Trigger warnings: sexual assault, abuse, and discussion of violence.

Episode 20 of Traumatically Speaking, 62 Million Men Part 2, continues a conversation that started with a courtroom and expanded into something far more disturbing. What began with the case of Dominique Pelicot and Gisèle Pelicot, a woman who was drugged and assaulted for years without her knowledge while her husband invited other men to participate, becomes a much larger examination of the systems that allowed it to happen. Gisèle’s decision to be seen and to reject shame set the tone for a conversation that refuses to look away.

Building on part one, Sloan and Lex go deeper into the investigation that revealed this was not an isolated case, but part of a much larger network. Through months long work, investigators uncovered online spaces where abuse was not only shared, but encouraged and monetized. On platforms that drew tens of millions of visits, there were entire communities dedicated to content involving unconscious women, alongside discussions that normalized and facilitated that violence.

This episode also brings attention to other survivors, including Amanda Stanhope and a woman known as Valentina, whose experiences further highlight the reality that this is happening across different spaces and to different people, often without accountability.

The conversation centers on the fact that this is not rare, it is not hidden, and it is not disconnected. It is happening within relationships, within homes, and within systems that continue to fail survivors. Before closing, Sloan shares her own personal experience with spousal SA, grounding the discussion in the lived reality behind the headlines.

This episode is heavy, intentional, and a continuation of a conversation that demands to be had.

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Trigger warnings: sexual assault, abuse, and discussion of violence.

Episode 19 of Traumatically Speaking, 62 Million Men Part 1 rerun, is a re recording of an episode that Sloan felt could not stay up in its original form. After recognizing that key facts were misstated, important context was missing, and the conversation did not do justice to survivors, Sloan and Lex made the decision to revisit it and do it right.

In this updated episode, they take a deeper and more accurate look at a CNN investigation into what is often referred to as sleep content, where victims are filmed and assaulted while unconscious, frequently by their own partners. They also talk about Gisèle Pelicot, whose case helped bring attention to the issue and sparked broader awareness of how widespread and normalized this kind of violence can be.

Through the work of Saskya Vandoorne, also known here as Queen Sassy, Sloan and Lex unpack the darker corners of the internet where these behaviors are shared, encouraged, and too often dismissed. The conversation centers on the reality that this violence is happening within relationships, not outside of them, and why that makes it even more difficult to confront.

Before closing out part one, Sloan shares Zoe Watts story, bringing a human perspective to the broader discussion and grounding the episode in the real impact these experiences have on survivors.

This episode is a more thoughtful, informed, and intentional retelling of a conversation that deserved to be handled with care the first time.

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Episode 19: T.T.TK.U.U.A.N. #3

What’s up, Chaos Cousins—welcome home, bitches (Lex said it, not Sloan 💅).

This week is pure silly goose chaos to cleanse your emotional palate, and somehow it still spirals. Sloan brings part two of her full-blown identity crisis where—brace yourselves—she went on dates with MEN???? Yes. Plural. On purpose. For science. For therapy. For chaos.

Lex, meanwhile, delivers the most unhinged Elf on the Shelf story you’ll ever hear—featuring tongs and a child absolutely fighting for her life after making accidental contact. Trauma? Yes. Hilarious? Also yes.

And just when Sloan thinks she’s recovered, she shares the pickup line fumble that humbled her to her core. We’re talking life-altering, ego-bruising, 3AM ceiling-staring embarrassment. (“You too” has never hit harder.)

Moral of the story: trust your instincts, don’t touch the elf, and if you have a hot one-liner—COMMIT.

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Trigger warnings: sexual assault, childhood trauma, and animal death.

Episode 17 of Traumatically Speaking brings back The Things That Keep Us Up At Night, where the late night thoughts get a little darker and a lot more honest. In this episode, Sloan and Lex move through a mix of stories that are uncomfortable, unexpected, and hard to shake.

They talk about a bummer lamb, read a traumatic submission from Chaos Cousin Debbie, and Sloan shares a very unfortunate work story that lives rent free in her mind. Lex closes the episode by opening up about a deeply personal experience of being assaulted by a male best friend in high school, and the lasting impact that kind of betrayal can have.

It is dark, a little chaotic, and a reminder that some things do not just go away when the lights turn off.

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Trigger warnings: childhood trauma, family secrets, emotional neglect, and dysfunctional family dynamics.

Episode 16 of Traumatically Speaking brings it back to the Chaos Cousins as we read a fresh batch of trauma dumps that somehow manage to be equal parts absurd, heartbreaking, and just a little too relatable. This episode has everything, including a ninth birthday party with a broccoli theme that raises more questions than it answers, a man who has fully earned the title of douche canoe through his truly baffling behavior, and a story of mama trauma where a daughter finds out her entire family structure was not exactly what she was told, including a different dad and two half siblings casually left out of the narrative.

