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The Feminine Outliers

The Feminine Outliers

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Join two globally-minded, culture-curious women as they share the raw, real, and sometimes radical journey of uprooting their lives from the African continent to forge new paths in the US and UK. This isn’t just about immigration, it’s about Self Discovery. Through bold conversations and honest storytelling, they unpack what it truly means to seek sovereignty in identity, womanhood, work, and self-worth despite where you are from or where you are headed. From navigating culture shock to redefining success, love, and belonging, this is a space for anyone who’s ever questioned the script and dared to live beyond borders.

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  • The Cost of Living Abroad
    Feb 8 2026

    In this episode, Choolwe and Zelda engage in a heart-to-heart discussion about the challenges and nuances of maintaining family connections while living abroad. Reflecting on their own experiences of living in the US and the UK with family back in Zambia and Kenya, they explore the frequency of family communication, the role of technology like WhatsApp groups, to the cost of missing important family milestones. They also delve into how one adapts and changes in a new country and the impact it has on familial relationships. Join the conversation and share your own experiences of loving family from afar.

    00:00 Introduction and Family Communication Dynamics

    01:06 Welcome to The Feminine Outliers

    01:54 Navigating Family Relationships from Afar

    03:59 Balancing Independence and Family Ties

    08:09 The Role of Technology in Family Connections

    20:07 Visiting Family: When and How?

    26:30 Travel Mindsets and Preferences

    27:05 Challenges of Traveling from Africa

    29:47 Emotional Costs of Living Abroad

    32:56 Missing Family Milestones

    34:25 Holiday Nostalgia and Cultural Differences

    37:45 Balancing Work and Family During Holidays

    41:55 Changing Identities and Family Dynamics

    44:56 Maintaining Connections from Afar

    50:19 Conclusion and Call to Share Experiences

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    52 mins
  • Challenging Beauty Standards: A Deep Dive into Cultural and Personal Perspectives
    Jan 24 2026

    Welcome back to the Feminine Outliers Podcast! In this episode, we tackle the topic of beauty standards and how they are influenced by cultural perceptions. We share personal anecdotes and discuss the impact of Western beauty ideals on black women, the challenges of embracing natural hair, and the importance of self-acceptance. We also highlight the significance of building a supportive environment and maintaining healthy self-esteem. Tune in for an insightful conversation about redefining beauty standards and embracing authenticity.

    00:00 Introduction and Hosts Welcome

    00:21 Today's Topic: Beauty Standards

    00:53 Personal Experience with Hair and Beauty Standards

    03:01 Discussion on Hair Perception and Compliments

    07:52 Cultural Differences in Beauty Perception

    20:23 Fitness and Body Image

    23:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    24:31 Embracing Unconventional Beauty

    26:05 The Strength in Self-Acceptance

    26:40 Challenges of Beauty Standards

    28:14 Natural Hair and Cultural Pressures

    29:14 Questioning Beauty Norms

    30:22 The Role of Media and Movements

    36:17 Practical Hair Care Tips

    38:41 Simplifying Hair Care

    44:44 Building Self-Esteem and Health

    46:23 Conclusion and Podcast Information

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    48 mins
  • Accents, Attitudes and Assumptions
    Oct 25 2025

    In this episode of the Feminine Outliers Podcast, we delve into the complexities of accents, attitudes, and assumptions that arise when living abroad or in a multicultural environment. We share personal experiences about cultural misunderstandings and the biases faced due to different accents. The discussion touches on how accents can affect perceptions of intelligence and competence, both in social and professional settings. We also highlight the importance of embracing differences, expanding one's mindset, and being curious about other cultures. Join the conversation and share your thoughts on navigating identity beyond borders.


    00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts

    00:37 Welcome to the Family Lias Podcast

    00:58 Accents, Attitudes, and Assumptions

    01:52 Experiences with British and American English

    03:52 Challenges with Language and Communication

    04:46 Navigating Cultural Differences

    07:25 Perceptions and Biases in Language

    09:37 The Impact of Accents on Perception

    11:56 Relatability and Bias in Communication

    16:22 Discrimination Based on Speech

    23:46 Regional Accents and Stereotypes

    26:05 Stories of Immigrant Professionals

    27:00 The Importance of Curiosity

    27:29 Navigating Conversations as an Introvert

    28:03 Respect and Understanding in Communication

    28:45 Dealing with Stereotypes and Assumptions

    30:45 Challenges of Being a Female Doctor

    38:39 Strategies for Addressing Bias

    41:24 Embracing Differences and Change

    47:34 Conclusion and Call to Action

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    49 mins
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