• Kyle Nabors on Cultivating a Well-Watered Garden vs. Well-Oiled Machine
    Feb 18 2026
    In this episode, Phil and Tyler sit down with Kyle Nabors, a seasoned executive leader who has served in both large churches and global nonprofits. Kyle shares insights from decades of experience, including time at Kensington Church (a 10,000+ attendee church) and Mercy Ships, and reflects on leadership, culture, trust, and the nuanced role of the executive pastor.One of the central themes is Kyle’s well-known metaphor: the church as a well-watered garden versus a well-oiled machine. While certain systems require precision and predictability (finances, child safety, compliance), much of ministry leadership requires organic flexibility, attentiveness, and faith. Structure must serve mission—not the other way around.Throughout the conversation, you’ll be reminded that effective executive leadership isn’t about control—it’s about calibration. It’s about knowing the “blood type” of the organization, understanding the personality of the lead pastor, and helping clarify direction while cultivating culture.Resources Mentioned🗣️ Follow Kyle⛪️ Ward ChurchUnstuck Event: Church Building Masterclass with Phil TaylorFrom Our Partners💻 ⁠The Church Hub⁠: The Church Hub serves pastors, ministry leaders, and their spouses through equipping and training resources. Learn more at https://thechurchhub.org Connect with Phil Taylor✉️ ⁠Get Phil's Newsletter⁠✉️ ⁠⁠phil@backstagepastors.org⁠⁠🗣️ ⁠⁠@philtaylorxp⁠⁠ 📚 ⁠Books by Phil⁠💻 ⁠backstagepastors.org⁠™️💻⁠plainjoestudios.com⁠ Connect with Tyler Drewitz✉️ ⁠⁠tyler@myxp.church⁠⁠🗣️ ⁠⁠@tylerdrewitz⁠⁠💻 ⁠myxp.church⁠💻⁠ridgelineprinting.com⁠The best way to support this podcast is to like, subscribe and share it with a friend.LIKE & SUBSCRIBE📹 ⁠Youtube⁠🍏 ⁠Apple⁠🎤 ⁠SpotifyCHAPTERS00:00 – Introduction to Kyle Nabors04:00 – Kyle’s Leadership Journey: Military, Business, Nonprofit & Church09:00 – The Lunch That Sparked a Book11:53 – Structure Must Serve the Mission15:00 – Trust: The Currency of the Executive Pastor21:19 – Backstage Leadership at Kensington Church25:00 – Diagnosing Before Prescribing31:54 – Thriving, Authenticity & Spiritual Health36:00 – Navigating Church vs. Nonprofit Culture43:48 – Return on Investment, Direction & Stewardship– –Editing and Support by The Good Podcast Co.
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    52 mins
  • Why Lead Pastors and Executive Pastors Need Each Other w/ Ed Marcelle
    Feb 4 2026

    In this episode of The Backstage Pastors Podcast™️, Phil and Tyler sit down with longtime friend and ministry partner Ed Marcelle to explore the dynamics of the Lead Pastor (LP) and Executive Pastor (XP) relationship. Drawing from their shared history planting Terra Nova Church in upstate New York, the conversation traces Ed’s journey from solo church planter to national church planting leader. Along the way, they unpack lessons on burnout, vision, organizational leadership, team-based ministry, and the importance of mutual submission between LPs and XPs. The episode also highlights Ed’s transition into his current role serving church planters across the country and reflects on what it means to steward God’s investment in leaders for long-term, generational impact.

    Note: This interview was recorded a few years ago, but we decided we liked it so much, we just had to keep it.

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    • 🗣️Follow Ed

    • 💻Harbor Church Planting Network

    • Unstuck Event: Church Building Masterclass with Phil Taylor

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    Connect with Tyler Drewitz

    ✉️ ⁠⁠tyler@myxp.church⁠⁠

    🗣️ ⁠⁠@tylerdrewitz⁠⁠

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    CHAPTERS

    02:00 – Ed’s first church plant and lessons from solo pastoring

    07:00 – Discovering the power of LP and XP partnership

    12:00 – Vision, risk, and planting Terra Nova Church

    22:40 – Impact on church planting in the Northeast

    26:00 – Steps 1, 2, and 100: visionaries and implementers

    29:33 – Behind the scenes of a healthy LP/XP relationship

    34:22 – Ed’s transition to Harbor Network

    40:14 – Influencing leaders and long-term ministry impact

    43:01 – Advice for Lead Pastors and Executive Pastors

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    Editing and Support by The Good Podcast Co.

