A chance encounter with a parent spanking their child in public sparked a deep conversation about our own parenting journey. In this episode, we reflect on how our views on discipline have evolved over the years—acknowledging our past use of spanking and why we’ve shifted toward a different approach with our youngest child. While we believe in giving parents grace and avoiding snap judgments, we also recognize the importance of open discussions about discipline within relationships and why being wise when choosing a partner to have a family with is so important. Join us as we weigh in on Team Beat 'Em and Team Gentle Parenting.

On this episode of The Grown Folks Are Talking, we’re cutting through the noise and setting the record straight on DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion). With so much misinformation floating around in the headlines, it’s time to talk about what DEI actually is—and more importantly, who truly benefits from it.

We’re joined by special guest Leo Crimbley, a recruiter with firsthand experience in hiring practices and workplace diversity efforts. Leo breaks down the real purpose of DEI, dispels common myths, and shares what he sees behind the scenes when it comes to equitable hiring and opportunities.

If you’re tired of the headlines twisting the truth or just want to better understand what DEI ACTUALLY means in practice, this is the conversation for you. So... welcome to the table, have a seat, and get informed.

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In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we open up about reconnecting with our oldest child, who recently resurfaced after a period of no contact. We dive into the challenges of parenting an adult child still navigating a difficult season and the delicate balance of supporting her growth. Cris shares an embarrassing fact about her post-high school plans, including how her parents had to sit back and let her learn her lessons at 18. We also find humor in reminiscing about our first apartment's hilariously questionable decor choices. Tune in for an emotional, real, and relatable conversation about family, growth, and finding laughter even in life’s messy moments.

As the new year begins, we’re diving into the art of goal setting. In this episode, we share lessons learned from our past goal-setting failures and unpack the critical difference between simply setting a goal and creating a plan to achieve it. We’ll explore the power of SMART Goals and some new strategies we’re excited to try this year. Plus, we discuss how focusing on the year as a whole can lead to burnout and share tips for staying on track by breaking goals into manageable steps. Tune in to start your year with intention and a practical plan for success!

In this episode of The Grown Folks Podcast, we confront the heartbreaking reality of elderly abuse. After having a difficult discussion with our family over the holidays, we chat about recognizing the warning signs, advocating for our loved ones, and creating a safety net for the most vulnerable among us. We also explore why the elderly are often overlooked, leaving them at risk of predatory behavior by caregivers. This is a vital conversation about ensuring dignity, respect, and protection for our elders.

In this holiday-themed episode, we dive into the world of moms and the often unrealistic expectations they place on themselves during the festive season. From trying to create the perfect meal to ensuring everyone has the most magical experience, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters: slowing down and savoring the joy.

We discuss practical ways to enjoy the holidays with less pressure and more connection. Whether it’s simple family activities, embracing imperfections, or finding moments of calm amidst the chaos, this episode is packed with ideas to help you rediscover the season’s magic without the stress.

Plus, we take a heartwarming walk down memory lane, sharing stories of Christmases past. Remembering simpler times and holiday traditions helps remind us that the best memories often come from the smallest, most authentic moments.

So grab a warm drink, take a deep breath, and join us as we give ourselves permission to let go of perfection and truly enjoy the holidays.

This week, we discuss emotional intimacy after stumbling across a Twitter thread claiming men are hiring sex workers just to have vulnerable conversations.

We go back and forth on how much emotion is too much and Joe refuses to believe that his wife wants to know everything about him.

Our post-election thoughts following the reelection of DJT.