• When Secrets Come To Light: Disclosure and Discovery
    Jan 14 2026

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    When secret sexual sin comes into the light, everything changes. In this episode of UNAshamed, Men’s Director David Noble, Clinical Director Shari Montague, and Spouse Care Director Karen Kallberg explore what happens when sin is discovered, how poorly handled disclosure can deepen wounds, and how thoughtful, guided disclosure can become the first step toward real healing for both men and their wives.


    Featuring: Shari Montague, Rev. David Noble, Karen Kallberg, and Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Produced and hosted by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Theme music is No Indication used with permission by TrackTribe.

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    30 mins
  • Defining the Problem: Porn, Secrecy, & Spousal Betrayal
    Dec 17 2025

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    With the slow rise of porn and casual sex, many are asking, "What's the big deal anyway?" In this episode of UNAshamed, Executive Director Sean Maney and Spouse Care Director Karen Kallberg discuss how compulsive sexual sin harms individuals, spouses, and society.

    Featuring: Rev. Sean Maney, Karen Kallberg, and Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Produced and hosted by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Theme music is No Indication used with permission by TrackTribe.

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    28 mins
  • The Challenges Of The Holidays: Visiting Family
    Nov 19 2025

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    The holidays are supposed to bring cheer - but for many people struggling with sexual sin or healing from betrayal, the holiday season can feel very different. In this special episode of UNAshamed, Men's Director David Noble and Spouse Care Director Karen Kallberg discuss how to navigate the emotional challenges of visiting families through the holidays during the healing process.

    Featuring: Rev. David Noble, Karen Kallberg, and Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Produced and hosted by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

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    26 mins
  • Individualized Care: FirstLight's Clinical Ministry
    Nov 5 2025

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    Men and women who have experienced sex addiction or betrayal trauma often need individualized care to find their path forward. In this episode of UNASHAMED, Rev. Jonathan Shilts and Clinical Ministry Director LPC CSAT Sharí Montague discuss how FirstLight Ministries uses clinical practices to bring specialized, deep-rooted healing to our participants.

    Featuring: Rev. David Noble and Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Produced and hosted by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

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    12 mins
  • "What About Us?" FirstLight's Spouse Care Ministry
    Oct 29 2025

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    There are so many resources to support men battling sex addition - but what about their wives? Spouses of addicted partners often find themselves navigating the pain sexual betrayal alone, caught in a storm of secrecy, shame, and hurt. On this episode of UNASHAMED, Rev. Jonathan Shilts and Spouse Care Director Karen Kallberg discuss how FirstLight Ministries brings healing to the spouses of men struggling with sex addiction.

    Featuring: Karen Kallberg and Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Produced and hosted by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Theme music is No Indication used with permission by TrackTribe.

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    14 mins
  • Breaking Free: FirstLight's Men's Ministry
    Oct 15 2025

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    Porn and sexual addiction can drive men into isolation, shame and hopelessness. Despite promises, self-shaming, and internet filters, many men can't see a way out... But there is another path forward. In this episode of UNASHAMED, Rev. Jonathan Shilts and Men's Ministry Director Rev. David Noble discuss how FirstLight Ministries brings healing to men struggling with sexual compulsion.

    Featuring: Rev. David Noble and Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Produced and hosted by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

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    15 mins
  • What Is FirstLight Ministries?
    Sep 24 2025

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    After over a thousand downloads across six continents, the FirstLight Podcast, now rebranded as UNASHAMED, is officially back! Join us in Season 2 as FirstLight Ministries' team of directors, comprised of pastors and counselors, lead us in honest conversations about sex, betrayal, and redemption in Christ.


    In this episode, Rev. Jonathan Shilts and FirstLight Executive Director Rev. Sean Maney discuss what FirstLight Ministries is and how we bring healing to strugglers and betrayed spouses. Discover how Gospel-centered discipleship can transform lives and restore relationships harmed by sexual sin with this season of UNASHAMED

    Featuring: Rev. Sean Maney and Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Produced and hosted by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

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    16 mins
  • New Year, New Church? Discipleship In An Age Addiction
    Dec 26 2024

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    In the season finale of Saints & Sexuality, Rev. Jonathan Shilts and FirstLight Executive Director Sean Maney dive into the pressing need for the church to address secret sexual struggles. They explore how shame, hidden sins, and a lack of discipleship contribute to the issue and share a bold vision for fostering a community where healing is possible. Discover practical ways the church and its members can provide a safe, redemptive environment to break free from sexual sin and live fully in the light of Christ.

    Bonus Discussion: Making an effective New Years resolution.

    Featuring: Rev. Sean Maney and Jonathan Shilts

    Produced by Rev. Jonathan Shilts

    Theme music is No Indication by TrackTribe.

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    21 mins