It's actually why we chose to call our podcast TURNED ON. We knew we'd be having important and intimate conversations about everything that turns us on.

In other words; arousal.

Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive on the topic. Including why low libido is usually just lousy sex, and why good people end up having boring sex.

Find out why you can't negotiate the things that excite you, but you can engineer them, and why talking about sex often makes things worse.

On our "So You're A Swinger" segment, brought to you buy Club M4 Toronto (connect with them via the banner on our website) - We ask "are some people really not meant for monogamy?"

And, you'll get to hear Sue's life changing intimacy truths!

We have several questions from you, out listener to address as well! We LOVE those! sue@sexwithsue.com or via the contact information at www.turnedonpodcast.com

Also find us on Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast

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It's the Domme (or Dom) show - where we do a deep dive in the dark and mysterious world of BDSM.

Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive into everything from misconceptions about what goes on in the dungeon to defining the euphoria known as "sub space."

More often than not, the sexiest thing a Dominant does has nothing to do with a whip.

You'll discover why giving women the power means your sex life skyrockets and why female lead sex is sooo much hotter, and will make men want more.

We also discuss what you need to do if you want to quit your shit job and pursue a career as a professional dominant!

And, for our swinger friends, we answer a listener question about where to meet other swingers.

This is a very hot conversation! We're glad you're getting Turned On with us. Now... Get... On... Your... Knees.

Our thanks to Club M4 Toronto - connect with them through our website at www.turnedonpodcast.com

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Oooh this is an especially spicy conversation today! Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie and John talk about Taboos, and the sex you really want when no one is watching.

What do we mean by that? The kinks we're too nervous to admit to anyone that we have. The things we secretly watch on porn sites. Seeking time with professional dominants and sex workers.

Also this week, we are overloaded with kinky confessions from you, our listener! Our kinky confessional is your safe, anonymous space, to reveal those things you secretly desire or have pursued, but can't tell anyone, but are dying to! We read them here, and post them on our website for all to read! Doesn't it feel good to put it out there, somewhere?

Oooh! You tickled our Turned On In Box again with questions and comments (thank you) and one person wants to know Sue's thoughts on the word "cuck" being used more and more in everyday conversation. Does that speak to ENM becoming more mainstream? And, where are swingers meeting other swingers? We share what works for us... What works for you? turnedonsuejohn@gmail.com

Plus, we introduce you to Miss Bernadette - a Toronto based, mature disciplinarian who specializes in spanking and associated role play. Heads up, in a few episodes from now we're going to be speaking to some of the top professional Dominatrixes about their craft, and about what you need to do in order to earn time with Them!

Our Youtube is back online after a community guidelines strike (oops) and, as always a HUGE shout out to our friends at Club M4 in Toronto and the KISS swingers who will be there this weekend for a masquerade party! Connect with M4 by clicking their logo on our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com

And, if you're on Fetlife, follow us! @TurnedOnPodcast

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We absolutely love when YOU, our listener, determines what is discussed on this podcast! Last week’s episode on the penis was inspired by a request from our audience, and this week, in response to many who wrote to us to ask if we’d talk about her parts as well, we are! This is the “Vag Show” from Turned On With Sue And John.

Today Sue will cover everything from setting the record straight about the vagina being a system, not just a hole and about how no two vaginas are the same despite whatever ideas of “the perfect pussy” you get from magazines and other media.

We’ll discuss why she likes touch and stillness more than thrusting, why your pelvic floor is not supposed to be tight, and how your vag remembers past sex.

Also, we address a question from a listener whose partner wants him to play rough with her labia. He wants to know if that’s ok. (Spoiler, YES IT IS!) And, for our swinger friends, we present the 15 etiquette rules for swinging - plus one more! Our swinger segment presented by Club M4 in Toronto - The Premier Swingers Club in North America clubm4.com

And finally, some fun as fuck feedback about food as sex toys! Click the play button now to get turned on with Sue and John! We’re online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and now on Fetlife “TurnedOnPodcast”

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It’s another, in a long list of things, that people really want to talk about, but are too shy to talk about.
Penis size.

On this episode of Turned On With Sue And John, we’re talking about it! Including, what things actually work to increase length and girth. There are some crazy things on the market and we’ll help you steer clear of some of them.

