What is the best kind of sex?

This week on Turned On With Sue and John we’ll help you answer that, including a list of the 10 best kinds, according to therapists around the world.

Plus, we’ll discuss some types of sex that you may not believe are good, although, they actually are!

Sue’s Sassy Sex Secret this weekdays with Spectatoring is the act of overthinking sex while having sex.

And listener questions this week seek Sue’s advice on how to deal with, what they call “a broken clit” and another person wants to know if it’s normal to sneeze (a lot) when she is close to orgasm.

And, for our upside down pineapple friends - The things that surprise the “vanillas!” It’s time to get Turned On With Sue And John

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1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had?

Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboard.

Today Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss "The Body Count."

Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week: The "Pulse and Pause" Edging Hack

For swingers, a conversation with Bob from Naughty N'awlins plus... Hollywood Gets the Lifestyle Wrong. Again.

And in sex in the news: The "wholesome" creator with more than 2,500 partners, and our friend Bonnie Blue is back in the news! Always pushing boundaries, always making headlines, and always fun to talk about!

And Raven from the Adult Fun Superstore introduces you to her sex toy pick of the week - The Stroker / Main Squeeze from Doc Johnson! (www.adultfun dot ca)

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There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were.

Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work!

Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actually helps you give a better blow job!

We're also going to send Hollywood to the naughty corner because a lot of what it has taught us is just... Well... Hollywood fiction.

For our swinger friends - a new mega-swinger-centre is being built - we'll tell you where and we'll also tell you how to explore it FREE! You're welcome!

This week's sex in the news includes a man arrested for stealing and then trying to re-sell boner pills at one of the largest swinger hot spots in the world, and a strongman who not only pulled car with his dick, he did it while his dick was on fire.

And, a question about face sitting from someone worried that her partner may suffocate.

Finally, our friends from the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada (adultfun dot ca) introduce us to the new Delightful Vulva And Breast Pump from Shots!

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Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly?

Today's conversation is all about lust.

Merrium-Webster defines it as:

• usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : lasciviousness
• an intense longing : craving
• to have an intense desire or need : crave specifically : to have a sexual urge

We'll also reveal what sex workers have to say about the subject.

Sue's experienced lust. John too. Have you? Tell us your story of lust at our links below!

Also today... We dispel some swinger myths - and there are a lot of them!

We talk to the team at Lelo about some of their incredible toys, and Raven from The Adult Fun Superstor (adultfun.ca) introduces you to her toy of the week - the Aluna Femme Fun!

Plus - The three secrets that will make your sex life better immediately, sex in the news this week and loads more of the sex education you wish someone would have given you years ago!

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The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want.

We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation.

Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode.

Also today, the exit strategy for swingers, because sometimes you've had enough of the lifestyle, need to take a break, or have discovered that it's just not for you anymore. You always hear about how to get IN, but how do you gracefully find your way out?

We even get you caught up on sex in the news - including the latest about sex in space, 83 year old Iris is banging a lot of younger men, a new survey looks at what is ruining things in the bedroom for Canadians, and outdated sex laws that are still on the books in the USA right now.

And our friends at The Adult Fun Superstore introduce us to the latest a fun, new toy for couples from WeVibe!

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Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral!
We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex! As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape trick! This sounds SOOOO fun!

For our swinger friends, we get into all the things swinging has taught us, and others in the lifestyle. If you’re new to swinging, these are some of the things you’ll experience as you play more!

Some incredible questions from YOU again this week. One listener cannot visualize things in their mind and wants to know if that’s normal. We promise you, it is, and we have some work-arounds for you to try! Another listener is frustrated trying to orgasm, often spending up to an hour with no success. They’d like Sue’s recipe for “scream cream” please. Sue happily shares that today.

Finally, we address some comments found on Reddit on the topic of oral sex and also what research has to say on the matter! Sue’s Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter

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Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever.

Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today.

Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions about grooming in advance of a live seminar Sue is conducting this week about oral sex, and another listener wants to know about swinger burnout.

Sue will also let you in on what she'd include in your summer sex festival survival pack, and on her Sassy Sex Secrets it's the $4 Hardware Store / Drug Store toy that you can't pass up!

Plus, the gang at the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada introduce us to the toy their employees chose as this week's staff pick!

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What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy!

On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected.

Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice to develop that closer bond, and we'll discuss the things that men and women want when it comes to desire. They're not always the same, and, some of the things you have been doing to express your desire, may not be things that your partner even recognizes as your love language.

On our "So You're A Swinger" segment this week, we'll help you go from chatting to scoring at the next swinger event you attend. PLUS - John shares details of his tour of what he calls "the most perfect, elegant, and fully equipped exclusive lifestyle club" he's ever seen! Indulgence VIP in Owen Sound, Ontario Canada. https://www.indulgencevip.com

This is a fun conversation that we hope helps you have some fun conversations of your own this week!

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