Do you find yourself in the early stages of dating someone right now and getting increasingly frustrated or even anxious that they’re not texting you or calling you as much as you wanted? And you find yourself wondering, "is this person just bad at texting or are they really just not that into me?", and probably you thought to yourself, "in which case I am going to get hurt here."

You have to tell yourself.. Whatever you do, you need to feel the connection to someone, if not, you have to move on. The feeling of closeness to someone will define if you are ready and you reach a certain amount of texting to finally say… I am ready for the next page, the momentum has build enough, and we can meet now.

Have you been in a situation of too much options and so much choices? 

This normally occur in our life, in many different scenarios.

In the dating world, it is very obvious that there are so many online dating  sites available for you, that are just luring all of us singles or not singles to indulge and find our connection in the cyber world. Unknowing of the out come  or , rather the predicament that are waiting for us, either we get caught up in the frustrating world or exciting one.

After ending a relationship, especially a long-term one, it’s so important to take time to heal and reconnect with yourself again before venturing back out there. You don’t want to do it too soon, but you also don’t want to wait forever and miss out on some valuable possible connections. It begs the question: how long should you wait after breaking up before you start to date again?

It is a question of many and that is, including myself.

When Is It Okay To Date Again After Breaking Up With Someone?

It is true that when you love someone, you don’t see the flaws, and you always give reasons to not entertain any mistakes, wrong things, and you ended up giving to many reasons to ignore the red flags.

Then time flies,where did the time go, its been 4 years…this time I celebrated, because, inside me, I feel im ready, im capable, im stronger… to date again!

Love and dating are two important aspects of human relationships that can bring joy, fulfillment, and challenges.

In the modern world, finding Love is unbelievably difficult and yet exciting.

When there is lack of motivations, you dread yourself doing anything, doing even the simplest thing. Why dont you look for things that you think and you feel like you doing it or attracted to do it. In our busy life we tend to forget how important we have alittle things of diversions. When you finally found the thing you like to do and make you happy, you will alwys say , JUST DO IT!

Change is scary.

We all fear the unknown.

But, change is one of the only things in life that can be sure of.

If you want a better life, if you want to make you "someday" plans a reality, there's only one thing for it: Make a CHANGE!

Don’t put the negativity in a closet for another time – deal with resistance as it shows up or you’ll never know your self-worth. You’ll never let anyone down pursing what you love. The saddest story is one that ends with an unfulfilled dream.

So for the sake of your soul and the other people counting on you – let go and follow your happiness today.

The Bottom Line

If you want to know your value and start feeling good, you have to start creating the life you were meant to live. If you’re unhappy with a job, unable to open yourself up to new relationships, or leaving your hobbies by the wayside, you need to examine what you can do to change things.

Once you’re able to do what brings meaning to your life, you’ll know your value and your worth.

You have a deadline looming. However, instead of doing your work, you are fiddling with miscellaneous things like checking email, social media, watching videos, surfing blogs and forums. You know you should be working, but you just don’t feel like doing anything.

We are all familiar with the procrastination phenomenon. When we procrastinate, we squander away our free time and put off important tasks we should be doing them till it’s too late. And when it is indeed too late, we panic and wish we got started earlier.

The chronic procrastinators I know have spent years of their life looped in this cycle. Delaying, putting off things, slacking, hiding from work, facing work only when it’s unavoidable, then repeating this loop all over again. It’s a bad habit that eats us away and prevents us from achieving greater results in life.

Don’t let procrastination take over your life.