• World Music w/ SueAnn Shiah
    Oct 15 2026

    The world has been talking about Ed Sheeran’s Loop Tour lately, but not so much about the world music record that’s actually supporting it. Multihyphenate and long-time friend SueAnn Shiah joins this conversation about white artists using “ethic” sounds to revive their careers. They compare three world music records: Caedmon Call’s “Share the Well,” Ed Sheeran’s “Play,” and of course, Paul Simon’s “Graceland.” Stay for the Going/Not Going at the end (Jeffree Star trigger warning).

    • SueAnn’s Socials: Instagram | Twitter | Bandcamp | Website
    • World Music Wikipedia
    • Graceland – Paul Simon
    • Play – Ed Sheeran
    • Share the Well – Caedmon’s Call
    • ABAO
    • Jewish Currents Podcast
    • Circle of Life – Difang
    • Taiwan Pasiwali Festival
    • Colorful Wi, Adju Music Festival, First Musical event featuring indigenous LGBTIQ in the world

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    1 hr and 24 mins
  • Moonlight Revisited
    Oct 1 2026

    In moonlight, Black boys still look blue, and Moonlight is getting a 4K glow-up for its 10th anniversary. Blake and Kashif unpack the film’s continued importance, offer a close reading of Moonlight‘s central themes, and discuss their first viewings. Chiron as the king of queer introverts. Beyoncé and ‘all that blue light.’ Nicholas Britell and scoring Black cinematic life. Bonus: Blake gives Kashif a gift that you’ll also enjoy…hopefully.

    • Tarell Alvin McCraney’s In Moonlight Black Boys Look Blue
    • Beyoncé on Blue Light
    • Nicholas Britell
    • Local Business Spotlight: Asphalt Beach

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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • Junk Drawer: Thrifting, Kirkiversary, Rogue AI, and Millennial Optimism
    Sep 17 2026

    Why on earth are prices so high at thrift stores? A year after the killing of Charlie Kirk and taxpayers’ unwitting role in the slew of 2025 firings. AI scientists need an old school whupping, not for what they’ve created but for what they actually haven’t. Gen Zers fantasize about millennial optimism, but are we (two millennials) sure we remember that? Stay for Going/Not Going, starring a very chesty male (hint: it’s *shockingly* not Jeremy Camp).

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    1 hr and 30 mins
  • The Disappearers w/ Marlon James
    Sep 3 2026

    The Disappearers is a book of the decade, and we’re so glad to share our conversation with its author, Marlon James. Set in 1980’s Jamaica, this epistolary gay revenge thriller (yes, it’s all of those things), chronicles the lives of eight gay men following an attack. What does it mean for our culture to disappear us? How can people disappear, but not leave? This is a career-defining work, and you don’t want to miss this unruly and heartfelt conversation. Stay for our new version of the game, “Going/Not Going” at the end.

    • Marlon’s Socials: Instagram | Website
    • Buy The Disappearers
    • The Sexual Outlaw by John Rechy

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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • Feels Like Somebody’s Watching Me: Surveillance Capitalism
    Aug 20 2026

    In today’s world, we are always giving up our privacy for the promises of safety, connection, and convenience. But is the tradeoff worth it? In this episode, we explore how surveillance companies like Flock are actually making our neighborhoods more unsafe, why you just can’t seem to stop swiping (and paying for it!), and why nothing may have an actual price anymore. Stay for a revamped game at the end. We’re calling it “Going/Not Going” where we tell you what trend, person, or other aspect of culture is or isn’t getting us out to the party.

    • The Age of Surveillance Capitalism by Shoshana Zuboff
    • GM, Ford CEOs Pressure Trump on Right to Repair Laws
    • Tennessee Grandmother Jailed After AI Error
    • Iyanla Reacts to Domestic Violence Rise in 2020
    • Surveillance Pricing
    • FlockHopper

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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • Let’s Talk About Catfishing [TEASER]
    Aug 13 2026

    For this patreon-only conversation, we met up at a local favorite, Americano Lounge, to discuss the many forms catfishing takes in queer communities.

    Both of us have been catfished more times than we can remember. Once you spend enough time on the apps, you of course develop something of a sixth sense when it comes to grainy, overcropped photographs and chatty blank profiles.

    But we also recognize the pressures bearing down on us—the pressures to be fit, masc, white, and young in order to be deemed desirable and make connections. When we meet each other increasingly less and less in the real world, how do men who believe they’re #betterinperson meet other men?

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    6 mins
  • Standing Tall w/ Rep. Gloria Johnson
    Aug 6 2026

    Member of the ‘Tennessee Three’ Rep. Gloria Johnson is an educator at heart. Sometimes, that means being a teacher voice in the legislature (read: asking her republican colleagues ‘if you can hear me clap once!’ ‘if you can hear me clap twice!’), but it always means standing in the gap for all Tennesseeans. Join us in this honest conversation about Gloria’s new podcast, Standing Tall with Gloria Johnson, and spilling a little sweet tea on corruption in Tennessee politics.

    • Rep. Gloria’s Socials: votegloriaj | standingtallpod
    • Standing Tall with Gloria Johnson
    • Gloria Johnson, Knox News Sentinel

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • There’s Only One Sin in Hollywood w/ Rasheed Newson
    Jul 23 2026

    There are at least three things that you’re likely to experience in a Rasheed Newson novel: 1) A feeling of period-correctness 2) A well-researched ethical dilemma 3) Sex — fortunately his latest book, There’s Only One Sin in Hollywood, is no exception. Our hosts talk with Rasheed about his career as a screenwriter and novelist, but also about the importance of letting historical figures be real people.

    • Rasheed’s Socials: Instagram | Website
    • There’s Only One Sin in Hollywood
    • My Government Means to Kill Me
    • Diahann Carroll
    • Sidney Poitier
    • Bayard Rustin
    • Andrew Goodman

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    1 hr