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What happens when doing everything right still leads you to the hospital?

In this episode of What Changed?, I sit down with Cynthia Lai, an executive coach, lecturer, board advisor, and entrepreneur who spent over 20 years in senior banking roles before her body forced her to stop. Twice. What looked like success on the outside slowly became unsustainable on the inside.

This is a candid conversation about high achievers, hustle culture, and what happens when your career becomes your identity. Cynthia shares the warning signs she rationalized, the pressure to keep performing, and the moment she realized that pushing through was no longer an option. We talk about why driven people often ignore burnout until it shows up physically, and why setting boundaries can feel more threatening than exhaustion itself.

You should listen if you feel successful but tired, motivated but depleted, or proud of how much you can handle while quietly questioning the cost. This episode will challenge how you define ambition, productivity, and self-worth, and may help you recognize signals you have been pushing aside.

If you have ever wondered how long you can keep going like this, this conversation is for you.

Cynthia Lai: https://linktr.ee/cynthiakylai

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Are you waiting for a sign that never comes?

At 22, Chris March made a decision many people hesitate on. He left everything he knew and moved to the other side of the world without a map or a guaranteed outcome. He just knew that staying still was no longer an option.

That single choice launched a 17-year journey across three continents and more than 80 countries, shaping the lived experience that led him to become a global Executive Coach and Leadership Advisor.

In this episode of What Changed?, we explore:

• Why clarity often comes after you start moving

• How to build self-trust when certainty is missing

• The difference between learning leadership from theory versus lived experience

• How pivotal moments shape who you become over time

If you're standing at the edge of a major decision and waiting to feel ready, this conversation offers a grounded perspective on what happens when you trust yourself and step forward.

Chris March: https://chrismarchcoaching.com/

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Are you a high achieving woman feeling buried by your career? In this episode, we explore the midlife awakening and how to stop pretzeling yourself to fit corporate expectations.

We often stay in situations that no longer fit us because we've been told that sticking it out is a sign of resilience. We wear the title, collect the paycheck, and ignore the quiet whisper telling us that we're slowly disappearing behind our own success.

I sit down with Leadership Coach and former HR Executive, Suzannah Kelly, to explore the moment the life you've built no longer matches the person you've become. After 25 years in the corporate world, Suzannah found herself in survival mode, performing and feeling deeply invalidated despite her senior status. It took a massive life interruption for her to realize that she wasn't falling apart - she was finally waking up.

This is not just a conversation about career coaching. We discuss:

• The Myth of Resilience and why staying can be breaking you

• The terror of walking away from financial security

• The Minus 5 to Plus 5 framework for moving from stress to purpose

• Why so many ambitious women feel buried by their responsibilities.

If you've ever felt like you're watching your life from the ceiling or wondering if it's too late to start over, this conversation offers the clarity and courage needed to take the next step. This episode is not about losing your career. It's about reclaiming your identity so you can finally lead a life that fits.

Suzannah Kelly: www.suzannahkelly.ca

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Parenting can feel overwhelming in ways no one really prepares you for.
The frustration. The guilt. The fear that you're doing it wrong, even when you're trying your best.

In this episode, I sit down with Child Behaviour Expert, Bryan Post, one of the leading voices in love-based parenting and someone who has spent nearly three decades working with children and families impacted by trauma. What unfolds is not a conversation about parenting techniques, but a deeper look at why parenting so often feels hard, and what's really happening underneath our reactions.

We talk about control, discipline, homework battles, emotional regulation, and why behaviour is often a signal of stress rather than defiance. Bryan shares powerful stories from his own life and work, and challenges the idea that love-based parenting is permissive. Instead, he reframes love as something grounded, intentional, and deeply transformative.

If you've ever felt triggered by your child's behaviour, stuck in cycles of frustration, or unsure how to stay calm without losing authority, this conversation will give you a new lens and practical insight you can carry into everyday moments.

This episode isn't about fixing your child.
It's about understanding yourself, so your child can feel safe enough to grow.

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What if the reason you feel behind, distracted, or exhausted isn't a lack of discipline, but a system designed to take your time without you noticing?

In this conversation, I sit down with Steven Puri, a former Hollywood studio executive turned founder of The Sukha Company, to unpack how our attention is quietly being pulled away from the lives we actually want to live.

Steven shares the moment he realized his time was no longer his own, what it cost him personally and professionally, and why high performance without control leads straight to burnout. Drawing from his experience in film, tech, and behavioural science, we explore how distraction, procrastination, and perfectionism slowly erode our sense of agency, and what it really takes to get it back.

We talk about flow states, why some days feel energizing while others disappear, and how small, intentional shifts can help you reclaim your focus without blowing up your life. This is not about hustle or doing more. It's about doing what matters before your days quietly slip away.

If you have ever ended a day wondering where the time went, this conversation will feel uncomfortably familiar.

🎧 Plus, we settle the long-debated question: Is Die Hard actually a Christmas movie?

There's a point when pushing through stops working.
Not because you're weak. Because something is misaligned.

I sat down with Todd Allyn, a high-performance identity strategist, for a conversation that challenged how I think about resilience, success, and self-leadership. We talked about drift. The quiet kind that happens when your identity gets tied to roles, titles, and expectations that no longer fit. The kind that keeps capable, disciplined people stuck while telling themselves to just be more resilient.

Todd shares what happened when a 25-year career ended overnight and how rebuilding from the inside out forced him to separate who he was from what he did. What landed most for me was this truth. Resilience without alignment eventually becomes self-betrayal.

If something feels off and you've been trying to push through it, this conversation will meet you where you are and challenge you to pay attention.

Hina Laeeque built a life that looked perfect on paper. Great career, family, stability. But one quiet night on the couch, she realised she no longer recognised herself. That moment pushed her to rebuild her health, rewrite her identity, and eventually walk away from an eighteen-year career to help women do the same.

We talk about the pressure many second-generation children feel to live the life their parents sacrificed for, the hidden health risks facing South Asian women, and why so many of us ignore our own needs until something breaks. Hina shares how strength, not "skinny," became the foundation of her confidence, and why taking care of your body can be the most powerful way to take back your life.

This conversation is a reminder that the hardest part of change is admitting when "I'm fine" is no longer true. If you've been feeling stuck, tired, or unsure how to start, Hina's story might be the nudge you've been waiting for.

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I sat down with Scott Fasano, a storyteller and entrepreneur who helps people remember who they are and live in alignment with truth. Together, we explore why so many of us feel exhausted even when life looks fine on the surface.

This conversation breaks down the real reason rest does not fix your fatigue, why people hide from their own truth, and how misalignment quietly drains your energy. If you feel off, stuck, or tired in a way that does not make sense, this episode will help you understand why.