What does it look like to walk alongside a student wrestling with sexuality, identity, or shame, not with a list of rules, but with the love of Jesus? In this episode, we sit down with Laurie Krieg, Director of Parent Programs and Discipleship at the Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender, speaker, and co-author of the forthcoming Raising Wise Kids in a Sexually Confused World (2026).
Laurie opens up about her own story of experiencing same-sex attraction in college, the mentor who helped her feel the deeper needs beneath her desires, and what it actually means to move from chains to freedom. From there, the conversation covers practical and theological ground that every campus leader needs: what marriage, singleness, and sex are really for, why a theology of yes is more compelling than a theology of no, and how hospitality has been one of the most powerful tools in her ministry.
We also talk about what students are really asking when they push back on faith, how to lead out of scars rather than open wounds, and why clarity of language with peaceful gospel confidence may be the most important thing leaders can bring to this generation.
Whether you are a campus minister, a parent, or someone still working through your own story, this conversation is full of wisdom, honesty, and hope.
Resources and Books Mentioned
- Raising Wise Kids in a Sexually Confused World by Laurie and Matt Krieg (forthcoming 2026)
- Journey by Laurie Krieg (self-published soul care workbook, available on Amazon) — a gospel-centered discipleship resource for individuals, mentors, and groups wrestling with sexual brokenness
- Laurie and Matt's marriage book (available through their publisher)
- Whole In My Heart podcast, co-hosted by Laurie and Matt Krieg
- Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender — cfsg.org
- A Praying Life by Paul Miller — Laurie's most recommended resource for transforming your prayer life
- Emotionally Healthy Spirituality podcast by Pete Scazzero — particularly the episode on "doing the work before the work"
- Gospel and Life podcast (Tim Keller) — specifically the sermon "Paul's Prayer for Experience" based on Ephesians 3:14-19
- The Gospel Comes with a House Key by Rosaria Butterfield — cited as an influence on Laurie and Matt's practice of radical hospitality
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