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The Loneliness Industry

The Loneliness Industry

Written by: jordan reyne
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Welcome to a podcast about loneliness. Loneliness is not a personal failing, despite what we’re told. It’s woven into the fabric of the world we live in, yet the very values that drive loneliness also tell us we are to blame. We’re here to unpack the real causes of isolation: late-stage capitalism, disconnection culture, performative relationships, and more. If you’ve ever felt alone in a hyperconnected world, you’re not alone — this podcast is for you. We’ll explore loneliness and social isolation through the lenses of philosophy, mental health, cultural critique, and the deep human need forjordan reyne Philosophy Social Sciences
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  • E18: Not So Well Adjusted To A Sick Society?
    Jan 2 2026

    If you've ever left a professional support session feeling more isolated than when you arrived, it’s worth asking if the focus was on your "healing" or your "adjustment." In Part 2 of this series, The Loneliness Industry explores the sociological concept of the Scapegoat Mechanism—a group dynamic often used to manage individuals who struggle to fit into modern societal structures.Using the work of René Girard, Jiddu Krishnamurti, and Michel Foucault, we examine why reflective and empathetic individuals are often the ones who carry the collective weight of societal tension. This episode is an analysis of the process that can internalize systemic friction as personal failure.Inside the Episode:- The Krishnamurti Pivot: Why struggling to adapt can be a sign of systemic awareness.- The 4-Point Audit: A perspective-shift to help you re-evaluate your self-perception.- The Selection Process: How groups identify individuals to carry collective responsibility.- Mimetic Desire: Using René Girard to explain the "common enemy" dynamic in social cohesion.00:00 Introduction01:56 The Krishnamurti Story: Truth Is a Pathless Land02:45 Visuals – Theosophists Graphic04:34 Why Failing to Adjust Can Be a Sign of Health08:46 Quiz – The 4-Point Decent Person Test12:06 The Scapegoat Selection Process21:33 What Is Scapegoating?26:36 Girard on Societal Scapegoating28:43 The DSM & the Codification of Scapegoating30:18 Girard and Mimetic Desire34:48 What Unifies Human Societies38:25 Problems Chihuahuas Have Unearthed Regarding Mimetic Desire41:39 Scapegoating as a Tool for Social Order44:51 The DSM as Institutionalised ScapegoatingIf you scored 4/4 on the Decent Person test, it would be a pleasure to meet you! Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments. The Works Referenced: • Gabor Maté – The Myth of Normal • René Girard – The Scapegoat & Violence and the Sacred • Jiddu Krishnamurti – The First and Last Freedom • Michel Foucault – Madness and Civilization • Christopher Lasch – The Culture of Narcissism • Sara Ahmed – The Cultural Politics of Emotion • Thomas Szasz – The Myth of Mental IllnessDon’t Miss Episodes – Even Though The Algorithm Wants You To:Join the mailing list at https://thelonelinessindustry.net#TheLonelinessIndustry #ReneGirard #Philosophy #Sociology #Krishnamurti #TheMythOfNormal

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    52 mins
  • 17: What If Therapy Is Training You To Obey, Not Heal?
    Dec 5 2025

