• 81. Healing Your Body Image is Healthy as F*ck
    Jan 8 2026

    In this episode of The Body Grievers Club, Bri goes live and bears all about the complexities of body image and the radical notion of body acceptance. As a body image coach, she challenges societal norms and misconceptions around health and body size, dives deep into the emotional and psychological toll of weight discrimination, and introduces the concept of 'body grief.' The discussion includes common fears that hinder radical body acceptance and highlights the importance of grieving the loss associated with societal body standards. Bri also explores the transition from pursuing weight loss for social privilege to embracing one's body through a lens of compassion and dignity. Join Bri on your body grief journey – you are not alone in this transformative process.

    TIMESTAMPS
    01:55 Challenging Conventional Health Beliefs
    03:33 The Reality of Body Image and Health
    04:25 Common Hurdles to Radical Body Acceptance
    05:15 Litmus Tests for True Health Motivation
    06:34 Personal Journey and Professional Insights
    07:57 Understanding Body Positivity and Fat Phobia
    08:41 Shocking Statistics on Body Image and Health
    11:41 The Turning Point: Personal Therapy Experience
    16:54 The Concept of Body Grief
    22:24 The Path to Body Liberation
    31:08 Navigating the In-Between: Body Grief and Healing
    35:46 Conclusion: Starting with Body Grief


    WANT MORE OF BRI?
    *Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri

    *Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/
    *Bri's Free Resource: 7-Step Guide to Shift Body Grief to Radical Body Acceptance

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    38 mins
  • 80. How ADHD Can Impact Your Body Image with Dani Bryant
    Nov 4 2025
    In this episode of The Body Grievers Club, Bri sits down with therapist, drama therapist, and creative arts therapist Danny Bryant—a fat, neurospicy clinician from upstate New York and one of Bri's dear friends. Together they unpack the messy, beautiful intersection of neurodivergence, ADHD, body image, and body liberation. Bri and Danny talk about what it means to work with your brain instead of against it—how perfectionism, masking, and executive dysfunction show up in everything from laundry to therapy notes. They explore the grief that comes with realizing your brain (and body) may never operate like everyone else's, and how to build systems, compassion, and community around that truth. They also dig into the overlap between body liberation and neurodivergence, from shame and self-blame to the ways capitalism, ableism, and diet culture all demand conformity. Expect laughter, tangents, and a lot of "same, same" moments as they name what's hard, hilarious, and healing about existing in a brain and body that don't fit the mold. If you've ever wondered whether you're "just lazy" or living in a world not built for you, this conversation will remind you: you're not broken. You're living in a system that wasn't designed with you in mind. And you deserve care that honors both your body and your brain. TIMESTAMPS: 05:00 Interrupting, hyperfocus, and why voice memos help our brains 13:10 Pandemic clarity, fidgets, and "something's off" → assessment 16:00 Bri's "wait, do I have ADHD?" moment in real life 18:30 Executive dysfunction: notes, laundry, and tasks-within-tasks 22:10 Systems that fit you: redefining "done," micro-steps, and dopamine 25:10 Burnout cycles, urgency mode, and freeze vs. rest 27:50 Missed diagnoses in women/AFAB folks + masking as survival 30:40 ADLs with compassion: showers, brushing teeth, and ritual > routine 33:10 Habit stacking, duplicates (chargers everywhere), and shame as the enemy 36:00 All-or-nothing thinking, internalized ableism, and seeing ADHD as disability 39:00 Curiosity > criticism: Finch, allowances, novelty, and changing what no longer works 41:50 Interoception, meds, intuitive eating adaptations, and sleep/circadian quirks 45:00 Energy rhythms, gray-scale phone, capacity planning, and Mondays vs. Fridays 47:30 Boundaries, FOMO parts, and letting people be disappointed (community = annoyance sometimes) 50:10 Assessing "stay home or go?"—facts, context, and momentum vs. depletion 52:00 Culture check: conformity pressures (thinness, ableism) and finding your people 54:00 GLP-1s vs. stimulants: safety, autonomy, and why changing size ≠ changing beliefs 56:00 Spectrum ≠ line: the "pie chart" view + how presentation varies widely RESOURCES: Mentioned in this episode: Love Dani Donovan's art and writing on ADHD: Comics: https://www.adhddd.com/comics/ The Anti-Planner: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/122842465-the-anti-planner KC Davis's Strugglecare: https://www.strugglecare.com/resources A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers by Sari Solden and Michelle Frank: www.newharbinger.com/9781684032617/a-radical-guide-for-women-with-adhd/ srsltid=AfmBOoqIlhzeA5jvKuvaBqnjZZcQUZeGo5LMRX1vThmBMYFM1pWa2Otn Gifted kid with ADHD essay: https://blackgirllostkeys.com/adhd/double-trouble-navigating-life-as-a-gifted-kid-with-adhd/ This person is writing about Neurocomplexity in a interesting way: https://lindseymackereth.substack.com/ ADHD & Nutrition @rds_for_neurodiversity WANT MORE OF DANI BRYANT? * Instagram: @danibtherapy * Website: www.danibryant.com WANT MORE OF BRI? *Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri
 *Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/ *Bri's Free Resource: 7-Step Guide to Shift Body Grief to Radical Body Acceptance
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    55 mins
  • 79. Body Image + Men, Masculinity, Body Trust with Aaron Flores
    Oct 21 2025

