Episodes

  • 10. Build Your Confidence from the Inside Out
    Dec 23 2025

    "Confidence - no pressure! I'll leave my humbleness outside the booth."

    And so begins my conversation with Anthony Moseley, Creative Director for the Emmy Award-winning Collaboraction Theatre Company.

    Confidence is a big word, one most of us struggle to embrace without feeling like we’re stepping over the line into arrogance or being overconfident. In our conversation, Anthony and I move beyond superficial definitions and explore a framework for how you can build your own confidence, sharing stories and deep reflections for each point.

    If you're struggling to feel confident in some aspect of your life, we walk you through 5 core elements you can develop to help you arrive at my definition of the word: a calm sense of certainty you can do or become anything you want.

    This is the raw, real conversation you need to start cultivating the kind of unwavering courage and self-belief that will power you through your biggest aspirations and dreams. Are you ready for a confidence boost?

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    In the episode:

    • [0:42] Alexis’ confession about the episode
    • [3:13] Alexis' model of confidence: 5 core elements
    • [4:49] Hi, Anthony!
    • [6:09] Anthony goes waaay back with his bio.
    • [12:10] Art and impact with Collaboraction
    • [14:37] Element 1: Self-Love
    • [21:05] Element 2: Intentional learning
    • [28:00] Element 3: Taking action
    • [32:36] Element 4: Deliberate presentation
    • [40:30] Element 5: Purpose
    • [47:55] Advice on how to boost your confidence

    References:

    • "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take": Wayne Gretzky
    • Grief expert: Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
    • Author: David Foster Wallace

    Find Anthony:

    • Collaboraction: Website | YouTube | Instagram
    • Collaboraction Radio podcast: Apple | Spotify

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    54 mins
  • 9. Money and Financial Healing
    Dec 16 2025

    “Money is not about how much you have in your bank account, but how you view yourself and the world around you.”

    Those are the sage words of Leslie Mallman, a seasoned Financial Advisor and Money Healer. In this episode, she joins me for a candid and compassionate discussion on why money feels like such a loaded topic - and how to turn anxiety into agency.

    We shift from the concept of financial health to financial fitness and explore the idea that your net worth isn't something to diagnose, but rather a state of being you can develop and improve. We then dig into the traps many of us face, from maxed‑out credit cards and lifestyle creep to doom‑scroll headlines that make normal market dips feel catastrophic. We also get real about advisors and incentives, discussing our own negative experiences working with people who we felt weren't fully aligned with our goals.

    You’ll hear how to filter the noise and anchor your goals on what “enough” means for you. Because if you aren't prioritizing money in alignment with the rest of your life - your health, relationships, career, and personal fulfillment - what's the point of having a big bank account?

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    In this episode:

    • [0:45] Why I made this episode
    • [4:48] Meet Leslie Mallman
    • [13:07] What is money?
    • [17:09] Financial health vs. financial fitness
    • [21:24] Financial healing
    • [28:55] What does a financial advisor do?
    • [31:01] Negative experiences with advisors
    • [39:01] What is "enough" and how it's changed over time
    • [46:56] Common traps that affect financial well-being
    • [52:23] Insights from Leslie's financial healing class
    • [55:15] Power moves that changed our financial fitness
    • [1:04:04] Advice to improve your relationship with money

    References:

    • Loud budgeting
    • Recommended resources

    Find Leslie:

    • Financial Advising: fiveoceansadvisors.com
    • Financial Healing: moneycoachleslie.com

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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • 8. Navigating a Lasting Career: The Adventures of Women in Tech
    Jul 24 2025

    Alexis and Alana Karen, an award-winning author who spent over 23 years at Google, explore the question of how to navigate a long and enduring career as a woman in tech. In this raw and honest conversation, they discuss the realities women face in the tech industry and the tools needed to not just survive, but thrive.

    What does it take to build a lasting career in tech when you're one of only a few women in the room? Behind the glossy media articles questioning whether women can "make it" in tech lies a more nuanced reality, one where resilience, community, and strategic self-advocacy are the keys to navigating a lasting career in tech.

    After interviewing 80 women across the industry, Alana distilled their collective wisdom into five essential tools. They explore how these skills create staying power in an industry where it can feel like you don't belong.

    As tech confronts a new wave of challenges, from layoffs to ethical questions about AI, they examine what's changed since Alana first published her book. Where she originally emphasized belonging, her upcoming fifth-anniversary edition explores agency in an industry where trust has eroded. As for the key to a lasting career? A delicate balance of patience and strategic action, knowing when to endure difficult periods and when to pivot toward growth and change.

