In this episode of That’s… What She Shed, I sit down with my CoDA friend (and former sponsor), Liz Custer, to discuss one of my all-time favorite topics—Boundaries and Codependency.

Liz and I get real about our personal journeys, sharing how chronic people-pleasing, controlling behaviors, and encounters with manipulators disguised as "helpers" shaped our past relationships. We dive into the transformative power of boundary work—how difficult yet necessary it is to break old patterns, step into courage, and prioritize our own well-being.

The result? Healthier, safer, and more secure relationships—and ultimately, a life of peace and freedom. If you've ever struggled with setting boundaries or recognizing codependent tendencies, this episode is for you!

Books mentioned in the podcast:

Boundaries by Henry Cloud
Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa Terkeurst
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Welcome back to That's… What She Shed! This is part two of Sara’s gripping and courageous story. In the first part, we heard about her struggle to feel love and approval from her family, how that desire shaped her identity as a skinny star athlete, and how it ultimately intersected with addiction.

But today, Sara opens up about a much darker chapter—her abusive marriage. She shares the horrifying details of how her ex-husband weaponized faith, using God as a means to manipulate and control her. Sara describes the physical and emotional torment she endured and what finally gave her the strength to leave.

In addition, she reveals the ongoing battle she faces in co-parenting with a narcissistic ex-husband—a daily challenge that requires immense strength and resilience. This episode is raw, real, and incredibly powerful—a testament to Sara’s bravery in reclaiming her life and stepping into her power.

Let’s dive in.

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In this episode, I sit down with Sara, whose story is one of resilience, recovery, and the pursuit of self-discovery. Sara takes us through her early years as a superstar soccer player, a role that came with intense pressure and heavy burdens. From there, she opens up about her struggles with eating disorders, her battle with alcohol and drug addiction, and the winding road to recovery.

But the journey didn’t end there. When Sara came to see me, she was in the middle of navigating a volatile coparenting relationship with her former spouse—who, let’s just say, was definitely not playing on her team.

And it all begins with Sara and her soccer...

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