A chance encounter with a parent spanking their child in public sparked a deep conversation about our own parenting journey. In this episode, we reflect on how our views on discipline have evolved over the years—acknowledging our past use of spanking and why we’ve shifted toward a different approach with our youngest child. While we believe in giving parents grace and avoiding snap judgments, we also recognize the importance of open discussions about discipline within relationships and why being wise when choosing a partner to have a family with is so important. Join us as we weigh in on Team Beat 'Em and Team Gentle Parenting.

On this episode of The Grown Folks Are Talking, we’re cutting through the noise and setting the record straight on DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion). With so much misinformation floating around in the headlines, it’s time to talk about what DEI actually is—and more importantly, who truly benefits from it.

We’re joined by special guest Leo Crimbley, a recruiter with firsthand experience in hiring practices and workplace diversity efforts. Leo breaks down the real purpose of DEI, dispels common myths, and shares what he sees behind the scenes when it comes to equitable hiring and opportunities.

If you’re tired of the headlines twisting the truth or just want to better understand what DEI ACTUALLY means in practice, this is the conversation for you. So... welcome to the table, have a seat, and get informed.

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In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we open up about reconnecting with our oldest child, who recently resurfaced after a period of no contact. We dive into the challenges of parenting an adult child still navigating a difficult season and the delicate balance of supporting her growth. Cris shares an embarrassing fact about her post-high school plans, including how her parents had to sit back and let her learn her lessons at 18. We also find humor in reminiscing about our first apartment's hilariously questionable decor choices. Tune in for an emotional, real, and relatable conversation about family, growth, and finding laughter even in life’s messy moments.