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    In this episode:

    • [1:27] Background on today's guest, Alana Karen
    • [2:00] Alexis' career journey: the good, the bad, the ugly
    • [12:15] Alana: welcome and introduction
    • [17:13] Why Alana wrote "The Adventures of Women in Tech"
    • [25:10] Five essential tools for women in tech
    • [34:04] The Fifth Anniversary Edition: a sneak peek!
    • [43:42] Power moves: career pivots and growth
    • [59:50] Advice for long-term career success

    Find Alana:

    • Website: alanakaren.com
    • LinkedIn
    • Sign up for her Newsletter

    References:

    • Alana’s book: The Adventures of Women in Tech
    • Alana’s workbook: The Adventures of Women in Tech Workbook
    • Previous episode: Navigating Burnout
    • Jonathan Haidt: The Anxious Generation
    • Alana's Interview with Sheryl Sandberg

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • 7. How to get unstuck and design your career with intention
    Jun 24 2025

    Ever felt like you're somehow "stuck" in your career, knowing something needs to change but unsure how to move forward?

    Blessing Nnachi, author of a new book titled By Design: A Guide to Creating a Career You Love, joins me to provide a roadmap for anyone feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsatisfied with their current path.

    Blessing shares how her journey from tech professional to career coach led her to develop a practical framework for living a more intentional life. The centerpiece of our discussion is the "Good Life Triangle,” a powerful model for understanding the tension between freedom, community, and meaning that shapes our life choices, and can help you consider how to make conscious decisions about where you actually want to spend your time and energy.

    Together, we explore why recognizing you're stuck is the crucial first step toward change, and we unpack common traps that keep us feeling unfulfilled in our careers. The conversation weaves between philosophical insights and practical advice, addressing how different life seasons may require a change in priorities.

    Whether you're early in your career focusing on skill-building, navigating parenthood while maintaining professional growth, or reassessing your direction mid-career, our discussion offers wisdom applicable to various stages and challenges.

    As Blessing reminds us, "There's only one today." What will you do with it?

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    In this episode:

    • [2:46] Some amazingly terrible jokes to start us off
    • [3:42] Blessing Nnachi: welcome and background
    • [7:22] How Blessing’s book By Design came to life
    • [11:07] The story behind the book’s title
    • [13:57] How to recognize you’re feeling stuck
    • [22:35] Reflecting on Blessing’s vulnerable story from the preface
    • [27:01] The “Good Life Triangle” - what it is, why it’s important
    • [43:11] Balancing priorities and the concepts of tradeoffs & seasons
    • [47:00] Common questions people look for coaching and support on
    • [54:01] Hidden traps that can affect your career
    • [1:00:05] Power moves that changed our career trajectories
    • [1:05:52] Advice for someone who is feeling stuck in their career

    Find Blessing:

    • Website: itsbydesign.org
    • Instagram
    • LinkedIn

    References:

    • Blessing’s book: By Design: A guide to creating a career you love
    • Elle Luna: The Crossroads of Should & Must

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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • 6. Physical Health: Real Talk About Cultivating Wellness and Balance
    Jun 4 2025

    Alexis and Nina Black, an expert in physical fitness, explore what physical health actually means - beyond surface-level definitions and unrealistic standards - in a refreshingly authentic and honest discussion.

    Nina's extraordinary journey from circus performer (complete with sequined costumes and snake-handling shows) to managing 75 coaches across 17 fitness studios provides a fascinating backdrop for our exploration of body image, fitness habits, and self-acceptance.

    We introduce the powerful concept of "one size fits one," recognizing that physical health isn't a standardized goal but a deeply personal journey that shifts across different phases of life. What worked for you when you were 20 likely won't work the same when you turn 40, and that's perfectly normal.

    Whether you're struggling to establish sustainable exercise habits, battling negative body image, or simply trying to understand what "healthy" actually means for you personally, this conversation offers validation, perspective, and practical ideas for developing a more compassionate relationship with your physical self. Join us as we redefine physical health as a journey of progress rather than perfection, and where feeling good ultimately matters more than looking good.

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    In this episode:

    • [6:24] Nina Black: welcome and episode context
    • [9:47] How and when we talk about physical health
    • [17:22] Nina's background
    • [34:49] What is physical health?
    • [42:43] 6 dimensions of physical health
    • [47:44] Our physical health journeys
    • [1:05:02] Positive experiences with physical health
    • [1:21:00] Nina's personal victory story
    • [1:26:54] Alexis's pregnancy-related physical health challenges

    Find Nina:

    • Instagram

    References:

    • Circus camps: Camp Big Top | Actor’s Gymnasium
    • Shrine Circus: Company site
    • Orangetheory Fitness: Company site
    • Wearable health monitors: Oura | Fitbit | Whoop
    • Paleo-style eating programs: Perfect Health Diet | Whole 30
    • Meal delivery service: Factor

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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • 5. Embrace Curiosity for Personal and Professional Growth
    May 20 2025

    Alexis and Linda Moss, an expert in corporate learning, discuss the topic of Curiosity and how it can spark growth throughout your life.

    Alexis describes three different forms of curiosity:

    1. Epistemic curiosity (the drive to acquire knowledge)
    2. Empathic curiosity (the drive to understand others’ feelings)
    3. Self-directed curiosity (a tool for personal growth)

    She then explores how fear can hinder curiosity and offers strategies to overcome it.

