What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy!

On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected.

Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice to develop that closer bond, and we'll discuss the things that men and women want when it comes to desire. They're not always the same, and, some of the things you have been doing to express your desire, may not be things that your partner even recognizes as your love language.

On our "So You're A Swinger" segment this week, we'll help you go from chatting to scoring at the next swinger event you attend. PLUS - John shares details of his tour of what he calls "the most perfect, elegant, and fully equipped exclusive lifestyle club" he's ever seen! Indulgence VIP in Owen Sound, Ontario Canada. https://www.indulgencevip.com

This is a fun conversation that we hope helps you have some fun conversations of your own this week!

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Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about.

For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things feel oh-so-much-better.

We'll even share some of the things people on Reddit have admitted they're into or have tried. A Barbie arm? Really? Really!

For our swingers this week, a talk about bio-hacking to be a player.... And a look at some of the weird things that are bound to happen in the lifestyle.

Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week: the fake exit and other things that will get you smacked or have the O of your life.

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It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex.

On this episode we get into WHY we're so weird.

From how we eroticize, literally, everything from spread sheets to bed sheets, to aliens. We discuss what it is that attracts so many of us to people who many would refer to as "the crazy ones" and our weird sex quirks.

For our swinger friends, a conversation about herpes and Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week introduces you to the KIVIN METHOD.

And, we have a VERY fun guest on the show today - Ted Buras - creator of CollabGPS, a creator networking app designed to help content creators find collaborators, plan shoots and manage projects. CollabGPS.com | TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collabgps | IG: https://www.instagram.com/collabgps | X: https://x.com/collabgps

And find us on your preferred podcast platform, on Youtube and on Fetlife @TurnedOnPodcast - our website where you can subscribe to Sue's newsletter, interact with the show, and read hundreds of kinky confession from our listeners is www.turnedonpodcast.com

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