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The Fire You Carry

The Fire You Carry

Written by: Nole Lilley and Kevin Welsh
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Hosted by Nole and Kevin, two active-duty Los Angeles County Firemen with over a decade of service each, this podcast explores the fire we all carry within. Join them as they interview respected men and share lessons on how to be better husbands, fathers, and leaders. Drawing from the front lines, they tackle issues like trauma, fitness, and family life, providing universal principles for any man looking to stoke his inner fire and live with purpose.

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Episodes
  • 264: Pushing Too Hard, Crashing, and Rebuilding the Mind
    Mar 16 2026

    What happens when a high-performance lifestyle hits a physical and mental wall? This week, Nole takes the mic for a solo session to deconstruct his recent "February crash." From a 130-hour fast and a back injury at work to the debilitating mental fog that followed, Nole shares a raw look at what happens when our "push" overrides our physiology.

    The conversation moves from the gut to the brain, exploring the science of neuroplasticity, the physical restructuring of our neural pathways. Nole discusses why first responders get stuck in "threat-scanning" and "grousing" loops and offers two practical tools to help you rebuild your mind, lower your cortisol, and get back to being present for your family.

    Key Topics:

    • The Perfect Storm: How extreme fasting, injury, and work stress led to a month-long health crisis.
    • The "Hallway Verses": Re-examining Philippians 4:8 and Romans 12:2 as practical manuals for mental health.
    • Brain Hardware vs. Software: Why you need to "think better" before you can "feel better."
    • First Responder Loops: The cost of staying in hypervigilant "threat-scan" mode once you're off the clock.
    • The Reset Tools: A breakdown of the 5-Minute Journal and the "60-Second Verbal Gratitude Drill."

    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

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    36 mins
  • 263: Shave Your Head & Pay Attention to How Others Perceive You.
    Mar 9 2026

    In this candid and impromptu conversation, Nole and Kevin dive deep into the "Imposter Syndrome" that often plagues men as they step into leadership roles, whether it’s officiating a wedding for the first time or giving advice to the next generation of firefighters. They explore the tension between staying humble (the "new guy" mindset) and acknowledging the real-world experience and wisdom they have to offer.

    The duo also discusses the "Parable of the Talents," the importance of "faking it until you make it" through total commitment, and why sometimes you just have to "shave your head" to signal a life-changing transformation.

    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

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    Sign up for a class at The Fire Up Program!
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    The Fire Up Progam video.
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    The Fire You Carry Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/

    Donate to The Fire Up Program.
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/donate

    The Fire Up Program Instagram.
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    Kevin's Instagram.
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    MyZone facility code for The Fire You Carry: CALIFUS001

    Get $60 off a MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor!
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    50 mins
  • 262: The Hand You’re Dealt: Finding Purpose in the Chaos
    Mar 2 2026

    It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the "chaos and drama" of life, especially when the initial fire of the New Year begins to fade. In this solo Sunday episode, Kevin dives into an insightful teaching from Jim Ramos (Men in the Arena) to help listeners move past universal truths and discover their unique, God-given identity. Using this idea as a reference point, Kevin explores how our history, abilities, and passions aren't just random traits; they are tools meant to be used for a greater purpose.


    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

    The Fire You Carry on YouTube.

    Sign up for a class at The Fire Up Program!
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/programs

    The Fire Up Progam video.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I__ErPW46Ec&t=12s&ab_channel=FireUpProgram

    The Fire You Carry Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/

    Donate to The Fire Up Program.
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/donate

    The Fire Up Program Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/fireup_program/

    Kevin's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/kevinpwelsh/?hl=en

    MyZone facility code for The Fire You Carry: CALIFUS001

    Get $60 off a MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor!
    https://buy.myzone.org/?lang=enUS&voucher=CALIFUS001-60

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    12 mins
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