In this episode of The Manshift Guide, I sit down with Wesley Farnsworth — veteran, author, and host of the Unmasked podcast — for one of the most honest conversations we’ve had on the show.
Wesley opens up about his long battle with pornography addiction, the shame he carried for years, and the moment everything finally collapsed. Without sharing private details of his former marriage, he talks candidly about his own failures, the crash that followed, and what rebuilding actually looks like when your life hits the bottom.
Today, Wesley leads in Celebrate Recovery, wrote The Blueprint of Becoming, and runs a nonprofit helping men, families, and churches break cycles of secrecy and isolation. His mission is simple: help men become who they truly are, not who they pretend to be.
This episode dives deep into:
🔥 Topics We Cover
- The hidden battles almost every man carries
- Why shame keeps men stuck — and how to break its hold
- What “rock bottom” actually teaches you
- How to rebuild your identity after losing everything
- Pornography addiction, relapse cycles, and the path to recovery
- What honesty with yourself really means
- Becoming mentally, emotionally, and spiritually grounded
- Practical systems Wesley uses to help men rebuild their lives
If you’ve ever felt stuck, ashamed, disconnected, or like you’re living a life that doesn’t match who you want to be — this conversation will hit home.
📘 About Wesley Farnsworth
- Veteran • Author • Speaker
- Host of Unmasked with Wesley Farnsworth
- Founder of a nonprofit supporting churches and families
- Author of The Blueprint of Becoming
- Leader within Celebrate Recovery
📍 Website: wesleyfarnsworth.com 🎙 Podcast: Unmasked with Wesley Farnsworth 📘 Facebook: @UnmaskedWFPodcast