    In this episode of The Body Grievers Club, Bri sits down with Registered Dietitian and Certified Body Trust® Specialist Aaron Flores, RDN. They dig into how grief shows up in men's body image work, why "optimization culture" keeps so many dudes stuck, and what it really means to move from control to trust without the shame-fix-rush.


    Bri and Aaron unpack the lifelong messages men receive about "fixing" their bodies, the pressure to perform masculinity, and the quiet grief of losing the hope of thinness, rippedness, or former abilities. They talk about straddling two ships, diet culture and body liberation, and why permission to be in the in-between is often the bridge to values-aligned change.


    They also explore community as an antidote to isolation, how empathy (not fixing) rewires the story, and why acceptance = "the willingness to receive my body as it is." From Big Mouth's "shame wizard" to Yoda's wisdom, this convo uses metaphor to make the work doable. If you've ever felt like you should just "hack" your way to a better body, this episode offers a different path: zoom out, name the grief, and build trust - slowly, gently, on purpose.


    TIMESTAMPS:

    02:10 Aaron's story: from running a VA weight-loss program to Body Trust


    06:05 Men, diagnosis, and why eating disorders are under-recognized


    09:30 The two ships: straddling diet culture and body liberation


    13:20 Masculinity, "optimization," and the illusion of control


    17:45 Grief themes: anger, fear, urgency, shame—and moving without a rush


    22:15 Community + witnessing: why healing must be seen to be felt


    25:40 Body Trust basics: zooming out, C-level work, and self-compassion
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    9:20 Partners & attraction: unlearning beauty standards + holding your ground


    33:10 Parenting & modeling: the relationship you want your kids to have with their bodies


    36:00 Big Mouth's "shame wizard," parts work, and building new neural grooves


    39:20 Star Wars metaphors: fear, the dark side, and choosing values over control


    42:10 Final takeaways for dudes: your body isn't a project; find your people


    RESOURCES:

    Mentioned in this episode:

    * Center for Body Trust® (rupture → reckoning → reclamation)

    * Big Mouth (Netflix): The "shame wizard" metaphor

    * Star Wars quotes & metaphors (Yoda, fear → suffering)

    * Book: Manhood: The Bare Reality by Laura Dodsworth (photo essays + narratives)

    * Aaron's 5-module body image course for dudes (via his website)


    WANT MORE OF AARON FLORES, RDN?

    * Instagram: @aaronfloresrdn

    * Website: www.aaronfloresrdn.com

    * Substack: The Unscripted Journey

    * Podcast: Men Unscripted


    WANT MORE OF BRI?

