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Most people treat relationships and partnerships like 1 + 1 = 2—two individuals simply adding each other to life. But there’s a better formula: 1 + 1 = 11.

In this episode of Mindset Café, we break down the metaphor that a great relationship doesn’t make you shrink, dilute yourself, or lose your identity. You stay a “1,” your partner stays a “1,” and together you become “11”—a stronger, higher-standard force than either of you alone.

We talk about public persona vs private reality, why “0.5 + 0.5 = 1” relationships create resentment, how complementary strengths create real synergy, and the habits and standards that turn love, friendship, and business partnerships into something that actually multiplies your life.

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Most people think they’ll rise to the occasion when it really matters. In reality, they fall to the standards they’ve built when no one is watching.

In this episode of The Mindset Café, we break down the brutal truth about self-discipline, private standards, and why the only work that truly matters is the work nobody sees. You’ll discover why your unseen habits are more powerful than your public image and how your “floor” — your lowest level of behavior — quietly controls your results in business, fitness, relationships, and life.

We unpack the difference between identity and image, how micro-decisions shape your future, and how to build an “invisible resume” of skills, habits, and standards that actually back up the person you say you are. If you’re tired of feeling like your potential doesn’t match your reality, this episode gives you the blueprint to raise your standards in the dark.

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A shattered bowl mended with gold can change how you see your own story. We take that Kintsugi image and map it onto real life: the breaks you want to hide, the scars you downplay, and the moments you thought would end you. Instead of chasing a spotless image, we walk through how to turn those cracks into visible lines of strength—proof that you’ve been tested and upgraded.

We dig into why scars are receipts, not defects, and how the people we admire earn our respect by showing the rebuild, not erasing it. Devin shares personal examples from launching Strive 11 and navigating a fitness dip that forced better time design. Together we unpack the cultural lie that “untouched” equals valuable, and replace it with a craftsperson’s lens: honor the break, highlight the seam, and build a vessel that holds more. You’ll get a simple four-step practice to apply today—name the break, extract the lesson, reinforce it with new behaviors, and stop hiding the seam—so resilience becomes a system, not a slogan.

By the end, you’ll have a challenge to make this mindset stick: write what happened, what it cost, and what gold you gained that you refuse to ignore. Share your seam with someone who needs strength right now. If this message reminded you that you’re forged, not fragile, follow the show, leave a review, and send this to a friend who thinks they’re disqualified. Your story isn’t over—the gold gets added next.

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