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In this heartfelt episode, I’m sharing a behind-the-scenes reflection from our recent Bible & Blessings Women’s Retreat, where pure intentions met an unexpected heart check.

What started as a Christ-centered mission to love and serve turned into a wake-up call about the fine line between accommodating others and people-pleasing. I open up about how easy it is, especially as a leader or host, to shift from Spirit-led service to fear-driven performance.

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Welcome to The Soft Side Mini Series — a special collection within The Soft Side Project™ where real women share real stories of faith, healing, and transformation.

Each episode features a woman who has walked through her own battle and found purpose in the process. These are stories that remind us that softness is strength, that vulnerability is not defeat, and that God can turn even our hardest seasons into something beautiful.

In this first episode, we’re joined by Alicia Lorde, author of True Survivor: A Story of Resilience and Hope.

Alicia opens up about how faith and resilience can turn life’s hardest battles into divine purpose, and how surviving is only the beginning of becoming who God called you to be.

Let’s dive in as we explore what it means to be a true survivor and live from a place of softness, strength, and surrender.

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If you’re like me, the strong one, the fixer, the helper, and you’ve been feeling like you’re falling behind, I want you to know this: God’s grace is enough.

In this raw and unedited episode, I share what the Lord has been revealing to me through 2 Corinthians 12:9. I’ve been praying for strength, healing, peace, and progress, but what I needed most was to receive grace for where I am.

This episode is for the woman who’s doing her best but still feels like it’s not enough. It’s for the one trying to figure out how to get back on track spiritually, emotionally, or financially, while still carrying everyone else’s load.

📖 We’ll talk about:

• Paul’s thorn and why God didn’t remove it
• What grace actually looks like in real life
• How to rest instead of overperform
• What it means to trust God in the middle of your mess

I pray this encourages you to pause, breathe, and lean into the strength that only God can provide.

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Your softness is your strength, and His grace truly is enough.

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In this raw and honest episode of The Soft Side Project™, I open up about a struggle many of us don’t talk about—jealousy. Not just how it shows up, but how survival mode can quietly create both the jealous and the one being envied.

I share how the Lord revealed jealousy in me, the healing that followed, and why we need to stop shaming the conversation. I even include a short prayer for anyone walking through this heart work.

This episode is for the woman who’s been comparing…

For the one silently battling envy…

And for the one who’s often misunderstood.

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In this episode, I share how striving for perfection nearly distracted me from the very God who gave me the assignment. From skipping quiet time to being gently convicted by the Holy Spirit, I realized — God didn’t ask me to be perfect, He asked me to obey.

If you’ve ever felt pressure to “get it right” or feared being seen in the process, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about releasing perfectionism in your walk with Christ and in survival mode.

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You want to yes to the call—but you still feel uncertain, overwhelmed, or lowkey afraid? This episode is for you. 💜

In today’s heart-to-heart, I’m sharing how I launched this podcast just over a week after God told me to—confused, unsure, and unqualified—but still obedient. We’re diving into the reality that clarity doesn’t always come before the call… sometimes it comes after you start walking.

Inside this episode:

• Why confusion doesn’t cancel your calling
• How obedience unlocks direction
• The difference between seeking answers and seeking God
• A personal story on how the mic became my moment of surrender 🎤
• A special invitation to apply to be a guest and share your story

If you’re in a season where you know you’re chosen—but the details don’t make sense—this is your reminder: You can be called and confused at the same time. And God still wants your yes.

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What if you were never taught how to be soft—only how to survive?

In this deeply personal episode, Terrica shares how the Holy Spirit interrupted her plans, challenged her surface-level strength, and revealed the hidden patterns of survival mode she didn’t even realize she was still operating in.

From growing up with boys, to life in the Army, to a violent marriage, Terrica opens up about the grit and guardedness that shaped her—and how God is slowly, lovingly unraveling it.

You’ll hear:

• A raw moment of self-evaluation that changed everything
• How survival mode masks itself as strength
• Why the enemy attacks your strengths, not just your weaknesses
• A powerful soft moment of humility and spiritual growth
• A reminder that it’s not your polished parts, but your surrendered parts that God uses

If you’ve ever felt like you had to stay armored just to be respected, this episode will feel like a mirror and a breakthrough.

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Welcome to the very first episode of The Soft Side Project—a podcast for the woman who’s been strong for everyone else but is finally ready to exhale.

In this short episode, I’m sharing the who, what, when, where, why, and how behind this space. You’ll learn who I am, who this podcast is for, and why I believe softness is not weakness—it’s your God-given strength.

While answering the 5Ws, I'll share a little about how stepping into my softness transformed my relationship with my family. We’ll talk about emotional armor, survival mode, and what happens when a woman finally allows herself to live with vulnerability and vision. Whether you’re listening in your car, your quiet time, or hiding out in the bathroom for a moment of peace—this is for you.

Let this episode be your invitation to lay down what’s heavy and pick up what’s holy. The journey starts here.

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