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The Conscious Couples Podcast

The Conscious Couples Podcast

Written by: Alan Lazaros and Emilia Smith
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Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your host Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this podcast, we share our life, love story & combined relationship expertise to help you create & consistently cultivate the most magnificent intimate relationship possible. Never again will you feel hopeless and alone in facing your intimate relationship challenges. Having accumulated thousands of hours coaching conscious couples & individuals all over the world, as well as starting & growing a global business together, we are here to guide you on all things relationships. Thank you again for tuning into the one place where it’s not about you, or me, it’s about The We!© 2026 The Conscious Couples Podcast Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Self-Help Social Sciences Success
Episodes
  • Are You And Your Partner More Active Or Sedentary? (236)
    Aug 17 2026

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    Your lifestyle shapes your relationship. In today’s episode, Emilia and Alan talk about how active and sedentary habits can affect your energy, connection, mindset, and future as a couple. They share why partners often mirror each other’s routines and how too much sitting, stress, and low energy can quietly pull a relationship off track.

    You’ll hear simple ways to build more movement into everyday life, create meaningful time together outside, and make healthier choices without trying to change everything at once. Whether you are in a relationship or building habits as a single person, this episode offers a clear reminder that small actions can create lasting change. Make your next step one you take together.

    Show notes:
    (2:13) Active or sedentary relationship?
    (5:20) How shared habits shape health
    (8:03) Exercise supports mood and self-respect
    (10:28) Small movement creates meaningful change
    (12:21) Walks build connection and conversation
    (17:23) Audit habits with your partner
    (19:23) Start small and stay consistent
    (23:42) Outro

    Watch this episode on YouTube to see the WALL-E images/clips: https://youtu.be/Y80FUycWizQ

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    Follow us on Instagram:
    Emilia Smith: @evolvewithemilia
    Alan Lazaros: @alazaros88

    *Email:* 💬
    alan@theweuniversity.com
    emilia@theweuniversity.com

    Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com.

    Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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    24 mins
  • What is Your Partner's Willingness Score? (235)
    Aug 10 2026

    📅 Join the next free Relationship Talks Virtual Event #62 on Wednesday, August 19th, 2026, at 06:00 p.m. ET, "Declutter Your Relationship & Eliminate Overwhelm" - https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/wSr3TBv_R5SjEH6HzVT84A

    🎁 Book your first free Relationship Talk Coaching Inside Out Program: https://calendly.com/emiliasmith/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching?back=1&month=2025-03

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    In this episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast, hosts Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros break down the willingness score and why it can shape the future of your relationship. When one partner wants more than they are willing to work for, it can create stress, resentment, and conflict around love, money, goals, and daily responsibilities.

    Emilia and Alan explain the difference between healthy ambition and entitlement, how social media can raise unrealistic expectations, and why shared dreams require shared effort. They also reveal key signs of high and low willingness, helping conscious couples and singles take a more honest look at their habits, mindset, and ability to grow together.

    Show notes:
    (2:00) What your partner’s willingness score means
    (3:03) The three levels of willingness
    (7:41) Taking steps back to move forward
    (11:37) Wanting outcomes versus doing the work
    (14:03) How mismatched willingness affects couples
    (16:37) Social media raises unrealistic expectations
    (18:22) Clear signs of high willingness
    (21:24) Red flags for low willingness
    (23:17) Outro

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    Follow us on Instagram:
    Emilia Smith: @evolvewithemilia
    Alan Lazaros: @alazaros88

    *Email:* 💬
    alan@theweuniversity.com
    emilia@theweuniversity.com

    Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com.

    Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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    24 mins
  • Which Partner is More Impulsive? (234)
    Aug 3 2026

    📅 Join the next free Relationship Talks Virtual Event #62 on Wednesday, August 19th, 2026, at 06:00 p.m. ET, "Declutter Your Relationship & Eliminate Overwhelm" - https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/wSr3TBv_R5SjEH6HzVT84A

    🎁 Book your first free Relationship Talk Coaching Inside Out Program: https://calendly.com/emiliasmith/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching?back=1&month=2025-03

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    Could one quick choice quietly hurt your relationship? In today’s episode, Emilia and Alan reveal how impulsive habits around spending, food, social media, and everyday choices can create stress, debt, and distance between partners. They explain why delayed gratification matters for trust, money, health, and the future you are building together. You will hear how to spot your personal “kryptonite,” talk about impulse control without blame, and create more teamwork around the choices that affect both people.

    This conversation is for conscious couples and singles who want stronger habits, clearer boundaries, and a relationship that supports their biggest goals. Before your next impulse gets same-day shipping, hit play and give your future relationship a vote.

    Show notes:
    (1:55) Which partner is more impulsive?
    (3:54) Why adults must delay gratification
    (8:40) Quick wants Vs. Wise choices
    (14:17) Talk together before major purchases
    (18:25) Create a safe space to talk
    (23:17) Find your impulse triggers together
    (27:43) Outro

    Digital Asset:
    The Marshmallow Test Audiobook - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ZllpyD3XDBnc_SzGTKznLjlJ3OrIFtPl/view

    The We Dictionary:

    • Raise Your Standards - A call to action within the conscious couples community to choose "clarity over comfort" and stop repeating the same cycles.
    • Relational Safety - The foundation for "Lasting connection" and "Trust," essential for navigating "Conflict repair" and fostering deep intimacy.
    • Emotional Maturity - A key component for a "Partnership built to last," emphasizing honest reflection, responsibility, and the ability to engage in adult relationships.
    • Honest Reflection - A practice integral to emotional maturity and honest awareness, crucial for identifying "Limiting beliefs" and facilitating personal and relational growth.


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    Follow us on Instagram:
    Emilia Smith: @evolvewithemilia
    Alan Lazaros: @alazaros88

    *Email:* 💬
    alan@theweuniversity.com
    emilia@theweuniversity.com

    Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com.

    Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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    28 mins
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