Men deal with a lot of anxiety over the size of their manhood, and Sue is here to tell you that you can relax. In fact, she will reveal that there is actually something that most women remember a LOT more than your size!

There are problems with being too big as well, and we’ll address that as it pertains to traditional sex, plus oral and even anal sex.

For our friends in the swinger lifestyle, we address the men at the resort who may have a big one, but is that enough to get them on everyone’s wish list? (Spoiler; no. It’s not.)

And this week’s conversation also deals with the “bros” whose toxic masculinity is hurting them more than it’s helping them, and how they view their penis plays a role in this. Some bonus talk this week regarding men being called “Daddy” and other pet names, and John went to M4, a very well known adult lifestyle club in Toronto and he’ll share his thoughts on the experience with you today as well! Club M4: www.clubm4.com

IG: clubm4.toronto It’s time to get turned on… With Sue And John!
Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com

And now on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast

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Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John… It’s sex ed for grown ups!
Every week we talk about the number one thing that everybody wants to talk about… Which is also the number one thing people feel uncomfortable talking about. SEX! This week’s conversation centres around desire. From desire at a swinger’s club to why 1 in 20 women want to hire an escort. Plus we look at what’s involved for any man wanting to pursue that line of work.

Plus - what IS desire? And, what specific things can you do when it fades? Sue has some solutions for you!

Bonus conversations this week include getting you caught up on some of the weird things about sex that popped up this week that you should know about, and we discuss your astrological symbol, and what it says about your kinks! Chyrpe, a female-led dating app, analyzed data from nearly one million verified users to see whether zodiac signs aligned with specific sexual interests.

We open the Turned On mail bag for listener letters and we have a voice mail from one listener who doesn’t think John should abandon Fetlife, which he has talked about doing. In fact, Sue suggested that we start our own Fetlife page, which we have! You can now friend us there at https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcast

And… John is off to visit Toronto’s famous M4 swinger’s club this weekend. We’ll have a review on next week’s show!

We’re online at www.turnedonpodcast.com where you’ll find past episodes, our voice notes feature, our Youtube channel and more! Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John

PS - as promised, here’s a link to the Vice article that reveals your kink according to your Zodiac sign: https://www.vice.com/en/article/every-zodiac-sign-has-a-kink-heres-yours/

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At the request of a listener, today's show is all about masturbation.

Sue and John discuss how touching ourselves changed during the pandemic, and some new tricks now that, that's in the past.

What to do when you're at the nude beach but you get excited... And secrets of the clit!

We introduce you to milking machines and what role they play in self pleasure. Plus mutual masturbation - it's hot!

And, as a bonus, we reveal this year's list of things people put inside themselves that lead to them having to make a trip to the ER, and we answer a question submitted to us looking for help on how to fulfill a fantasy of going down on her after you've cum inside her.

Connect with our Youtube channel, hear past episodes, and more at www.turnedonpodcast.com

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It’s time to get Turned On With Sue & John one last time in 2025! But we’re back next week with our first conversation of 2026! On this episode, one of the top sex educators in the world, Sex With Sue’s, Sue McGarvie, looks back on some of the most important sex lessons you learned in the past 12 months… Things we learned as well! Including the top things we learned from books and sex tools we discovered and really liked! We review new insights into oral sex (drink your water!) and you’ll find out what Sue believes is some of the best sex and intimacy research done this past year. For our swinger friends - We look at Polyfidelity, and for those not in the lifestyle, we’ll bring you up to speed on what that term means. Also, some of the things we, and you, and others, got wrong in 2025 when it comes to sex and relationships, and Sue reveals the one word that kept coming up in sex review after sex review after sex review. Plus - therapy. It’s coaching, and it’s not something to fear. John and Sue open up about the importance of great friends, great partners, and the benefits of getting professional help especially when you are ready to open up about your desires and what you crave in the bedroom.

And, a listener’s kinky confession about some fun under the mistletoe this Christmas! Your questions for Sue at sue@sexwithsue.com
Our website for voice notes, to subscribe to Sue’s newsletter (and get free shit) and to leave us a review: www.turnedonpodcast.com
John on Fetlife: Megahurts or funwithmilkman@gmail.com

Happy new year!
Sue and John

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