anxious that they’re not texting you or calling you as much as you wanted? And you find yourself wondering, "is this person just bad at texting or are they really just not that into me?", and probably you thought to yourself, "in which case I am going to get hurt here."

You have to tell yourself.. Whatever you do, you need to feel the connection to someone, if not, you have to move on. The feeling of closeness to someone will define if you are ready and you reach a certain amount of texting to finally say… I am ready for the next page, the momentum has build enough, and we can meet now.

Have you been in a situation of too much options and so much choices? 

This normally occur in our life, in many different scenarios.

In the dating world, it is very obvious that there are so many online dating  sites available for you, that are just luring all of us singles or not singles to indulge and find our connection in the cyber world. Unknowing of the out come  or , rather the predicament that are waiting for us, either we get caught up in the frustrating world or exciting one.

After ending a relationship, especially a long-term one, it’s so important to take time to heal and reconnect with yourself again before venturing back out there. You don’t want to do it too soon, but you also don’t want to wait forever and miss out on some valuable possible connections. It begs the question: how long should you wait after breaking up before you start to date again?

It is a question of many and that is, including myself.

When Is It Okay To Date Again After Breaking Up With Someone?

It is true that when you love someone, you don’t see the flaws, and you always give reasons to not entertain any mistakes, wrong things, and you ended up giving to many reasons to ignore the red flags.

Then time flies,where did the time go, its been 4 years…this time I celebrated, because, inside me, I feel im ready, im capable, im stronger… to date again!