When the Pursuer Withdraws: Will You Come After Me?
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When the Pursuer Withdraws: Will You Come After Me?
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What happens when the partner who usually pursues connection suddenly stops?
Sometimes a pursuer goes quiet not because they’ve given up, but because they desperately want to know what will happen if they stop reaching.
Will you notice? Will you miss me? Will you come after me?
In this episode of Just Listen to Me, Julia explores protest withdrawal — when a pursuing partner creates distance in the hope that their partner will finally close it. We look at why this can backfire, how a withdrawing partner may interpret the distance as a request for space, and how both partners can end up confirming their deepest attachment fears.
Because sometimes the pursuer hasn’t stopped pursuing. They’ve simply changed the way they’re asking to be pursued.
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