This episode was meant to discuss the conclusion to Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are, which turned out to be a teeny, tiny non-chapter. But not to fear! Tommy and Amy pounce on a recent New Yorker article entitled, "The Billionaires' Vagina Club" and manage to turn it into their longest episode ever—the appetizer becomes the main course!

Mentioned in this Episode:

"The Billionaire's Vagina Club" by Melanie Thernstrom, The New Yorker, June 26, 2026

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

"Women's sexual health: desire, arousal, and orgasms, navigating perimenopause, and enhancing satisfaction with Sally Greenwald, M. D., M.P.H." Peter Attia's The Drive Podcast

Original Music:

Song: Wandering Boy

Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth

Album: Coach Barbarian

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Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

In this last chapter of Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are, Amy & Tommy discuss the the practice of happiness, how Nagoski misses the idea of play, and how we are all swimming in a patriarchal hot tub. Also, cross-body bags and DECIDING. To decide is to educate your monitor. It totally works.

Mentioned in this Episode:

"What Science Knows About Grief" in The New Yorker

DTF St. Louis

Hot Jason Bateman

Ted Lasso

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph. D.

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins

Magnificent Sex by Peggy Kleinplatz, Ph. D. and A. Ménard, Ph.D.

Muistardeaux Collective

Original Music:

Song: Sleepy Little Heart

Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth

Album: Shong's Order

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Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

Are all orgasms created equal? What in the actual world? Tommy and Amy discuss the finer points of Chapter 8 of Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are. Actually, they discuss ALL the points! There are spicy details not to be missed, including a mansplained orgasm. For reals.

Mentioned in this Episode:

The Husbands by Holly Gramazio

Indian Heaven

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph. D.

"I know it when I see it."

Magnificent Sex by Peggy Kleinplatz, Ph. D. and A. Ménard, Ph. D.

WIfehouse by Sonia Walger

DTF St. Louis, HBO Max

Clackamas Fire

Original Music:

Song: Hani Sani

Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth

Album: FM Perspective

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