    *Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri


    *Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/

    *7 Steps Guide from Body Grief to Body Acceptance

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    51 mins
  • 78. Boundary Violations at the Doctors + How to Respond with Jenna Talleda
    Oct 7 2025

    In this episode of The Body Grievers Club, Bri sits down with Registered Dietitian and Intuitive Eating Counselor Jenna Talleda. They talk about what it really looks like to advocate for yourself at the doctor's office. Together, they unpack the realities of weight stigma in healthcare, the pressure to shrink as a provider in a larger body, and the emotional labor of holding boundaries when your care is on the line.

    Bri and Jenna name the hidden agendas behind routine weigh-ins, the harm of ignoring eating disorder histories, and the frustration of being gaslit by providers who reduce complex health concerns to a number on the scale. This conversation isn't just about weight. It's about agency, self-advocacy, and refusing to co-sign harmful narratives about your body.

    They also explore the people-pleasing tendencies that make "no" so hard to say, why fawning is a trauma response, and how anger can sometimes be the most protective force in recovery. If you've ever left a doctor's office feeling dismissed, shamed, or unheard, this episode will remind you: you're not alone, and your boundaries matter.


    TIMESTAMPS:

    02:05 What weight stigma looks like in healthcare

    05:20 Correlation vs. causation in weight + health

    08:40 The pressure of being a provider in a larger body

    12:10 Imposter syndrome + perfectionism in the work

    15:45 Saying no at the doctor's office: Jenna's story

    20:25 People-pleasing, fawning, and boundary holding

    24:10 Anger as protection + why your boundaries matter

    27:00 Advice for advocating for yourself at appointments


    RESOURCES:

    Other episodes mentioned:

    Ep 29: Healing the Medical Narrative

    Ep 36: Advocating For Yourself at the Doctor

    Bri's Free Resource: 7-Step Guide to Shift Body Grief to Radical Body Acceptance


    Get in Touch with Jenna HERE!


    WANT MORE OF BRI?

    Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri

    Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/

    Join the Body Grievers VAULT: https://www.bodyimagewithbri.com/the-vault

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    38 mins
  • 77. Can You Be Fat and Healthy?
    Sep 23 2025

    In this solo episode of The Body Grievers Club, Bri gets real about the question she hears constantly: "Can I be fat and healthy?" She unpacks why "health" is not a moral scorecard, why definitions matter, and how fear and shame sneak into our health journeys. Drawing from her clinical background and lived experience, Bri reframes health as amoral, explores correlation vs. causation in weight research, and offers practical ways to pursue care without handing your humanity to a BMI chart.


    TIME STAMPS:

    02:10 Why your personal definition of health matters

    06:00 How medical fatphobia shows up and why health ≠ morality

    13:20 What the research really says

    16:00 Why food/movement is only 30% of the picture

    20:45 Why "doing everything right" doesn't guarantee health

    27:10 Practical tips for navigating doctors

    29:40 Exploring what it means to choose health behaviors (or not) without shame


    RESOURCES:

    • Health Without Weight Loss (with Mackenzie Woolwich)
    • Medical Fatphobia (with Ragen Chastain)
    • Diagnosed With Diabetes: Coaching Through Shame
    • Healing the Medical Narrative
    • Advocating For Yourself at the Doctor
    • Concepts: Social Determinants of Health, Patient Bill of Rights, Stacey Bias's "Fat Archetypes"
    • Bri's 7 Steps from Body Grief to Body Acceptance

    Want more of Bri?

    Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri

    Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/

    Join the Body Grievers VAULT: https://www.bodyimagewithbri.com/the-vault

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    34 mins
  • 76. Body Image for Kids with Toni Davis, LPC: A Play Therapist's POV
    Sep 9 2025

    In this episode of the Body Grievers Club, Bri is joined by Toni Davis, an LPC and registered play therapist supervisor from Texas. Together, they discuss how play therapy can help children process emotions and develop a healthy body image. Toni emphasizes how important it is to involve parents in the therapeutic process and offers insights into talking about body image issues. They suggest various books and strategies for parents to teach body positivity and self-acceptance in children. The episode also covers the challenges clinicians face, including dealing with parents resistant to anti-fatness and how to address children's comments on body size.


