What if the things people said about you… were never true to begin with?
In this episode of Why I Believe, I sit down with Kiersten Schlough; designer, photographer, youth leader, and woman of faith, to talk about identity, healing, and learning to see yourself the way God does.
Kiersten's journey began with bullying in middle school, feeling like she didn't fit in, and struggling to understand who she was. That struggle only deepened as she was later diagnosed with dyslexia and dysgraphia, making school even more challenging and leaving her questioning her intelligence and worth.
But that wasn't the end of her story.
Through faith, scripture, and learning to pray even for those who hurt her, Kiersten began to rebuild her identity, not based on what others said, but on what God says.
She also shares about experiencing church hurt, the pain of walking away from a place she once loved, and how God met her in that healing process in unexpected ways.
We talk about:
- Bullying and struggling to fit in
- Learning disabilities and redefining intelligence
- Praying for those who hurt you (even when it's hard)
- Navigating church hurt and finding healing
- The power of forgiveness and letting go
- How God uses even painful seasons for growth and purpose
Kiersten's story is a powerful reminder that your identity is not defined by your past, your pain, or other people's opinions.
It's defined by who God says you are.
If you've ever questioned your worth, struggled to belong, or needed healing from past hurt, this episode will speak directly to you.
You can reach Kiersten at Kiersten Schlough (Ziegler) | LinkedIn.
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