Along the way, Sloan shares a personal moment about navigating an ongoing dynamic with their mom, unpacking the kind of emotional immaturity that turns something as small as a conversation into silent treatment. They talk about what it feels like when a parent reacts to connection with control, including a situation where their adopted dad was given the silent treatment simply for speaking to Sloan.

As always, Sloan and Lex navigate these stories with honesty, dark humor, and the kind of commentary that makes you feel seen while also questioning how any of this was considered normal at the time. They unpack the impact of secrets, the confusion that comes with rewriting your own story later in life, and the ways seemingly small moments can leave lasting marks.

It is chaotic, it is validating, and it is a reminder that sometimes you do not realize how wild your childhood was until you say it out loud and someone else goes “wait… what?”

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Trigger warnings: childhood trauma, parenting, OCD, and mental health.

Episode 14 of Traumatically Speaking flips the script as Sloan steps into the interviewer seat and puts Lex in the hot seat for a conversation about parenting, healing, and what it actually looks like to break cycles in real time. This episode centers on Lex’s experience as a parent and the intentional choices she makes every day to not become the people who raised her.

They talk openly about what it means to raise kids while still actively healing your own inner child, and how those two things often collide in ways no one really prepares you for. Lex shares how her OCD shows up in her parenting, the ways it challenges her, and how she navigates those moments without passing down the same patterns she grew up with.

Throughout the episode, Sloan and Lex unpack the pressure of trying to do it right when you did not have a healthy example to follow, and the reality that healing does not happen before parenthood. It happens alongside it. They also read a trauma dump from a Chaos Cousin that adds another layer to the conversation, reminding listeners just how deep these cycles can run.

It is honest, self aware, and a look at what it means to parent differently while still being human, because breaking generational patterns is not about perfection. It is about showing up, taking accountability, and choosing something better over and over again.

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Trigger warnings: chronic illness, medical gaslighting, reproductive health, and discussion of systemic barriers to care.

Episode 13 of Traumatically Speaking continues the conversation as Sloan and Lex dive into part two of their endometriosis series, picking up where things left off and getting even more real about what happens after you start searching for answers. Sloan finishes sharing her story, bringing listeners deeper into the lived reality of navigating pain that never fully lets up, and what it means to exist in a body that is constantly asking to be taken seriously.

This episode shifts focus into the systems that are supposed to help but often make things worse. From insurance companies labeling necessary procedures as “exploratory” to delays that stretch suffering out for years, Sloan and Lex unpack how access to care is often determined by red tape instead of need. They talk about the emotional and financial toll of fighting to be approved for treatment, and how exhausting it is to have to prove your pain over and over again just to receive basic care.

Beyond the physical, they get into the psychological weight of chronic pain, especially when it becomes so constant that it starts to shape your identity. When pain becomes your baseline, it changes the way you move through the world, the way you advocate for yourself, and the way you see your own body. They explore what it means to unlearn the normalization of suffering and how difficult it can be to trust yourself after years of being dismissed.

Between personal experiences, statistics, and the kind of dark humor that makes heavy things feel a little lighter, they break down just how many people are affected by endometriosis and why awareness still is not enough. This episode is a reminder that your pain is real, your experience is valid, and you deserve care that does not require you to fight this hard to receive it.

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Trigger warnings: chronic illness, medical gaslighting, and discussion of reproductive health.

Episode 12 of Traumatically Speaking shifts the chaos into the medical system as Sloan and Lex talk about something that has shaped both of their lives: endometriosis. In honor of Endometriosis Awareness Month, this is part one of a conversation about what it’s like living with a condition that affects millions of female-bodied people while somehow still being wildly misunderstood, underdiagnosed, and frequently dismissed by the very people meant to treat it.

In this episode, Sloan and Lex share pieces of their own stories — the symptoms that were minimized, the years spent wondering if the pain was “normal,” and the exhausting reality of trying to advocate for yourself in rooms where your pain is treated more like a personality trait than a medical condition. Along the way, they unpack the uncomfortable overlap between childhood trauma and medical gaslighting, and how growing up in environments where your reality was denied can make it dangerously easy to internalize the same dismissal from doctors later in life.

Between personal stories, statistics, and the kind of dark humor that makes unbearable things slightly more survivable, they break down what endometriosis actually is, the symptoms many people are told to ignore, and why it can take years — sometimes nearly a decade — for people to finally receive a diagnosis.

It’s educational, it’s personal, and it’s a reminder that sometimes the hardest part of being sick isn’t the illness — it’s convincing someone to believe you.

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We are not here to heal you, just to keep you company between sessions.

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Sloan & Lex