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You Control You

You Control You

Written by: ShaH Evans
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You Control You is a podcast hosted by Mark ShaH Evans, diving deep into personal growth, relationships, and the power of self-discipline. We explore cultural differences, gender perspectives, marriage, and much more. Join us for real conversations, practical advice, and motivational insights to help you take control of your life, one decision at a time. Tune in and discover the strength within—you control you. https://linktr.ee/YouControlYouShaH Evans Self-Help Success
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  • From Nothing to Legacy | Gregory Doby Jr.
    Apr 24 2026

    In this conversation, we explore the journey of self improvement and self development, discussing various success habits that can lead to personal growth. This podcast-style discussion is designed to offer insights and actionable steps for anyone looking to refine their approach to life. Join us as we dive deep into strategies for building a stronger self. https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • Morgan Freeman vs. Black History Month: The Debate Nobody Wants to Have
    Apr 24 2026

    In this powerful discussion, we dive into the complexities of Black History Month, questioning its role and impact on American history.We explore whether Black history should stand on its own—or be fully integrated into American history year-round—and how different perspectives, including voices like Morgan Freeman, challenge the way we think about race, identity, and education.This conversation breaks down how history is taught, what may be left out, and why these discussions still matter today.The goal isn’t to divide—it’s to understand the full story.Linktree - https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

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    49 mins
  • After She Cheats, Most Men Make This Mistake
    Apr 8 2026

    Infidelity changes everything.In this episode of You Control You, I talk about something most men never say out loud — what it feels like after the woman you love cheats on you.A lot of people assume the answer is simple: just leave. But the truth is more complicated than that. Many men stay. Not because they are weak, but because life, family, children, pride, love, and years of shared history make the decision far more complex.Men are often taught to endure pain quietly. To keep moving forward. To hold everything together for the family. But what happens when betrayal enters the relationship?In this conversation we break down:Why men sometimes stay after infidelityThe emotional pain men rarely talk aboutHow trust can be rebuilt (or why sometimes it can't)The pressure men feel to hold everything togetherThe role of communication and forgiveness in healingThis episode isn't about blaming anyone. It's about understanding the reality of relationships, pain, and growth.Because at the end of the day, healing still comes down to one thing:You control you.Linktree - https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

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    50 mins
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