What if a childhood trauma shaped your entire life—and you decided at 65 it was finally time to be seen?
In this powerful episode of Women Getting Visible, host Christina Vidovich speaks with executive and career coach Gayle Petrillo, author of Becoming Visible, about surviving a traumatic burn accident as a toddler, spending decades hiding, and now choosing visibility, advocacy, and impact. Gayle shares how third‑ and fourth‑degree burns over 40% of her body led to a lifetime of feeling “damaged goods,” covering mirrors, staying silent in class and at work, and living with deep fears and phobias.
Gayle explains how a Dale Carnegie course, advanced degrees, braces at 50, and one emotional moment at a fundraiser cracked her invisibility open and ultimately led to her book, speaking, and burn‑safety advocacy. She talks about overcoming snake and height phobias, building a mental “toolbox” for facing fear, and how sharing her story from stages, book clubs, and corporate events gives other people permission to confront their own trauma‑based self‑doubt.
Memorable moments:
The accident that changed everything: a toppled 40‑cup coffee pot, 40% body burns, and the emotional scars that lasted for decades.
How Gayle went from covering mirrors and never raising her hand to landing almost every job she applied for by building real self‑confidence.
The snake‑phobia story: how structured exposure therapy turned terror into mastery and became a model for facing other fears.
Why naming your inner critic, talking back to it, and sharing your story out loud can be the beginning of true healing and visibility.
Listen if you are a woman carrying old trauma, fears, or phobias who is ready to stop hiding and start building a new, more visible chapter.
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Episode 8 – Christina Vidovich & Gayle Petrillo
Women Getting Visible 2026©
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