    Linda shares insights and reflections based on her experiences at Google and several other tech companies, touching upon the nature of curiosity, its connection to learning, and how to foster curiosity both as an individual and as a manager. Together, Linda and Alexis also explore a broader range of career topics, including career transitions and burnout. They end the episode with an exploration of how hard and soft skills can be developed.

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    In this episode:

    • [1:11] Epistemic Curiosity
    • [2:35] Empathic Curiosity
    • [3:21] Self-Directed Curiosity
    • [4:25] Feeding curiosity is easy; getting curious can be hard
    • [7:25] Linda Moss: welcome & background
    • [9:03] What is curiosity, and when are we most curious?
    • [12:24] What holds us back from curiosity?
    • [22:27] How to foster more curiosity in your life
    • [27:40] Exploring personal career transitions
    • [38:10] How can a manager foster curiosity with their team?
    • [43:41] How Linda supported Alexis through a period of burnout
    • [51:00] Exploring hard & soft skill development

    References:

    • Wikipedia: Epistemic Curiosity
    • Psychology Today: Empathic Curiosity
    • Psychology Today: Feeding curiosity stimulates dopamine
    • Harvard Business Review: Why women don’t apply for jobs unless they’re 100% qualified
    • Ian Leslie: Curious (not highlighted, but a good read)
    • Article: Get curious not furious (not highlighted, but great for parents)

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    58 mins
  • 4. How to Grow Your Career and Build a Path to Professional Success
    May 6 2025

    Alexis and Sara Shookus, a Director at Google, discuss strategies on how to grow your career and share stories about their journeys.

    Alexis begins by describing the three stages of career advancement from a talk she developed while she was still at Google, that went viral internally:

    1. Do amazing work
    2. Elevate others
    3. Make others notice

    Sara then joins the discussion, and the two share insights and reflections based on their experiences at Google and beyond - addressing the performance review process, career moves, personal branding, and balancing career aspirations with the demands of motherhood.

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    In this episode:

    • [2:13] 3 elements for high ratings and promotions
    • [3:50] Do Amazing Work
    • [7:24] Elevate Everyone
    • [12:17] Make Others Notice
    • [16:26] Alexis' reflections on guiding others in their career
    • [17:53] Sara Shookus: welcome & background
    • [22:44] Sara’s reflections on career progression
    • [28:25] Does Sara’s experience align with Alexis’ model?
    • [36:14] How to make horizontal career moves
    • [39:01] Skills people over-index on
    • [47:50] Balancing motherhood and career aspirations
    • [55:38] “Power Moves” - trajectory changing moves
    • [1:04:52] Overarching advice from Sara & Alexis

    References:

    • Brene Brown: The importance of vulnerability
    • Tanya Reilly: GLUE work
    • Jenny Wood: Wild Courage
    • Eduardo Briceño: How to get better at the things you care about

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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • 3. Unlock Your Creative Potential (Spoiler: It's a Critical Skill at Work)
    Apr 29 2025

    Alexis and Pablo Signori, a creativity expert and seasoned working artist, explore the many applications of creativity - and how you can unlock yours.

    Together, they tackle the concept of creativity, asserting it's an inherent human ability that can be cultivated, rather than a trait you were born with or lack entirely. They explore the idea and nature of creativity, its relevance beyond traditional art forms, and how to foster it in everyday life and work.

    The dialogue touches upon personal experiences as they speak about the value of creativity in a professional context, perspectives on art, and the importance of practice and open-mindedness. They also explore strategies to help you unlock your own creative potential.

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    In this episode:

    • [0:47] Creativity is a superpower we all possess
    • [8:08] Creating gray matter in the brain
    • [10:50] What is creativity?
    • [23:35] Talent is distinct from creativity - and success
    • [30:40] Pablo’s key components of art
    • [35:43] The X factor
    • [42:45] How cultivate creativity
    • [50:55] Curiosity feeds creativity
    • [58:34] The creative process - steps in a work context
    • [1:10:33] Power moves
    • [1:17:59] Creativity starts as a commitment

    Find Pablo:

    • Pablo’s Website
    • Instagram
    • The Newb & The Knower podcast: Apple | Spotify

    References:

    • Alexis' music album, "Begin" (2005): Spotify | Apple
    • PsyPost: Neuroimaging study suggests smartphone addiction may reduce the capacity for creativity
    • Smartphone Addiction: Wiki article | Online Self-Test (SAS)
    • Wikipedia: Grey Matter
    • Nature: Habitual use of GPS negatively impacts spatial memory
    • Adam Grant: Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things
    • Denis Azabagic: A live performance | About
    • Songs : Chaconne (Bach, difficult) | Lágrima (Tárrega, simpler)
    • Julia Cameron: The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity
    • Pablo’s Creativity Tool: Notion

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    1 hr and 20 mins