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Unmasking Parenting

Unmasking Parenting

Written by: Dot "Dot-the-doula" Golini
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Parenting isn’t always picture-perfect, and we’re here to talk about what most people won’t. Unmasking Parenting dives deep into the raw, unspoken, and often taboo sides of parenthood—from conception to postpartum and everything in between. No sugarcoating, no judgment—just real conversations about the messy, beautiful, and unconventional aspects of raising a child.

From fertility struggles and birth trauma to postpartum identity shifts and breaking generational cycles, we’re lifting the veil on the realities of parenting that often go unspoken. Whether you're a new parent, expecting, or just curious about what’s behind the highlight reels, this is your space for honest, thought-provoking discussions.

It’s time to unmask parenting—one episode at a time.

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Episodes
  • Unlearning, Reparenting & Real Love: The Truth About Modern Parenting
    Jun 12 2025

    Parenting isn’t just about raising children — it’s about healing yourself along the way. In this episode, we dive deep into the untold truths of motherhood and modern parenting: how society minimizes caregiving work, why many fear becoming parents due to their own upbringing, and what it really takes to break generational cycles.

    We’re naming the shame, laughing through the chaos, and validating the very real struggles so many parents carry silently. From learning to love your children in ways they can actually receive to prioritizing self-care (yes, even when it feels impossible), this episode is a permission slip to parent with compassion, curiosity, and courage.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or preparing for your journey ahead, this one’s for you.

    Because you don’t have to be a perfect parent — just a present one.

    🎧 Tune in now, and let’s grow together.

    Resources:

    • Understanding Shame - https://www.rivergrovetherapy.com/post/understanding-shame-and-its-impact-on-children-a-guide-for-parents
    • Parenting as a Healing Journey - https://www.peacefulparent.com/parenting-healing-journey/
    • Reparenting Yourself - https://www.integratedbhs.com/re-parenting-yourself-healing-your-inner-child/

    Stay Connected with me!

    https://linktr.ee/doulaanddivine

    • Email: doulaanddivine@gmail.com
    • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@doula_and_divine/videos
    • IG: https://www.instagram.com/doula_and_divine?igsh=MXF3ZTVnZXhqMWRkdw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
    • Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dot_the_doula?_t=ZT-8u3hbmMqyyo&_r=1
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    30 mins
  • 5 Taboo and Hidden Postpartum Changes Every Mom/Birthing Person Should Know
    Jun 5 2025

    Many Mothers/Birthing Person feel isolated or confused about the physical and emotional changes their bodies go through after childbirth. We're about to break down 5 of those changes and help you understand the reality, along with solutions and emotional reshifting.

    In this episode of Unmasking Parenting, we dive deep into the 5 hidden and taboo physical and emotional changes many mothers/birthing person face during the postpartum period. We talked about the realities of postpartum recovery that often go unspoken. From vaginal discomfort to urine incontinence, we explore the challenges that can leave new moms feeling isolated or misunderstood.

    Tune in for an honest conversation about the complexities of postpartum life and how to embrace the healing process, one step at a time.

    Resources Mentioned in this episode:

    Pelvic Floor Disorders

    • https://www.mayoclinic.org/medical-professionals/physical-medicine-rehabilitation/news/advancing-care-for-childbirth-related-pelvic-floor-disorders/mqc-20567811

    Urinary Incontinence

    • https://www.pregnancybirthbaby.org.au/bladder-weakness-after-birth

    Changes in Libido

    • https://www.insightpelvichealth.com/blog/libido-after-having-a-baby
    • https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3540189/

    Breastfeeding Struggles - The Hidden Pain

    • https://laleche.org.uk/five-ways-help-breastfeeding-doesnt-go-expected/
    • https://www.thebump.com/a/breastfeeding-cramps
    • https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22655-uterus-involution

    Stay Connected with me!

    https://linktr.ee/doulaanddivine

    • Email: doulaanddivine@gmail.com
    • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@doula_and_divine/videos
    • IG: https://www.instagram.com/doula_and_divine?igsh=MXF3ZTVnZXhqMWRkdw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
    • Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dot_the_doula?_t=ZT-8u3hbmMqyyo&_r=1
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    20 mins
  • Building the Village: Who Holds You While You Hold the Baby?
    Apr 10 2025

    In this episode of Unmasking Parenting, we explore what it truly means to have a village—and why every birthing person and partner deserves one.

    Who belongs in your village? How do you find—or create—those people? And what kind of support should they be offering? From doulas to chosen family, from emotional anchors to practical helpers, this conversation will help you identify who should be on your team.

    Whether you’re expecting, newly postpartum, or showing up for someone who is—this episode is your gentle invitation to rethink support, ask for more, and lean into care.

    Let’s unmask the myths and build the real village, together.

    Where you can find us: https://linktr.ee/doulaanddivine

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dot_the_doula?_t=ZT-8u3hbmMqyyo&_r=1

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doula_and_divine?igsh=MXF3ZTVnZXhqMWRkdw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

    Website: doulaanddivinesupport.com

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    22 mins
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