Before the dungeon, there was Afghanistan. The Circus. Meditation. The UN. A search for something true. This is how I found it and why I'm bringing you in.

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After two years, over a hundred episodes, and a million listens - this is the final episode of the #teakink podcast. What began as a voice on a sofa became something much bigger - a space to think out loud, connect across borders, and be in conversation with those of you who listened, shared, and carried it with you.

'You Will Please Me' is the next chapter - more intentional, and even more intimate. Eva Oh's new podcast is on the horizon - with deeper focus, more solo episodes, and a continued unfolding of power, presence, and becoming.

Thank you for being part of this journey. The exchange isn’t over - it’s only changing shape.

Mistress Wei joins Eva Oh to talk latex in the tropics, sex parties in Singapore, and building a thriving kink career in one of Southeast Asia’s most discreet yet dynamic BDSM scenes. From her first session to public perceptions and regional fetish culture, Wei shares how she’s carved out a space for power, play, and pleasure—with a mask on, of course.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Mistress Wei, a Dominatrix in Singapore

(02:20) - From a Random DM to Shadowing a Session

(05:00) - Latex Fetishists in Humid Singapore

(07:50) - Shibari in Singapore

(08:55) - Kink Population in London vs Singapore

(10:50) - How to Find Sex Parties in Singapore

(13:30) - So Many Achievements Already!

(16:50) - Singapore's Public Perception Relations

(21:40) - Who Attends Singapore's Sex Parties

(24:30) - Bangkok Fetish Ball

(25:00) - Singapore, South East Asia's Biggest Kink Community

(26:00) - Masks, Anonymity and What it's Like Being Recognised

(32:40) - Words of Encouragement from Mistress Wei