    What if therapy isn't healing you — but training you to comply?This episode of the Loneliness Industry dismantles the hidden power structures operating inside modern therapy, showing how supposedly neutral mental health practices can mirror narcissism and even narcissistic abuse. Instead of validating your lived experience, therapy often reframes structural suffering as personal pathology — turning perfectly sane reactions into signs of disorder.Drawing on thinkers like Michel Foucault, Christopher Lasch, and René Girard, public philosopher Jordan Reyne exposes how psychological institutions use gaslighting tactics to invalidate reality, demand compliance, and ultimately produce self-doubt. You’ll learn how CBT operates as a behaviour correction tool within capitalism, how the DSM functions as a cultural scapegoat machine, and why your distress may be a rational response to a sick society — not evidence that you are broken.By the end, you’ll have a diagnostic toolkit for spotting when therapy becomes compliance training, and three questions that prove you're fundamentally OK — no institutional fixing required.If you’ve ever walked out of therapy feeling like YOU are the problem for noticing the problem, this episode shows why: it was never about healing — it was about conformity.CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS 00:00 What If Therapy Is Making You Feel Worse?00:30 A Case Study: Therapeutic Gaslighting05:53 Section I – The Therapy-Speak Travel Guide (and What It Really Means)11:01 Manufacturing Compliance: How Therapy Trains You to Self-Correct16:00 Weaponised Boundaries: When Mental Health Language Protects Abuse18:35 Marking the Scapegoat: Turning Sane Reactions Into “Pathology”21:03 How Therapy Became Compliance Training22:48 What Real Healing Actually Requires (According to Research)23:28 Why Society Can’t Support the Conditions Necessary for Healing25:34 How Western Capitalism Outsources Blame to the Individual27:08 The Hero Narrative: The Seductive Social Control Mechanism33:02 The Narcissistic Cycle: How the Hero Becomes the Scapegoat35:57 How Therapy Became a Mechanism of Social and Psychological Control41:16 Why CBT Is the Gold Standard of Compliance Training45:11 How Therapy Creates Power Imbalances and Authority Over Your Reality48:44 Power’s Recruitment Process: Who Gets to Define “Healthy”Theme music "The Annihilation Sequence" by Jordan ReyneAvailable on Bandcamp at http://jordanreyne.bandcamp.com

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    56 mins
  • 16: Your Body Was Never The Problem. Body Control Dogma Is
    Nov 15 2025
    Why do so many of us feel uncomfortable in our own bodies — and why does it make us lonely? This episode looks at how modern body image culture, diet culture, and the wellness industry quietly shape our fears, routines, and relationships.Drawing on philosophy, sociology, psychology, and lived experience, I trace how body standards and appearance pressure turn into dogma: moral rules we absorb without ever choosing them. We break down how fitness culture, health trends, beauty standards, and wellness ideology create comparison, self-surveillance, and social isolation — and how those habits slowly separate us from each other.This isn't about individual willpower. It's about the cultural machinery that turns bodies into projects and belonging into a performance. If you've ever cancelled plans because of how you look, felt judged, or wondered why body image has become such a universal struggle, this episode examines the structural forces behind it — and why the body-control mindset now touches everyone.Episode exploring loneliness, power, knowledge, and how capitalism shapes our relationship with our bodies.🎯 Subscribe for bi-weekly inquiries into how capitalism shapes loneliness, identity, and belonging: / @thelonelinessindustrypodcast 🔗 RELATED EPISODES:[Add your links to related loneliness/capitalism episodes]📚 RESOURCES MENTIONED:Eat the Rules Podcast - Summer InnanenBeyond the Mirror - Jonny LandelsMen Unscripted - Aaron FloresThe Midlife Feast - Jenn Salib Huber💬 CONNECT:[Add your social media/website links]---⏱️ TIMESTAMPS:10:25 – Today's Journey: Three Parts on Body Standards and Loneliness11:58 – Part I: Philosophy - Power, Knowledge and Body Control21:32 – Dogma's Necessary Archetypes: Good Bodies vs Bad Bodies25:02 – Case Study: L'Oréal and Beauty Standards27:18 – The Relationship Between Science and Dogma34:43 – Part II: Sociology - How We Police Each Other's Bodies36:30 – A Lived Example of Body Surveillance39:20 – In-Groups and Out-Groups: Divide and Conquer Through Body Standards44:29 – Where Sociology Meets Psychology48:50 – Capitalism's Favorite Mantra: It's All About ME51:13 – Part III: Psychology - The Internal Impact52:28 – My Personal Experience Internalizing Body Control Dogma57:48 – The Perfectionism Social Disconnection Model1:03:33 – What To Do To Get Out Of The Body Control Trap---🎓 THINKERS REFERENCED:Michel Foucault (power/knowledge, panopticon, truth regimes), Thomas Kuhn (paradigm theory), Christopher Lasch (culture of narcissism), René Girard (scapegoating mechanisms), Byung-Chul Han (achievement society), Hannah Arendt (enemy-making logic), Paul Hewitt & Gordon Flett (perfectionism research), Leon Festinger (cognitive dissonance), Karen Horney (idealized self-image), Dr. Stacy Sims (female physiology research), and more.
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    1 hr and 11 mins
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