    TIMESTAMPS

    01:19 Body Image and Play Therapy

    05:00 Addressing Food Rules and Fat Phobia

    07:24 The Impact of Body Image on Children

    16:28 Parental Influence on Body Image

    20:32 Attachment Styles and Eating Disorders

    24:12 Body Positive Books for Kids

    26:25 Books for Parents on Body Positivity

    32:13 Addressing Anti-Fatness in Parenting

    37:35 Developing a Child's Sense of Self

    44:51 Handling Comments on Body Size


    Books Referenced:

    • Fearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings
    • The Body Image Sourcebook by Carolyn Koston


    Want more of Bri?

    • Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri
    • Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/
    • Join the Body Grievers VAULT: https://www.bodyimagewithbri.com/the-vault
    • Use the coupon code BODYGRIEVERSCLUB for $50 off your purchase.


    Want more of Toni?

    Website: https://www.sapphirecovecounseling.com/

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    55 mins
  • 75. How to Make Your Body Image Suck LESS
    Aug 19 2025

    In this episode of The Body Grievers Club, Bri jumps into the complex emotions surrounding body image struggles and moving from body grief into radical body acceptance. She outlines her consistent, reliable method for navigating body image experiences and emphasizes the importance of gathering information, separating the story from the emotional distress, and building self-trust. Bri also discusses the role of grief as well as self-compassion in this process and offers advice on coping mechanisms, highlighting the power of community support in the journey towards body acceptance.


    TIMESTAMPS

    02:02 Defining Body Grief and Radical Acceptance

    03:09 Navigating Stressful Body Image

    06:02 Medical Neglect and Vulnerability

    10:01 Exploring Safety and Connection

    19:16 Impactful Reframes

    26:18 The Importance of Self-Esteem

    28:49 Understanding Trauma Responses

    30:50 The Seven-Step Framework

    39:31 The Role of Grief in Healing

    43:13 The Journey to Radical Body Acceptance


    Want more of Bri?

    Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri

    Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/

    Join the Body Grievers VAULT: https://www.bodyimagewithbri.com/the-vault

    Use the coupon code BODYGRIEVERSCLUB for $50 off your purchase.

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    51 mins
  • 74. Debunking Movement Myths with Dr. Lisa Folden
    Aug 5 2025

    In this episode of the Body Grievers Club, Bri is joined by Dr. Lisa Folden, a licensed physical therapist based in Charlotte, North Carolina, who specializes in trauma and eating disorder-informed care. Their discussion dives into the concept of 'grieving movement,' how people can find joy in movement, and break free from toxic diet culture. Dr. Folden also shares her insight on embracing weight neutral practices, intuitive movement, and the importance of addressing both the physical and emotional aspects of body healing.


    TIME STAMPS:

    02:11 Personal Experiences with Body Grief

    06:35 Debunking Myths About Movement

    09:51 Intuitive Movement and Flexibility

    17:24 Movement Snacks and Practical Tips

    22:40 Finding Joy in Movement

    24:08 The Importance of Consistency

    27:04 Grieving Movement and Abilities

    31:48 Acceptance and Compassion


    PODCAST RESOURCES:

    Dr. Lisa Folden on Instagram: @healthyphit

    Dr. Lisa Folden website: https://www.healthyphit.com/

    Podcast with PT Danny Shapiro: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6LPXeNoMEOZoh2BLWVh4Zl

    Body Scapegoating podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7gGWTgTLYoPNMP9YClp09s


    Want more of Bri?

    Instagram: @bodyimagewithbri

    Website: https://bodyimagewithbri.com/

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    46 mins