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The HR Misfits

The HR Misfits

Written by: Ami Graves
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Welcome to The HR Misfits — the podcast for people who care about work, leadership, and humans… but are tired of the corporate script. This is where HR, leadership, and workplace culture get real. Every episode dives into the messy, meaningful, and often unspoken side of work — from people leaders and founders to operators, creatives, and career rebels who don’t fit neatly in a box. We talk about the moments that shape leaders, the systems that need rethinking, and the stories behind policies, power, burnout, belonging, and growth. No buzzwords. No performative culture talk. Just honest conversations about what it actually takes to build workplaces that work for people. If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t belong in the “professional” version of work — welcome to the misfits. You’re one of us. New episodes weekly! It’s not about the destination; it’s about the story. Through honest conversations, we’ll uncover the moments that define careers, the challenges overcome, and the lessons learned along the way. These are real stories from real people, celebrating the diversity of work and the individuality of the people behind it. Join us as we break down stereotypes, embrace the unexpected, and shine a light on the human side of work.© 2026 Ami Graves Careers Economics Personal Success
Episodes
  • The AI Throwdown: Heart vs. Algorithm
    Apr 22 2026

    Three HR leaders. Three takes on AI. Zero agreement at the start.

    In this episode of The HR Misfits, Ami, LaToya, and Marci go all in on the conversation every HR team is having right now - but probably not like this. LaToya's ready to embrace it, Marci's side-eyeing it, and Ami's somewhere in the middle trying not to pick a fight. What starts as a debate, lands somewhere way more honest: AI isn't the enemy, but it's not the savior either. And the human stuff? That part's not optional.

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    48 mins
  • Pandemic to Present: How Work Changed and Why We’re Still Arguing About It
    Apr 8 2026

    The pandemic didn’t just change where we work, it exposed everything broken about how we work.

    In this episode of HR Misfits, we dig into the reality of remote and hybrid work beyond the headlines, policies, and performative debates.

    Because here’s the truth:
    Not everyone works best the same way. And trying to force a single model? That’s where companies are getting it wrong.

    We talk about:
    Why the “return to office vs. remote” debate is missing the point
    How different roles, personalities, and life realities shape how people perform best
    The gap between leadership expectations and employee experience
    Why flexibility still isn’t being applied fairly
    What actually drives productivity (hint: it’s not location)

    This isn’t about picking sides.
    It’s about rethinking work entirely.

    If you’re a leader still trying to figure out what actually works or an employee feeling stuck in a model that doesn’t - this conversation is for you.

    Timestamps

    00:00 Intro – Building a High-Performing Agency
    00:48 The Secret Behind 80%+ Staff Retention
    02:30 Why Culture Must Start From Day One
    03:30 Becoming an Employee-Owned Company
    04:30 Why Most Company Values Are Useless
    06:00 The 3 Values That Actually Work
    08:30 Turning Values Into Real Behaviors
    11:30 Performance Improvement Without Fear
    13:00 How Junior Employees Bring Big Clients
    14:30 Making Everyone Think Like an Owner
    15:50 What Actually Changed After Employee Ownership
    17:00 Employees Sitting in Board Meetings
    19:30 Breaking the “Us vs Them” Culture
    21:00 Salary, Bonuses & Fairness Explained
    23:10 Preventing Employee Frustration Early
    24:00 Why Team Trips Boost Performance
    27:30 The “Olympics” Idea: Fitness + Charity + Fun
    30:10 The Future Vision of the Company
    32:30 Final Thoughts – Culture Drives Everything

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • The Anti-Framework: Burn the 9 Box (and the Annual Review with It)
    Mar 25 2026

    What if some of HR’s most “trusted” tools are actually holding your business back?

    In this episode of HR Misfits, we take on two of the most sacred (and untouchable) frameworks in HR: the 9-box and the annual performance review… and make the case for why it might be time to let them go.

    These tools were designed to bring structure, clarity, and fairness. But in reality? They often introduce bias, slow down decision-making, and create more performative process than meaningful impact.

    We get into:

    Why the 9-box oversimplifies people and amplifies bias

    How annual reviews fail both employees and leaders

    The hidden cost of “checking the box” HR practices

    What high-performing organizations are doing instead

    Practical ways to move beyond outdated frameworks (without creating chaos)

    This isn’t about being anti-structure.
    It’s about being anti-lazy structure.

    If you’ve ever sat in a talent review meeting thinking, “Are we really making better decisions because of this?” - this episode is for you.

    Welcome to HR, rethought.

    Episode Timestamps:
    00:00 – Why Managers Ignore High Performers
    Managers over-focus on low performers and neglect top talent
    00:45 – Podcast Intro: HR Misfits & Anti-Framework Thinking
    What this show is about and today’s topic setup
    02:10 – Are We Really Anti-Framework?
    Challenging blind use of outdated frameworks
    03:30 – The Nine-Box Framework Explained (Origin & Purpose)
    History (GE, 1970) and how it works
    06:00 – Problems with the Nine-Box Model
    Overcomplication, forced categorization, and lack of clarity
    09:00 – Bias in Talent Evaluation
    How subjectivity and unconscious bias shape outcomes
    12:30 – Does the Nine-Box Actually Help Employees?
    Lack of actionable outcomes and employee confusion
    16:00 – High Performers vs Low Performers: Misplaced Focus
    Why companies lose top talent
    19:00 – The “Steady Performer” Problem
    Ignored middle performers and retention risks
    22:00 – Evolution: From 9-Box to 4-Box Models
    Attempts to simplify performance frameworks
    24:30 – Annual Performance Reviews Are Broken
    Infrequent feedback and employee frustration
    28:00 – Forced Rankings & Compensation Issues
    How ratings tie into pay and create unhealthy systems
    32:00 – Gaming the System & Leadership Gaps
    Managers manipulating ratings and lack of leadership skills
    36:00 – Transparency Problem: Employees Don’t Understand Business Health
    Why workers feel disconnected from company performance
    40:00 – Corporate Communication Failures (Acronyms & Confusion)
    Why “transparency” often doesn’t work
    44:00 – The Need for Business Education in HR & Teams
    Importance of financial and business acumen
    48:00 – Real Fix: Better Leadership, Not More Frameworks
    Root cause behind broken systems
    52:00 – Rethinking Performance Systems (Simpler Models)
    Idea of reducing ratings and moving to continuous feedback
    55:30 – Anti-Framework Philosophy Explained
    Questioning outdated systems, not eliminating structure
    58:00 – Introducing the HR Misfits Framework
    Deconstruct → Diffuse → Design approach
    01:01:00 – Final Thoughts: Evolving HR & Leadership Systems
    Why change is necessary and how to move forward

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    52 mins
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