In this edition of Sally’s Hotline, we hear from the unstoppable Deena Johnson Lee, a retired fire chief, mentor, and leadership coach known as The Feminist Fire Chief. After building a career in the high-pressure world of emergency services, Dena now helps women develop the confidence, authenticity, and resilience to lead, particularly in male-dominated fields.
Deena’s advice begins with a powerful idea: the most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself. Whether you want to lead a team, pursue a new career, or make a change in your personal life, leadership starts with understanding yourself, recognizing your patterns, and challenging the beliefs that may be holding you back.
But self-leadership does not mean doing everything alone. Deena encourages listeners to surround themselves with mentors, trusted advisors, champions, and people who can offer an outside perspective. She also shares how retirement led her to rethink the meaning of purpose. Rather than waiting to discover who she was supposed to become, she decided to design that future herself.
This short but meaningful tip episode is a reminder that you can choose who you want to become and begin taking steps toward that version of yourself today. Keep showing up, keep growing, and bring your authentic self along for the journey.
In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
- How self-awareness and self-mastery form the foundation of effective leadership
- Why recognizing limiting beliefs and personal patterns matters
- The importance of continuing to show up and step up
- How mentors, champions, and trusted advisors can support your growth
- Why an outside perspective can help you see beyond your professional world
- What Deena means by upgrading your personal operating system
- How she designed her next chapter as a coach, mentor, and keynote speaker
- Why working backward from your vision can help you build the life you want
Key Takeaways:
Leadership starts with yourself. Understanding your strengths, patterns, beliefs, and motivations helps you become a more effective leader.
Keep showing up and stepping up. Growth requires participation, even when you are still learning.
Your authentic self is your greatest contribution. You do not have to become someone else to make an impact.
Nobody succeeds alone. Build relationships with mentors, champions, trusted advisors, and people who offer different perspectives.
Upgrade your operating system. Periodically examine whether your habits, beliefs, and ways of thinking still serve the person you want to become.
You can design your purpose. Decide who you want to be, work backward from that vision, and begin taking action.
If you want to hear Deena’s full story, including her journey from waitress to fire chief, her experiences navigating gender bias in the fire service, and her work empowering women in leadership, listen to the previous episode of Unstoppable: Stories That Move.
Learn more about Deena’s coaching and mentorship at supportherstrength.com, and follow her on social media at The Feminist Fire Chief.
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