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Grief Rewritten – God is Near
In this powerful episode, Fred and Valerie Paine guide listeners through the tender reality of grief—whether it’s from the death of a loved one, a broken dream, a life-altering diagnosis, or a silent sorrow few understand.

With warmth, compassion, and biblical truth, they explore how grief touches every part of our lives—but never pushes God away. In fact, Scripture assures us that “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.”

If you’ve ever wondered where God is in the middle of your pain, this episode will meet you there—with comfort, hope, and the reminder that you are not alone. Healing begins when we invite God near—and let Him gently rewrite our grief with truth and love. Email us: vcli@vcli.org

🎧 Tune in and discover how God draws near to those who are hurting—and how His presence brings peace to even the most broken places.

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Ever felt like someone tried to help you out of your pain—but it actually pulled you away from God’s purpose?

In this powerful episode of VCLi & You, Fred and Valerie Paine dive into the surprising danger of well-meaning detours. With biblical insight and practical wisdom, they reveal how even loving advice or our own desire for relief can delay the deeper work God wants to do in our hearts.

You’ll discover:

• Why everything—yes, everything—is used by God for good in your life
• How to spot detours in your life and get back on track

If you’re in the middle of a trial, tempted to escape, or walking with someone who is—this episode will give you clarity, courage, and insight.

🎙️ Don’t miss it—this could be the breakthrough moment you’ve been praying for!

Email Fred and Valerie for the Well-Meaning Detours resource: vcli@vcli.org

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Have you ever found yourself asking, “God, what should I do?” Whether you’re facing a major life decision or simply navigating your daily walk, the need for clear guidance can feel overwhelming. The good news? God promises to lead you — and He never gives up on you.

In this encouraging episode, Fred and Valerie explore how God speaks and leads us in real, personal, and practical ways. You’ll hear relatable stories, biblical truth, and life-giving wisdom that will help you discern God’s direction — even when the road ahead feels uncertain.

If you’ve ever wrestled with questions like:

• How can I be sure it’s God leading me?
• What if I’ve missed His plan?
• How do I know which path to take?

…this episode is for you.

Tune in and be reminded that God is not just giving you directions — He’s walking the journey with you.

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What if your past didn’t define you? What if your present had real purpose, and your future was filled with hope—not fear? In this powerful episode of VCLi & You!, Fred and Valerie unpack what it truly means to be in Christ—in simple, everyday language that connects deeply with real life.

Through heartfelt conversation, personal stories, and timeless truths from Scripture, you’ll discover how Jesus offers more than forgiveness—He offers a brand-new identity. Whether you're carrying shame from the past, stuck in today’s struggles, or anxious about tomorrow, this episode brings clarity, comfort, and a clear path forward.

✔️ Learn how your past is erased
✔️ Embrace your new identity today
✔️ Step confidently into a future filled with hope

This isn't just good news—it’s life-changing truth. Listen in and take the first step into a new beginning.

Grab your copy of the SALT Spiritual Study Guide at VCLi.org and start renewing your mind.

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If we want real, lasting change, we have to start at the root! In this episode of VCLi & You!, Fred and Valerie uncover a powerful truth—what is at the root in our lives determines the fruit we produce. Are you struggling with fear, anxiety, or unhealthy habits? The issue isn’t just the “bad fruit”—it’s the hidden roots beneath.

Through Colossians 2:7, they reveal how sinking our roots into Christ leads to transformation. You’ll learn how to break free from false beliefs using the 4 R’s: Reveal, Remove, Replace, and Renew—a simple but life-changing process for uprooting lies and planting God’s truth. Plus, don’t miss Valerie’s personal story and a practical tool that will help you apply this in your own life!

Take the first step toward freedom today! Grab your copy of the SALT Psychological Study Guide at VCLi.org, and start healing from the root up.

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What you focus on shapes your entire perspective—so what are you looking at? In this episode of VCLi & You!, Fred and Valerie dive into the life-changing power of focus. They unpack how problems, fears, and circumstances can seem overwhelming—just like a tiny penny can block the sun when held too close. But when we shift our focus to God, everything comes into perspective.

This episode will challenge you to examine where your attention is and offer a simple, practical exercise to help you refocus on God’s truth. Plus, don’t miss your free Focus Shift Guide to help you put this lesson into action!

Tune in now and discover how to replace stress with peace by keeping your eyes on Jesus. Email us at vcli@VCLi.org to grab your free guide!

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In this first episode, hosts Fred and Valerie Paine introduce you to Victorious Christian Living International (VCLi), a Biblical counseling and training ministry dedicated to transforming lives for over 45 years.

Valerie shares her personal journey of overcoming fear and striving for approval, while Fred reflects on how VCLi strengthened their marriage. Together, they explore how SALT - Seven Areas of Life Training has impacted lives across the world, from prisons to missionary fields.

Are you struggling with anxiety, fear, or broken relationships? This episode will bring you hope and point you toward the truth found in God's Word.

Have a question or topic you'd like us to cover? Email us at vcli@vcli.org.

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Subscribe now and take your next step toward victorious Christian living!

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Renewing Your Mind – The Key to Real Transformation

Are you feeling stuck in negative thinking, anxiety, or unhealthy habits? In this very first episode of VCLi & You, Fred and Valerie unpack the life-changing power of renewing your mind according to Romans 12:2.

Discover why real transformation starts in your thoughts, not just your actions, and how replacing lies with God’s truth can lead to lasting change. You’ll learn practical steps—like starting a Truth Journal—to take control of your thoughts and experience freedom in Christ.

Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and get ready to renew your mind and transform your life!

Thanks for listening to VCLi & You! If today’s episode helped or encouraged you, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend who might need it. For more practical tools to navigate life’s challenges, visit VCLi.org or email us at vcli@vcli.org.

Until next time, here’s to living well in every area of life!