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    51 mins
  • Leading from the Second Chair: A Conversation with Mike Bonem
    Jan 21 2026
    In this episode of the Backstage Pastors Podcast™️, hosts Phil and Tyler kick off the series by welcoming longtime executive pastor, author, and consultant Mike Bonem. The conversation centers on the origins and evolution of the executive pastor (XP) and second-chair leader role, drawing heavily from Mike’s seminal book Leading from the Second Chair and his more recent work Thriving in the Second Chair.Mike shares the story behind writing one of the first books focused on second-chair leadership, reflects on how the XP role has changed over the past two decades, and offers practical wisdom for sustaining long-term effectiveness in backstage ministry. The discussion also explores challenges around change management in churches, delegation, metrics, and how second-chair leaders can find encouragement and visible impact even when their work often happens behind the scenes.Resources MentionedUnstuck Event: Church Building Masterclass with Phil TaylorLeading from the Second Chair by Mike BonemThriving in the Second Chair by Mike Bonem Leading Congregational Change by Mike BonemIn Pursuit of Great and Godly Leadership by Mike BonemFrom Our Partners💻 ⁠The Church Hub serves pastors, ministry leaders, and their spouses through equipping and training resources. Learn more at Thechurchhub.orgConnect with Phil Taylor✉️ ⁠Get Phil's Newsletter⁠✉️ ⁠⁠phil@backstagepastors.org⁠⁠🗣️ ⁠⁠@philtaylorxp⁠⁠ 📚 ⁠Books by Phil⁠💻 ⁠backstagepastors.org⁠💻⁠plainjoestudios.com⁠ Connect with Tyler Drewitz✉️ ⁠⁠tyler@myxp.church⁠⁠🗣️ ⁠⁠@tylerdrewitz⁠⁠💻 ⁠myxp.church⁠💻⁠ridgelineprinting.com⁠LIKE & SUBSCRIBE📹⁠ ⁠Youtube⁠⁠🍏⁠ ⁠Apple⁠⁠🎤⁠ ⁠SpotifyCHAPTERS01:40 – Series Overview and Defining the Executive Pastor Role03:17 – Announcement: Church Building Projects Masterclass06:24 – Introducing Mike Bonem08:38 – The Story Behind Leading from the Second Chair12:38 – Why Thriving in the Second Chair Was Written14:04 – Extending Your Shelf Life in Ministry17:00 – Finding Encouragement in Backstage Ministry24:50 – Why Change Is So Hard in Churches33:09 – Preparing for the Executive Pastor Role– –Editing and Support by The Good Podcast Co.
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    42 mins
  • Why Backstage Pastors?
    Dec 10 2025

    In this preview episode, hosts Phil Taylor and Tyler Drewitz introduce the Backstage Pastors™️ Podcast, a show created specifically for executive pastors and second-chair leaders in churches and nonprofits. They unpack why a niche podcast like this is needed, explain the “backstage pastors” concept, share their ministry journeys, and outline what listeners can expect when the show officially launches on January 21, 2026.

    Phil and Tyler talk about their heart for under-the-radar leaders who bring vision into reality, their desire to platform both well-known and lesser-known practitioners, and their hope that the podcast will be a high-ROI investment for the Kingdom by resourcing those who rarely get the spotlight but carry enormous responsibility.


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    ✉️ Get Phil's Newsletter

    ✉️ ⁠phil@backstagepastors.org⁠

    🗣️ ⁠@philtaylorxp⁠

    📚 Books by Phil

    💻 backstagepastors.org

    💻plainjoestudios.com


    Connect with Tyler Drewitz

    ✉️ ⁠tyler@myxp.church⁠

    🗣️ ⁠@tylerdrewitz⁠

    💻 myxp.church

    💻ridgelineprinting.com


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    Chapters

    00:00:00 – Welcome to the Backstage Pastors Podcast

    00:00:45 – Why Another Leadership Podcast?

    00:02:28 – The Executive Pastor Niche and Phil’s Book Journey

    00:04:29 – Meet Co-Host Tyler: Roles, Churches, and Businesses

    00:05:59 – Meet Host Phil Taylor: Coaching, Cohorts, and Plain Joe Studios

    00:09:39 – The “Backstage Pastors” Idea and Story Behind the Name

    00:12:44 – Why This Podcast Matters for Second-Chair Leaders

    00:19:04 – Launch Date, Release Schedule, and First Guest Preview

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    Editing and Support by The Good Podcast Co.

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    23 mins